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mom and boyfriend
Well, I recently got a boyfriend, and my mom doesnt know. She is kindof uneasy about that kind of stuff, and I dont know how to tell her, in a nice manner. any ideas??
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Just mention to her casually sometime whenever you're sitting around or if she asks if there's anything new going on, and let her know you meet this nice guy in school and he's alot of fun, and tell her about him. And then the next time you go to hang out somewhere with him, bring a few other friends along so your mother doesn't suspect like you two are alone together somewhere doing something. And whenever she drops you off, just be like,"Oh yeah mom! This is that nice guy I told you I met, _____." And just have him introduce himself and such. [ Also let him know that your mom doesn't know yet, so he doesn't let anything slip out ]. And then later whenever you get home, ask her what she thought of him, and be like,"Well, he asked me out awhile ago, and I told him yeah." I hope I helped. <3
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First off, just tell her you met this really nice boy at school. Mom's love it when daughters talk to them about this kind of stuff. Pick a day to go to the movies, and tell your mom that your meeting a group of people and that he will be there, but your with a group. Group + Guy is good for moms Guy+ no group is bad. lol, i dunno, it just works like this for some reason. After you've "hung" out iwth him for a while, go home and tell your mom that he asked you to be his girlfriend. If you tell your mom about him, the things you two have in common, she should go for it, it might take some time though. But, its not lieing to your mother which is good. Hope I helped. Happy Summer :)
-Brina
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Tell her that you really like this guy at first and how much he means to you and when he asked you to be his girlfreind you couldnt help but say yes.Tell her your mature enough to be in a relationship.But dont expect to not get a lecture if youre 13.
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you should start talking to her and you should hint around a little bit. like say, "i have this really close guy friend, and i mean close. and i kind of like him." and start talking about him. tell the things that you really like about him.
she should understand. after all, even if she doesn't like the idea that you have a boyfriend, she can't make you guys break up, that's your choice.
hope i helped. :)
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well I really think you should just wait at least a week, and see if it's worth telling your mom about.. if you decide that you want to tell her, just start talking about him, and tell her he's a really good person, and that you have liked him for a while, so now you're going out. I hope I helped:]
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You have to ease it in on her. Start off by introducing him to her as a friend. If you aren't ready to introduce him. Tell her about him. Say hey mom, i have this friend, and he's really nice (and tell her something about him) And as time goes by tell her you life him, and eventually you can tell him that y'all are dating.
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