Im 13 and female. My best friend Ross is really really sweet. I like talking to him, and I feel like I can tell him anything. I broke up with my boyfriend, who is best friends with Ross too, and I started talking to Ross more. I recently started liking him. Really really having a crush on him. I think about him all the time. He has a girlfriend, but more importantly im afraid it will ruin our relationship if I tell him how I feel. I want to tell him, but how do I go about it?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 12:08 am: Well,it is a tricky situation since he's got a girl.Maybe when you 2 have some time alone together,when you can talk.Maybe ask him if he'd like to go for a walk,or go for a ride,and then talk to him,let him know that you really don't wanna ruin your friendship,and you don't wanna lose him as a friend,but it's just really getting to be too rough to keep it inside how you TRULY feel about him.Tell him you don't want any pressure on him,but you just had to say it,you couldn't walk around for the rest of your life wondering what if.But make sure you let him know that you respect him & his g/f's relationship,if he says he's not interested.Write back and let me know what happens!!!! [ ShOrTnSwEeT42094's advice column | Ask ShOrTnSwEeT42094 A Question ]
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