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I joined this site when I was very young (hence the ridiculous username) but now I feel I'mn old enough to give out advice.Ask me anytime. I have had my fair shares of family issues, as well as good at solving relationship problems.
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does anyone know that poem that goes something like this..
belts with stars. boys with cars
report card fears. cell phone bills? and i dont know the rest
-Big Dreams - Stupid Fights
-Sleepy Days - Endless Nights
-Broken Hearts - Mascara Tears
-Cell Phone Bills - Report Cards Fears
-Clothes Too Tight - Shoes Too Hgh
-Out Past Curfew - Another Lie
-Eye Shadow Colour - Midnight Black
-Lipgloss Flavour - Cherry Attack
-Belts With Stars - Boys With Cars
-We're From Venus - Theyre From Mars
-That's Not All - Much More To Hear
-Just A Taste Of...
-TEENAGE YEARS
Hope I helped,
Sadie
ok well i am 13 ok n my bf iz older then me ok nd he keeps pressuring me into things what should i do? cuz like i have been goin out with him for awhile now n he iz like telling me wat to do n shit n its very confusing n on msn he keeps telling me to flash him n finger myself on cam ok nd i dont no wat to do about that either ok plzzz help me i dun no wat to do!!!
He just wants to get his hands in your knickers and he is not worth it all.He wants to take advantage of you - for god sakes, you're thirteen,if anyone found out the stuff that you were doing (just say that you are) then you'd be named as a slut and you'll have all sorts of people wanting you for things, it will then eventually hit your parents and what will their rections be??Tell him you don't want to do that kind of stuff - if he dont respect you bounce girl because no boy is worth it.You want to do that kind of stuff with a special one - THE one, and heck your no where nearky old enough.He'll probarbly end up having sex or raping you dear and you'll terroized and pregnant, and no I'm not exaggerating.It happens all the time.He's older than you and he should know better.Tell him to repect that you dont want to do it.
im 13.
and ive only had 1 bf
and he was younger then me
well he stayed back a year but still
he was so short and stuff differnt!!
is this bad
whats some ways i could get a boyfriend?
How would you feel if you were held back a year and the only person you could to talk to was your boyfriend,you felt so lonley and short and undeveloped, and then he judged you and then dumped you?Not nice because it is just what you did.SOOO what if he is short and stuff its what iinside counts and if everybody judged then we'd never know anyone.You're totally out of order and it is the truth.I can understand if you didnt like him but dumping him because of that is very cruel.
They way you can get a boyfriend.If you stop looking love will find you.There won't be a particualr boy @ school or wherever you go like a club that will be that "special person" that you'll want to stay with for a long time it is very hard.Don't try to get one,think of all the ones you've had and think, did you LOVE THEM??You should find a boy who is sweet and wants to know you and WANTS to be with YOU.YOU need to be dedicated towards one an other.Just be yourself and thats all there is to it.Because if your busy being someone else, their only loving the person who isnt actually you.
So I have a pretty good relationship with my Lord and Savior- Jesus Christ. A strange (but not bad) thing happened to me back in september- and I have yet to figure out why He did this.
This is what happened: I was 13 over the summer- and I spent the whole time crying because I was single and I felt unloved and unworthy of having a relationship. I was praying for a boyfriend a lot too. I felt God speak to me and tell me that he would send me a nice boy who was new to my theater group (that starts in september) who would hit on me. He didn't lie- because on the first night of the class this amazingly attractive and nice 17-yr-old guy told me I was pretty and he asked for my number. I felt like I was dreaming. He called me later that night and started talking to me and we were setting up a date and then he told me how he had Asberger's Syndrome.
So, my point is- I don't see why God would send me such a perfect man exept for his mental disorder. When we figured out it wouldn't work out- it left me in the worst depressed state. I turned to alcohol as well.
I'm confused.
If anyone has any ideas- they'd be greatly appreciated.
God works in mysterious ways.
