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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

ok i have liked this girl named kari 4 a very long time and she likes me she goes 2 my school and lives close 2 me i dont like her i love her and i kno it but i datid her 1ns and then we broke up b/c she still had fellins 4 her x i rlly wanna date her agn what should i do

P.S.im 13



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You should defenetly ask her back out. I mean if you both like each other then go for it! Dont wait for like ever! ♥

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Sorry, I already asked this, but by accidenlty posted it under music instead of theatre:
I got choosen to be an extra in a FEATURE FILM! I was so excited about it, because I live in Connecticut, so I don't really have the oppurtunity to participate in real movies, until now. However I don't know what to do because the day I am called for to be an extra is this upcoming Saturday. On Sunday I am going to New Jersey for the day, for a family party. The Thursday of the next week finals in my school start, as well. No that I have all of this going on, my parents are telling me that they do not think it is a good idea for me to do this movie. The movie location is an hour drive from my house, and it films from 8 in the morning until around dinner time. I just don't know what to do, because my parents say that ultimatley it is my deceision, but they don't think it's right with finals coming up, & me not being home all weekend (plus i have drivers ed all this week). I really want to do this though, because I have never had the experience before, and I don't know if an opputunity like it will ever come again! WHAT SHOULD I DO??
By the way, my mom keeps telling me she has thought long & hard, and does not think it is a good idea, but it is still my choice. The way she says it makes me feel guilty, because I know she doesn't want me to, and I also feel bad because it is an hour away, which takes up her whole Saturday because she has to go there & back & there & back to pick me up. I just am so confused! Oh & I already told my friends about it, so I feel stupid telling them I am not (but that's not my main worry)..

I honestly think that you should take that oppritunity!! I mean its just one and only chance and you can always make up your finals. It doesnt matter if its an hour away I mean its totally worth it. Not a lot of people get this oppritunity so defenetlly go for it. Tell your mom that this is something you want to do and not to put too much presure on you!! Have fun babe! ♥

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can you get herpes from drinking out of other peoples drinks that have it????

ill rate high

No.

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I have never smoked and this is my first time smokeing. I smoked 3 full ciggs. Can that make you sick or will I be okay???

You cant get really sick but you will get addicted and your teeth will be yellow. Ive smoked before and now I defenetlly dont anymore but if you seriously keep it up you will get lung cancer. Each cig you smoke you take 3 not 5 minutes off your life. ♥

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is it normal for a guy to be exhausted after having sex for the first time?

Yea and all the other times too.

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Why cant they say dont phunk with my heart on z100 (or whatever radio station you listen to) they say dont mess with my heart. it isnt a bad word!! please help me im so confused ill rate high!

Because it sounds like they are saying fuck. Its lame! And they do the same thing with the Wait (Whisper song) but they have to. ♥

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does anyone know the name of the song california ?? lol its the theme song for the O.C. and does anyone know where you can get the code for it (like so i can put it on myspace)
thanks lotz

Its called California and if you want the video try looking at www.musicvideocodes.com ♥

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hey does anyone know where i can get some good jeans? but not like hundred dollar ones lol

Well , go to like JC Penny or Dillards or Khols. I dont think they are very expensive there. American Eagle, Hollister had jeans for like 40-60 Abercrombie, Pacsun. ♥

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when you go to the doctor to get your physical, can they tell if you have done anything with anyone? like if you have been fingered or had sex?

No the regular doctor cant tell and they arnt supposed to even look. They wont know so its okay. L0L! ♥

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my friend and her boyfriend broke up and decided to be friends. When I seen them they told me and he was like yeah do you wanna go out I think he was joking but I don't know. I do kinda have a crush on him if I give them time to fix whatever they are doing would it be wrong to go out with him?

