im 17 male,and a 15 yr old girl says having anal sex with her will not count as havinga sex with a minor ,what the truth ?
Well,in my own personal opinion that really is a form of sex because there is penetration.I'm not sure of the laws on that because they differ from state to state.I think what's more important is how you and this girl feel for each other.Sex should be something both of you want,not just a convienence,ya know?Hope this helps you some.Any more questions feel free to write back!!
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Im 13 and female. My best friend Ross is really really sweet. I like talking to him, and I feel like I can tell him anything. I broke up with my boyfriend, who is best friends with Ross too, and I started talking to Ross more. I recently started liking him. Really really having a crush on him. I think about him all the time. He has a girlfriend, but more importantly im afraid it will ruin our relationship if I tell him how I feel. I want to tell him, but how do I go about it?
Well,it is a tricky situation since he's got a girl.Maybe when you 2 have some time alone together,when you can talk.Maybe ask him if he'd like to go for a walk,or go for a ride,and then talk to him,let him know that you really don't wanna ruin your friendship,and you don't wanna lose him as a friend,but it's just really getting to be too rough to keep it inside how you TRULY feel about him.Tell him you don't want any pressure on him,but you just had to say it,you couldn't walk around for the rest of your life wondering what if.But make sure you let him know that you respect him & his g/f's relationship,if he says he's not interested.Write back and let me know what happens!!!!
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hi. i've been with my b/f for about 5 mo. and i'm 14 and he's 16. i REALLY want to have a baby! i don't know why i just ReAlLy do! but also my cuz whos 20 's g/f just had a baby and she was 17(now 18) and they really struggle with financial problems. then his bro was dating a woman last year and just 2 weeks ago found out he was a dad. i really want to have a baby! what should i do?
Look at those around you who are having babies at 20,and how much they're suffering.How much worse would that be at 14???Also,sadly,even at 20 and older,there are situations where the guy doesn't stick around,leaving the girl to take care of a baby all on her own.Even tho your b/f might tell you he'd stick around,at 16 he's gonna want his freedom,to be ridin aroun with his boys and not changin diapers.If you love babies so much,wait until you're older and financially stable,and settled with a great guy,so you can give your baby the world.You can't do that now,an that's kinda selfish isn't it?
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how do you put one in!
When you take it out of the wrapper,just put your finger in the bottom of the tampon,make sure the string is unfolded completely,and then use your finger to kinda "loosen" or seperate the bottom a bit.You just put the very tip of the applicator up to your "area" hehe,an use your finger to push(from the bottom) the tampon up thru the applicator,an into you.That's the best description I can really give!Hehehe!
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i straghten my hair with a CHI straightener (which is one of the best and really expensive ones) but i can never get my ends totally straight they always curl a lil bit...i was wondering if anyone knew something i cud do or something i cud put in it that would help...
thnxxx!!!
Sometimes a large barrel curling iron is best for the ends.It depends on whether you want your ends flipped out or under.I also really like V05 Straight Hair,gel straightner.It works great and is cheap too!!!!
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I have the worst habit of falling for guys really easy just as long as they're cute and nice. I have the tendancy to not only fall for them but to also obsess over them (read their online journals, get involved with their social life, etc) even when they've never met me before. Also, if I find out that a guy likes me, then I usually fall for him too. It's really annoying. How do I get over this stupid obsession of boys?
Ahhh,boys can be great can't they??Hehehe!But I think you should take some time out for just you.Focus on the things you like to do,maybe a sport or a hobby.Also,take time to experience new things in life,and to find new things you like,remind yourself of all your good qualities and keep that self-esteem up.Hang out with your girlfriends and have a good time just being you!You'll find that boys are much more attracted to a girl who is just being herself,having a good time,and not trying too hard.It will happen when you least expect it!! ;)
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hey..i got a problem with friends.they used to be my good friends..but now they hate me..i dun really know why, i just heard they hate me because they are jealous about me getting good results in examination last month and they say i'm proud. i want all of us to be friends as me used to.help me can my atitude
It sounds to me like a clear-cut case of jealousy.They are feeling not as good as you so instead of congratulating you,they are turning on you.Of course you're proud!You have every reason to be,but always make sure that you don't go overboard or rub it in their faces a little,ya know?Let them know that you still care about them very much and that you don't think you're better than them at all.Perhaps point out some things that they are better than you at.If they can't accept that,and continue your friendship,they were never real friends to begin with!