You thought this boy was sent by god to you, maybe he was and maybe he wasn't.God does so many things that we dont undertstand, he could of been testing your loyalty and faith - to see if you'd give the relationship a try.
Noones actually knows why God does these things.But what I do know is that something good will always come out of it, whether its in a few years time or months.
Maybe this by wasnt sent by god.Maybe he was just there.Or even satan could of sent him.We just never know.If we never try , we'll never know.
Because we dont know if god sent him, I cant fully answer your question.
Lets say he did send him, god may have sent him to try and make you learn something from this, or maybe it was a test.But in the end it didnt work out and you turned to achoal, maybe the thing he wanted you to learn could be
-Don't let evil and pain let you down and lose your faith
-Find your faith and use it, and never turn to satan objects like achoal,
-Don't always pray for the things you WANT, but the things that you NEED and what the WORLD needs.
Everything happens for a reason.
This is a true life experience for me, but my cousins were abused.We never knew this.Their mother died and their father didnt want them so they ended up living with us.The good thing that came out of it was that we have to new beautiful people who arent hurt and scared anymore and have a better life than before.Something will happen to you that is good.But dont get your hopes up the minute you get something you want.
14/f
my usualy daily meals are for
breakfast 7;30 am- cereal (wheates or cheerios) maybe some fruit
lunch 12:45 am- sandwitch, fruits, carrots, some wheat thins or crackers
snack 3:30 pm (aferschool): wheat thins or some snack (no junk food)
dinner: depends? usually a meal
then before bed: sandwitch or small bowl of cereal
is this too much or just enough? i am trying to loose some lbs and mostly just be healthy. i dont eat junk food really and no candy for lent. i also run for 20 minutes a day. what else can i do or am i fine?
I think you're doing really well, I suggest you keep going and get loads of fluids in you, especially water and milk.If you drink milk and eat bananas it will really fill you up so you wont have to eat as much.Keep going x
omg. i have a singing competition TOMORROW well i have to hand in the form to what song im singing. i have no freaking clue what song i will choose. ive thought of these so far..
Bye bye blackbird - Shirley Bassey
If I ain't got you - Alicia Keys
Over the Rainbow - Wizard of Oz
Fly like a bird - Mariah Carey
Deja Vu - Beyonce (but i cant get all those high notes. the same with the mariah carey song. i cant sing EXTREMELY high like they do, but like at a moderate level i guess)
any other suggestions? seriously give it your best shot cause tomorrow i'll wake up and just choose whichever song you guys pick before i go to school. it means alot to me and its for a teens art festival coming up soon. i think i sing pretty good.. maybe i could practice in front of my parents and friends to see if im good.. im kinda shy about singing around people that arent my family though, too. like usually in chorus people sing super high especially for this broadway musical im in now called Oliver!. sometimes i have to fake sing cause i wanna sound like the other kids and not sing too.. like.. different. my parents are from africa so like.. no offense but i dont really sing like white people (im not racist!!!!!! lol just to make that clear). but like any song sugestions? i guess i'd be an alto.. sometimes i can get a little higher but not too high like da sopranos. thankyou!
13/f
I think alcia keys would be better than the others, fly like a bird is very very hard and I think deja vu is to.Go with If I ain't got you as that is very very well known and people love a good well known!
i really wanna sing this song for my talent competition called "fly like a bird" by mariah carey. but i cant get the really high notes that she does. would it be okay to like make them like kinda less high? without totally screwing the song. thanks.
God I absoloutly LOVE THE SONG - WEll you can tell she's my idol because of my username.
If you want to make it less high, it means you have to sing the WHOLE song at a lower pitch.It's a very difficult song to sing and if you could edit it and get a lower backing track thats good to, infact I have the backing track - I got from argos but it comes with a whole loet of other songs.
I think though it would be ok to make it lower!You go girl!!!!!!!If there is a gutairst that would be good too!
Is there a website for music lovers, like theres flickster for movie lovers?