Dont go out with him. Your friend is probally not even over him and it would hurt her a lot if you went out with him. I mean I know you like him and all, but friends ALWAYS come before guys and you need to know that. You should ask him if he was serious or not and I mean if you still like each other maybe you could try going out later on. ♥

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Hi I just got my period, I live withm y dad so its awkward to talkt to him about thta stuff. Can anyone tell me the normal how long it runs, ect stuff like thta\


PLEASE HELP!!

thnaks:)

It really depends. Your first time it could last for about 2-5 days. Hes your dad so just ask him to take you to the store to get you pads or tampons. You might get cramps which is normal so get Midol. You can also put something warm on your stomach which always helps cramps and if you drink milk. ♥

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I can never make up my mind about things. Like once I was asked to make out with someone but I couldnt decide. Does any one know a good way to make up your mind?

If you tried thinking a little bit harder that would make life so much easier!!! How hard is it to make up your mind if you want to make out with some one. I mean you probablly just wernt into that person so no worries. But sometimes things are harder to decide about. ♥

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does anyone know the code for kelly clarckons (sp) new video behind these hazel eyes ... thanks ♥

Go to www.musicvideocodes.com It will be easier if you just do it from there. ♥

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Is it possible to have sex before you have your period?

Yea, you can have sex whenever but its just not okay while you are on it. I mean it is its just kinda gross. Use a condom!! ♥

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My four friends and I were at the movies the weekend after school was out. So naturally, lots of people were there, including my crush. Don’t know him at all, to tell the truth. He goes to a different school, a couple years older- you know. I know him from friends and church and just other stuff. Anyways, we happened to go to the same movie lucky for me, and then his friend starts talking to us. And before we knew it, we were invited to my crush’s end of the year party that was the next day. My crush’s friend asked the address and stuff and my crush told him and the times and all that. So it was ok with my crush that we were going/invited. He knows who I am. Does this mean anything do you think that he was ok that we were going. I mean, he's older and all that, so it would be strange if we had showed up. What do you think? And any other thoughts?

If he was fine with you going that its okay. I mean he probablly wanted to see you there. Dont make it a big deal tho. If he didnt want you to come he would of said so and it doesnt matter. ♥

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well im 14 & i have braces. i still suck my thumb. i need to stop like bad! every time i try i just go back to it. please give me some tips i can use to break this habit. its embarassing. thank u so0 much hun! ♥

I dont really know how because I never had that habit but when ever you want to suck your thumb chew gum. Gum gets rid of a lot of bad habits like smoking and such. If you keep your mouth and your hands busy you wont suck it as much. ♥

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I've been so confused lately. If anyone wants to know I'm 13 and I want to know if their is a difference between a handjob and a blow job? If their is please explain!

I RATE High!

Handjob is where you put your hand down a guys pants and ya know.. and a blow job is where you suck the guys dick. ♥

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i feel kinda weird asking this, but i really need help.

my chest is practically non-existant. and when i say non-existant, i MEAN non-existant.... i'm barely even a double A and i'm 16! i can't wear dresses and my choices of shirts are extremely limited because of it. i need to know how i can make my boobs GROW! i'm a gymnast, so i don't think eating a lot of fatty foods would be a good idea.

thx!
i rate high for good answers!

You dont have enough body fat tho. You cant make your boobs grow you just have to wait until you are older. The only thing you can do now is wear padded bras. Thats the only thing that will make them look bigger. ♥

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this is a question for the girls. I just recently straightened my hair for the first time and like ive never really styled it in anyway so i have no idea what to do with it now. its kinda long but sorta short like its not shoulder length but in front it goes down past my eyebrows and so long story short im wonderin wut kind of hairstyles girls like on guys and how to do those thanks much i rate very high.

On guys I dont like straight hair. Espesilly if its long. If you had it shaggy and if it flipped out.. that would be soo hot! You can use some hair silk or gel to make it how ever you want. ♥

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If you think you might be nuts, but are not sure, does that mean you can't be nuts... because, like you are questioning it so it can't be true...

am i nuts?

YEA T0TALLY!! ♥

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