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i have these 2 friends one of them (we'll call her trina) is VERRRRRRRY BOSSY the other (we'll call her haley) does every thing trina says it started bugging me so i told haley why do you let trina boss you around. she said i don't let her boss me around. so finally she told trina about what i had said so then trina was mad at me so i said (she started it cuz she was being mean to me) what happened to your lackey and she started saying stuff like she's not my lackey etc. the next day i won highest GPA in 5th grade (im only 11) and they got even more jealous so now i haven't called them and they haven't talked to me. but haley sent me an e-mail saying YOU ARE WEIRD(about seven times) and the bottom line said YOU ARE REALLY WEIRD. so i forwarded back to her. what do i do. and is you took the time to read this THANKS if you will please rate me too my name is coolgirl57 (you don't have to rate me)
Well hunnie,unfortunately,some people are just gonna act that way,especially at your age,where you're really trying to figure out where you fit in and everything.You did the right thing by saying something to "haley" and trying to watch out for her.Unfortunately,she can't see that all you were trying to do is help,she only sees "trina's" point of view.Eventually they will realize what a great friend they had in you,so I would just let them be on their way for now and enjoy some time with the friends who appreciate you and are less drama!Congrats on the award!See,you're a smart girl,you'll be just fine! ;)
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what does it mean when you popped your cherry?
Typically that term means that you lost your virginity.It reffers to when you're hymen is broken,which is typically the sign that you lost your v-card!!
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im gettin braces in like 2 days, and i was wondering
does it hurt when they put them on?
or does it hurt more a fefw days later?
Hey there!!No braces don't hurt when they're being put on.For me,the worst part was the spacers I had to wear for approx. a week before they put the braces on,but even that got better.It's a breeze to get thru when they put them on,but a day or 2,sometimes even 3 days after they WILL hurt,but trust me,it's nothing you can't handle!!Just follow the dentists instructions,take ibuprofen(it's the best for the aches & pains),take it easy for about a week,an stock up on popsicles,ice cream,and jello!!Heehee!! I had mine for 2 years,and I am THRILLED with the results.It's all worth it!!
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whuts a good way to loose freckles
Hi!Well,first of all,I think freckles are cute!They're very distinctive,and great at bringin out all the pretty features of your face!While I don't think there's any "miracle way" to get rid of them(I've heard of trying lemon juice),I would say your best way to hide them would be makeup.Since I'm guessing you're fair-skinned,you should try a light-weight formula concealer.One of my favorite makeup brands is M.A.C. but since that's not in everyone's budget,I reccomend Lancome.If you have dry skin,use a moisturizing formula,and if you have combonation or oily skin,choose a lighter weight formula.I would try applying it with a makeup sponge.Try asking someone at your local Lancome or Clinique(they're a little cheaper than Lancome but still GREAT products!) counter to help you find the right shade.I wouldn't apply much else to your face w/the concealer other than maybe a tinted moisturizer,and dab a little shine-obsorbing powder on top!Oh,and if you have dry skin or are using a drying makeup,make sure to MOISTURIZE before applying ANY makeup!Hope this helps!!!
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What are some good ways to lose weight @ home??
Well,I like to do things like sit ups,and stomach crunches.But the key is,if you've never done much exercise before,to start out slow and gradually work your way up to more.Try laying on the floor with your feet against a wall,and lift up until your elbows are aligned w/your knees,and then back down.That's one good way of doing sit-ups.Another is to lay on the floor,on your back,and have someone stand behind you,@ your head,using your hips swing your legs up until the person can grab your feet and then release them back til your back to your starting position.You can also try things like jumping rope,if you have the room(maybe in a basement or something),and if you have one,get on that treadmill or stationary bike!!!And always remember,never ever starve yourself,they key is to eat several small meals throughout the day!I hope that helps some!If you have any more questions feel free to stop back! =)
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