*~bEaUtIfUlLyBrOkEn~*
For music lovers, musicjesus.com or videocodezone.com but m.jesus is the best
Peak Videos is an online site which lets you watch films, but I don't know the site, I think this is it though
http://www.dailymotion.com/tag/peak
What is the most important thing when you look for love?
The most important thing for me is honesty, - how can you have a realtionship full of lies - how could you love someone who tells you lies 24/7
Trust - how can you have a realtionsip with someone who always goes "where you going" "who was on the phone"
Butterflies - I have to have a sensation of butterflies, this tells me how magic this person is.
i had a best friend
i then became friends with another girl who was going through a very hard time. i was there for her sooo much it was unbeleiveable.
my best friend didnt like my new friend and was constantly bitching about her to my face. my new friend didnt like my best friend and so was also bitching about her to my face. so i was stuck in the middle. however eventually we all became 3 good friends. then i went away for the weekend and my "best friend" got pissed off as i didnt invite her... its as if im not allowed to go away by myself!!
so anyway when i came back my 2 friends were soo quleaky and completly left me out. i would go home and just cry sometimes because there was nothing i could do. everytime id ask them why they were being like that theyd say that i was over reacting and it was me who didnt ever try and get involved. but evertime i did they would cut me short. i became so miserable at school that i dreaded going. i had no idea why they were being like this. then i found out that my ex best friend was pissed cus i went away wihtout her... so i confronted her aboout it and then we stopped talking and i didnt sit with them at lunch ect because i was sick of them treating me how they did.
then out of the blue my ex best friend texed me saying she hated us not talking and never wanted that to happen and she wished we could be friends again. i was like wow but they have done so much shit to me i dont wana run back to them.
i texed her back saying that i never wanted to not be friends either ect and i said we needded to talk. but still in school we dont talk and on msn its more like shes trying to find out what im doing as a competition rather than shes interested... like shell ask me if im going to this party and that ect....
what do i do? i just hate the bitchyness the whole time and its really getting me down... please please someone help.
Even if you'd made up, they'll still treat you like dirt and thing will never be the same.Get some confidence and talk to them and just say your sick of them treating horribly and you couldn't give a damn.Go find some new friends,suck it up.I tell it like it is, your bithcy friends are losers and over sensitive and there is no point wasting your time on you, they're always gonna be like that.Their increbily mean to you, just tell them how you feel.Dont beleive their lies saying your over exagerrating - your totally not, give them a piece of your mind.You need to feel happy and good, which mean hang with other people,people whop ae going to treat you a hell lot better,join some clubs, and go for anything that comes along, ie :talent show.And show them this isnt going to get you down.
I just thought I'd get some different opinions from different people... The question is...
What is the meaning of Love? [define love]
Thank you
I think love is something so powerful,that it can make you do anything ie : Die for someone.Love gives you sensations, ie:Butterflies.Love is beautiful and can just make you feel so happy.Once it goes,you feel like all your happiness has been sucked out of you,love ,happiness your personality, gone.Love can heal a relationship but can break it too, ie:someone falls for someone,though they're with someone else.Love just makes us happy and makes life better.Love is strong,and is hard to break,It is hard to find too, how many bfs/gfs do you go through in your're life so far?
what is a good and creative way to ask a guy to sadies? the usually asks the guy, so i'm looking for a funny and cute way to ask. thanks! :]
How about knocking on his door, and outside leave a little bear with a basketful of choccies with an envelope there,then runaway.Or if you have a sibling pay them to ring the doorbell,holding "posh" and say something like "this is from madam ....yourname..."
I think that's totally cool!.
My hair used to be naturally straight, but within the last 3(?) years it got wavy. I have no clue why, but it gradually got wavier and now when I let it dry naturally it gets frizzy and it's just so big lol. I wouldn't mind wearing it down naturally if it weren't for the frizz and huge volume. Is there a product you would recommend for this?
