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how can i sort it? please help
i had a best friend
i then became friends with another girl who was going through a very hard time. i was there for her sooo much it was unbeleiveable.
my best friend didnt like my new friend and was constantly bitching about her to my face. my new friend didnt like my best friend and so was also bitching about her to my face. so i was stuck in the middle. however eventually we all became 3 good friends. then i went away for the weekend and my "best friend" got pissed off as i didnt invite her... its as if im not allowed to go away by myself!!
so anyway when i came back my 2 friends were soo quleaky and completly left me out. i would go home and just cry sometimes because there was nothing i could do. everytime id ask them why they were being like that theyd say that i was over reacting and it was me who didnt ever try and get involved. but evertime i did they would cut me short. i became so miserable at school that i dreaded going. i had no idea why they were being like this. then i found out that my ex best friend was pissed cus i went away wihtout her... so i confronted her aboout it and then we stopped talking and i didnt sit with them at lunch ect because i was sick of them treating me how they did.
then out of the blue my ex best friend texed me saying she hated us not talking and never wanted that to happen and she wished we could be friends again. i was like wow but they have done so much shit to me i dont wana run back to them.
i texed her back saying that i never wanted to not be friends either ect and i said we needded to talk. but still in school we dont talk and on msn its more like shes trying to find out what im doing as a competition rather than shes interested... like shell ask me if im going to this party and that ect....
what do i do? i just hate the bitchyness the whole time and its really getting me down... please please someone help.
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Your friends are bitchy & it's never gonna change. Tell them how they make you feel, & make it clear. Give them another chance but if nothing changes after about a month, just drop them, and hang out with someone else.
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Even if you'd made up, they'll still treat you like dirt and thing will never be the same.Get some confidence and talk to them and just say your sick of them treating horribly and you couldn't give a damn.Go find some new friends,suck it up.I tell it like it is, your bithcy friends are losers and over sensitive and there is no point wasting your time on you, they're always gonna be like that.Their increbily mean to you, just tell them how you feel.Dont beleive their lies saying your over exagerrating - your totally not, give them a piece of your mind.You need to feel happy and good, which mean hang with other people,people whop ae going to treat you a hell lot better,join some clubs, and go for anything that comes along, ie :talent show.And show them this isnt going to get you down.
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hi, well there is crealy nothing you can do about the bitchiness, because at the end of the daycevery girl bitchs about everyone@ to tell the truth so do i! Anyway if your freinds keep on leaving you out all ican tell u is that they musn't be your real freinds probably using you why not try making new freinds?
hope i helped
xx
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