about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

would you date someone older than you?

I would only date someone about 2 years older then me. ♥ ex__oOh

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hey all do any of you know what www.applesauce.com is?

Ive had it for a while a long time ago. And its just to use other colors on AIM like the ones we dont get. You can use codes with it also. Try it. ♥

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does sex hurt the first time

Yes.

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HOW much alcohol is in wwine

It has about 11-15% alcohol. ♥

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ok, so i went to my friends pool party, and it was 4 hours long, so i got soooo sunburnt that i look like a giant tomato!! and it really hurts!!! but that's not what i'm concerned about. i got like sooooo tan!!!! is their anything that'll make me get whiter again? WITHOUT surgery?!! i rate high!!!

You cant get rid of a tan even with surgery unless you do somethin stupid like Michael Jackson! L0L! Tans fade away after a few weeks. I dont know why you would want to be white again? L0L.. but dont worry it will go away. ♥

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ok i bought a siamese kitten and she keeps on crying all the time! The only time she does not cry is when i hold her she is 10 weeks old but she keeps me awake all night and now i feel so tired and i have not gone to school.How can i stop her crying???

Your kitten has to get used to everything first. Its still very young and it missed its mom. It will stop crying but it really likes being with you so it needs your attention. Just play with it but it will learn on its own soon. It just crys because its so young and it probablly wasnt ready to separate from the mother. ♥ `

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Sorry its a little standard but i will try to make it quick, My mate likes a guy, who only likes her as a friend. She acted like she didnt mind but i think it hurt a bit. Anyway, today i found out he likes me, but i only like him as a friend, plus he is a year younger than me. so 3 questions, do i tell her? If so how do i tell her? and how do i let him down gently?

I dont think that you should tell her. The reason why is because you dont like him. She probally was hurt tho so if you tell her he likes you instead she will be crushed. When you talk to him let him know that you only like him as a friend and that you could never go out with him because your friend likes him and that would hurt her. He would understand. ♥ ex___oOh

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Hey-
I just found out that next year I have first period gym which sucks majorly. I was wondering if anybody knew any sweatproof or waterproof make-up that won't smear even after gym. I will have little time to touch up after gym. Thanks

Revlon waterproof mascara is really good!! NYC make up is the bomb! And some MAC.. ♥

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How can i get the IP address of someone that has asked me a question... the only info i have is the question...

No one can.. the only people on this site who can are level 2 and 3 moderators. I know it sucks but its just how it is! Grr! ♥

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Okay, well i started dating this gurl about 2 weeks ago and she is my 1st gurlfriend. We were at her house and she wanted to make out but i have never done it before and hse has amny times before. I did it anyways but then she kept on wanting to make out and i just went with it but i didnt "feel" anyhthing. I dont know if I just have to get used to it or i just dont like her anymore.... but today i took her to my aunts house for a graduation party for my cousin and i didnt feel comfortable around her AT ALL and i kinda avioded her and didnt talk much to her and i think she notcied i was acting strange but i dont know weather i should break up with her or not..... and now i get these stomach aches when ever i think about us making out and it makes me "sick" kinda and i dont want to hang out with her that much anymore cause i think all she wants to do is make out and I dont want to btu its hard to avoid her much cause we talk on the phone every night(since we were realyl good friends before the dating) and i ahve a lot of calsses with her and now our graduation dance is coming up and i dont really want to dance with her anymore..... what shoudl i do cause i dont want ot break up with her reight before the dance....=( ill feel too bad

O0h wow!! L0L! That sucks tho!! Hmm.. Kinda seems that you dont really have strong feelings for her at all and it doesnt sound like you even like her anymore. I mean when you get your first kiss you have to feel something but since you havent she really isnt your type or something... I think that you should give it a little bit more time and see if your feelings will change. Dont dump her before the dance because she would be crushed. Trust me.. and you would end up being the bad guy. You need to comfort her and tell her that you are'nt all about making out and if she really likes you she will defenetlly understand. Thats just all you need to do. Good luck!!!! ♥

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ok...there is this guy i like n he likes me...i need 2 prove 2 him i like him...so im going 2 kiss him...what are different ways 2 pull someone in for a kiss so it will be aggresive but also romantic and sweet...i have thought of like...pulling him towards me by his shirt and then gently touching his cheek n softly kissing him. trust me that he wants me 2 be aggressive and romantic n sweet...all i want advice on are as many different ways u can come up with 2 pull him in for a kiss...thanx luv yaz bye

There is so many ways that you can kiss someone. I think that what you are doing sounds good. Tell him that you have something important to tell him and act like you are going to whisper in his ear and then just slowly start kissing him!! He will defenetlly like that!! ♥ x0`

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What should you write in a love letter, and what should you not write?

obviously you don't want it to be corny but still to be sincere... I'm going to write one but I'm unsure of what to say.

is it too corny to put some song lyrics in from a song we both like that makes me think of him? He doesn't know that I like him, i don't think so. Just clearing things up... I don't want to regret it later.

When you are writing a love letters you shouldnt think of what to write. You need to write exacly how you are feeling and how much you like this guy. Thats all I can say. If he is really respectful you shouldnt worry about sounding corny because if you are writing it I mean to you it might sound a bit corny at times but he will appreciate it a lot. Just write how you feel and thats the best you can do!! ♥

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I just got new liquid eye liner. I thought it would be easier than the other stuff, but it isn't. When I put it on it looks weird and I can normally fix it but it still doesn't look right. Are there any tips I can use to make this stuff not look so gross? I'm pretty good with make-up, but when it comes to this stuff, I can't get it to look right.

I honestly think that liquid eyeliner is worthless and it sucks!! I wouldnt use it because you can do the same thing with normal eyeliner. The kind you got is probablly not so good so try changing the brand. When you are applying it put it as close to your eyelid as you can so it looks normal. Also dont use too much of it and go over it twice. ex___oOh ♥

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how do i scrunch my hair?

After you take a shower you should towel dry your hair. Then take moose and then put it everywhere in your hair and scrunch it! After that take hairspray and spary a lot. Then, you can eather blowdry it for about 5 minutes or just go in your room and turn the fan on! ex__oOh ♥

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how do u get the URL for your advice column so u can put it in your aim profile ?

Click on Your Advice Column and then just coppy the website. ♥

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There is This Girl I like but i dont no if she likes me what should i do

Tell her that you like her. She would probally like you too!! =] You need to tell her before its too late. ♥

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how long does a hickey last??? is there a way to get rid of it faster?????

Take a small spoon and keep it in the freezer for about 15 minutes. Take it out and put it on your hickey. It does work. You can also try covering it up with makeup! ♥

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what do guys consider slutty?
no dumb ass answers thnx

I dont think that any girl is a slut by the way she dresses. If someone has sex with a whole bunch of guys I think thats a slut. ♥

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What is 1st, 2nd, 3rd, and 4th base? I've been told a lot but I can never remember! I know 4th is all the way though. A guy I know told me he wanted to go to 3rd base with me and I dont know what it is. And I'm wondering what the other bases are too. Help!

L0L a lot of people dont know this. ♥Its:

1. Make out
2. Fingering/Handjob
3. Oral sex
4. Home.. sex

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What do you think is the best spelling Of Molly?
--Molly
--Mollie
--Molli
--Or any others you think of! :)
Thanks a bunch

I defenetlly like Mollie the best!! ♥

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