I use John Frieda Frizz-Ease Straightening Spray and it helps a little, but not enough to make me want to wear it down naturally.
Also, when I straighten my hair, what would you recommend to help keep it from getting too damaged? I don't do it daily but usually a few times a week.
I use john freida Frizz-Ease
http://www.ghdhair.com/go/shop-uk/index.php?cPath=25
Try using ghd products my mum uses them and she has frizz ball hair!Ghd products are really good and so are their straightners, i recommend it
I've been sick for about 5 days....
But I'm getting better...
My question is, what is a good & fast way to recover from:
1.) Lack of energy.
2.) Not being able to fall asleep.
3.) Constricted airways, lungs, cheast, throat, ect.)
1)lack of energy - my answer to that is to drink plenty of fluids, in particular orange juice,eat lots of oranges and just drink plenty.
2)Not being able to fall asleep - my answer to that is take a few naps now and then, set the alarm and have a nap for exactly for an hour,rest with a duvet,blanket over you and watch tv,you'll fall asleep because you'll be really cosy.
3)Constricted airways,lungs,chest,throt - my answer to that is to take some medicine , get lots of fresh air, and stick 2 extra strong mints in your mouth - that works perfectly!
Hope I helped,I'm exactly the same as you @ the moment.
im 13/m nd i talk to this chick on msn, she was in my grade last year, she knows i like her, ive asked her out but she said no, that was atleast half a year ago, now she likes some1 thats not me, and i really wanna b wit her xcept she wont allow me to do dat, shes coming over to my house next friday and i wanna do something for her that will make her change her mind about this other guy and go out with me, but i dunno how to,
can you please help, thanks
This post has been in another catagory, but i just realised it was place in the wrong one,
Sorry for any inconveniance
Her coming over her is a perfect idea!First off,nothing sexual okay?
Second I think you should like a little table out laid with some nice snacks,a vase and You personally make a cake - or if you can't bothered,get one!You can offer some and tell her you made it especially for her.Just be really sweet and smile,just talk and stuff.
Go win her heart.
But dont be upset if it dosnt work because not eveybody can just suddnley change their feelings and like another person.
I need an orginal song for a story Im writing, and Im just horrible at song writing. Anyone have ideas or lyrics? It should be a bit popish, or maybe even a ballad. Whatever, lol.
Thanks a ton!
To get some inspiration, looks for lyrics to songs you know, and go to allpoetry.com and see the poems and things other people write.I write a lot myself, I have loads of songs I've written, email me @ skyler-sadie4mimifanzies@hotmail.co.uk if your interested
SHORT VERSION: the best friend likes me, how do i let him off without breaking his heart.
so me and my best guy friend (imma girl duh) have been tight since 8th grade and now were in 10th and last night on the way home from the fair he gave me a note saying he likes me and knows its not gunna happen tho and how it sucks so bad etc...well yeah, hes right its not gunna happen because i dont like him like that...how do i let him off without hurting him and still keeping my buddy around..
There are to things,
Tell him that you're not really interested and you dont want to break and bond so strong
Or you could just go out with him a bit - to know you tried is good, but sitting there no knowing what could ever happen isnt right.You could grow to like him in time.
19/F
Ok this seems long and soap-opera-ish but please bear with me. I’ve gotten rid of some of the details to make it shorter but please tell me if it isn’t clear enough. And please don't rant at me about being a cheating b**** or anything. I know I am a bad bad person. I just need you to tell me what to do.
Nate has always been the typical "rich bad boy" type. He gets a pack mentality when he is with his boys so he’s labeled an official ***hole. He's had a pretty bad past and when you get him alone, he’s different. He and I go a few years back when I wasn't into the party scene, and it got around that he "wanted" me. I shot that down and he gave up. I've been intrigued by him (i.e. had a crush on him) and we always used to exchange looks all the time at school and parties and I could feel the sizzles (but wasn’t sure it was mutual). Only last year did we start talking a bit inside and outside school. Then I finished school and didn’t see him.
