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a party invite
My four friends and I were at the movies the weekend after school was out. So naturally, lots of people were there, including my crush. Don’t know him at all, to tell the truth. He goes to a different school, a couple years older- you know. I know him from friends and church and just other stuff. Anyways, we happened to go to the same movie lucky for me, and then his friend starts talking to us. And before we knew it, we were invited to my crush’s end of the year party that was the next day. My crush’s friend asked the address and stuff and my crush told him and the times and all that. So it was ok with my crush that we were going/invited. He knows who I am. Does this mean anything do you think that he was ok that we were going. I mean, he's older and all that, so it would be strange if we had showed up. What do you think? And any other thoughts?
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I hate to say this, but it doesn't mean anything. Except that he's pretty great to let younger people come to his party. He must have had a good time hanging out with you and your friends, so that's one good thing. However, I think in this case he just thought you guys were fun and might enjoy the party. Plus, the more the merrier. No other thoughts, really. But he seems like a worthy crush to me.
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If he was fine with you going that its okay. I mean he probablly wanted to see you there. Dont make it a big deal tho. If he didnt want you to come he would of said so and it doesnt matter. ♥
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From the way you've said all this, I dont think your crush seems all that into you. However, it seems as though his friend is. I think you should go to the party and see how things go down. Maybe if you hang out with them you'll understand them better. Good luck =D
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i think he wasjust ok with you going..i dont think he likes you but you never know, he might do something at the party. just careful tho, hes older and more experienced...sorry this is so late. <3
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Well, as far as "meaning anything", I would not get my hopes up that you guys are going to be girlfriend and boyfriend now. But I think that he likes you in a platonic way (and maybe he's thinking about you romantically--just a little, though). If he invited you to the party, you should definitely show up! If you don't, you will regret it forever, trust me. Or...did you mean you didn't go and now you are not sure about it? A little hard to tell. Well, if it hasn't happened yet I think you should go to the party and if you already didn't go...talk to the guy! Make other plans with him, maybe.
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I'm a bit confused on whetheR you decided to attend the paRty oR not. What I get fRom youR question is that you DID NOT go????? Would that be coRRect? And I suppose if he was inviting a *TON* of people to the paRty that he could have just thought of you as being just anotheR face in the cRowd, ya know?? I honestly couldn't say if this means he "likes you, likes you", because I wasn't theRe to actually SEE his behavioR and WITNESS his body language. BUT THINK OF IT THIS WAY: He OBVIOUSLY doesn't have any NEGATIVE thoughts oR feelings about you.. oR else the invitation would NOT have been extended in the fiRst place, ya know?? And noooo... I don't think it would have been "stRange" foR you to show up at this paRty simply, because you'Re a few yeaRs youngeR. I think it would only be "stRange" if you *MADE* it stRange; such as... just sitting in one spot all night, not Really mingling oR moving aRound much at all Really, and not even at least *tRying to make conveRsationa with him. And if you feel insecuRe about talking to him, you Really shouldn't. Just take a deep bReath, tell youRself "I CAN DO THIS", and go foR it -- I have COMPLETE faith in you!! And whetheR oR not he is 'inteRested', so to speak, in you.. shouldn't Really make THAT much of a diffeRence, because in MY opinion... any man who is even a QUARTER of a man would be willing to talk to you just foR having enough couRage to actually appRaoch him fiRst!! I think you should definitely tRy to get to know this guy betteR. I know he attends a diffeRent school, but maybe you know someone that DOES go to school with him?? Also, you could tRy stopping by his favoRite hang outs moRe often, and hope foR anotheR Run-in. Goodluck to you; hope this helps!! Know that you can *always, *always, *always come back to me if you'Re eveR in need of a second opinion! Take caRe! :)
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