In May, I met Blake. He’s ridiculously good-looking, the sweetest guy ever, and a cook. I didn’t think he was into me so I backed off then recently, Blake started showing interest in me and I was thrilled. We were perfect for each other, our life goals and views were the same, we had minor arguments sometimes, which ended with practically no resentment on either end, and we always made up quickly. It was the perfect relationship. I was still a virgin but he understood because he had only been with one chick (his year-long girlfriend in grade 11).
End of last year, Nate and I ended up at a party together. I was hammered out of my mind and we had sex in a bedroom. It was harsh to the point that he did it, shoved me away and left. I was broken after. Eventually, I told Blake and he was mostly sad for me and he did whatever he could to make me feel better. Including sex and it was just like the rest of our relationship, comfortable.
Then one day, Nate showed up at my house after I saw him at the mall and went home all shaken up. We had sex. We have had sex about five times now altogether. Usually it’s when I’m vunerable. It’s pretty much casual sex but it is explosive as in really really hot, stuff I thought didn’t exist outside novels. Blake and I haven’t even come close, even though there is some sizzle, it isn’t comparable. Told Blake once and he was mad but he came back and told me he’d still have me and he didn’t understand. Usually Nate just has sex with me and sticks around for a while and leaves but one time, he actually stayed after and kissed my face and stuff.
This is what confuses me. Blake and I are perfect for each other and it’s not a completely devoid of sexual drive either but when I’m with Nate, it feels right like it’s exactly where I belong.
I’m just so afraid of hurting Blake. I want to stay with him but at the same time, I feel like puking when I think about what a disgusting unfaithful slut I’m being. And I’m pretty sure Nate doesn’t want a relationship. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t want to look back twenty years from now and regret it. I know that bad boy’s can’t be tamed but I know his history and I kind of still ache for Nate but Blake is just perfect.
Help?
I don't really think your much of a slut.
I maybe totally younger than you but what i do know is that sex dosnt mean ANYTHING - just because it can be brill dosnt mean the relationship is and it can be rubbish and the relationship is.
Don't compare them on sex.Basically,I think that you're being really selfish towards blake and your going to lose him if you keep doing stuff with nate, I apperciate you tell blake the truth about nate,have you told nate about blake?
Blake is standing right there,taking you back,wanting to know you.Nate isnt standing there
wanting a real relationship he just wants his hands in your knickers.Nate is just staying with you because he knows "how good you are".Blake wants you because he "he likes the REAL YOU".
You and Blake will have good sex, in time, remember he isnt as experience.Go with Blake not Nate.Blake sounds more loyal and loving than nate.JUst because you havnt felt much of a sizzle with blake dosnt mean there wont be one.
I think you should tell nate to clear off.And tell blake your sorry and want to try again.Do the right thing.
okay. i am telling my mom that i am staying the night at my friends house. but i really am not. i am going to spend the night with my boyfriend. one problem. she wants to talk to my friends parents. how should i get around this? and is having my friend pretend to be her mother a good idea?
thanks
Ok.Ok.Ok,
I am saying this because I know what its like
DONT DO IT!SERIOUSLY.
It is defiantly not a good idea to tell your mum,if she found otu which she will because you can never get away with anything,she'll ground you and forbid you to see him.Seriously do not so this - you'll destroy every hope and trust your mum has in you.It happened to my sister and she got into trouble and though i dont know you, I dont want you getting into trouble.Think about your mum too - for her sake.Why dont you just tell her that you'd like her to meet someone.Please Please Please, dont lie to your mum,
sadie
i'm thinking about getting my hair layered because it makes it thinner and stuff but like what does it look like and will it look good on someone with like dirty-blondish hair? thanks in advance.
Having it layered it perfect and looks dead amazing when straightened, I just had my hair done three days a go like that and it looks fab!And yes it does look good if you have dirty-blonsidh hair, loads of people i know have that hair style and their blonde too and it looks sleek,neat and really pretty!