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Q: well i wasnt sure if i should ask this on here since its stupid and embarrassing. but i guess i should give it a try and since people ask some question like mine...well here it goes...

can someone have herpes when they didnt do IT? or anything sexual for that matters?

well i never ever in my life...did it, or fooled around...infact i never had a stinkin boyfriend in my whole life...(sorry im so pathetic)

but anyways... today i was like about to sit down then suddenly it hurted down there... and well it kept hurting ish ,,,not that much but anyways ...so when i was using the "facility" i HAD to check, then it had this little red (kinda big) bump on my ...uh,...you know what...

can it be just a pimple? because i heard people DO have pimple down there except i never had one and i was wondering if its herpes...

so please someone help... i am scared to death if it is...

and what if it IS? can i Die from it??? or do i have to take a treatment?? because if it doesnt do anything to ya... then i might just well live with it...unless its deadly...

someone help???

genital herpes is an STD (SEXUALLY transmitted disease) so you may not necessarily have had to had intercourse but you had to be having oral or anal sex to get genital herpes. so if you havent done anything of that kind, then its most likely not herpes...

it could be a wart. keep an eye on it and if it doesnt go away in about a week or two, then i would suggest consulting a doctor about your concerns. theres also special cream in the meantime that you can get at cvs or eckards.

good luck & hope i helped- :)

Q: Tonight, I will be attending a rock concert (my first!!) with my friend & I was wondering what kind of hair styles you would reccomend. I have longish straightened honey brown hair. Thanks in advanced =] Will rate!

ponytail, messy bun, pigtails, pigtail messy buns, or one of my favorites-
part your hair down the middle and then use those little rubberbands to put your hair in six seprate sections along the top of your head. it should end like if you put your fingers at the front of your ears, then follow up your scalp til they meet.. hope that wasnt too confusing.. ag

hope i helped- :)

Q: I would like to find out about thyroid disorders and the medications that are taken and in what doses.

http://my.webmd.com/search/search_results/?filter=mywebmd_all_filter&query=thyroid+disorders&go.x=14&go.y=6

go there^^ it has lots of good information on thyroid disorders, treatment, etc!

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Q: I would like to find out about thyroid disorders and the medications that are taken and in what doses.

Q: sorry again but how do u do the following things

-make the text fly across the screen?
-set up a cursor. (like where do you put the code)
-choose abackround other than advicenators

thanks alot! i just want my column to be PERFECT!

1) ag sorry ive tried ways to show you how to do the scrolling thing, but its not workin out so good but im sure you'll find it on the link on my advice column that i gave you previously for the cute name thing (sorrry)
2) put the code in the box at the bottom once youve clicked on the 'profile settings' link
3)i just found a cute picture by searching for images w/ google. then i copied the URL then...(click 'column settings' then go down to 'your column colors' then paste the link in the space that is labeled 'page background image (URL).) it just repeats the pic for your background

if you have anymore questions just ask! :)

Q: When in doubt, pick Random Weirdos.
Um, so I'm REALLY pale. Like, my skin GLOWS when it gets in sunlight.
I've tried to tan, and all that happens is I burn a little, or nothing happens. I was at the beach with my friends, in sunlight the whole time. I had sunscreen on - just a light coating of SPF 25- 'cause I didn't want to burn, but all I got was a little pink on my shoulders.
Also, I have a tan line from my watch from last summer (never went away). Is there a way to get rid of that naturally?
Oh yeah, I CAN NOT use any self-tanners or sunless tanners, and I can't "go tanning". My mother is allergic to like, everything, and I'm still living in my house at the moment.
How do I get tanner without burning, and without "going tanning" or using sunless tanners? I'm kinda sick of being all pale.

i would suggest using banana boat tanning oil. instead of getting burned, it makes you a lil tanner. if you keep using it though itll work better and better each time. OR if you dont mind being 'temporarily' tan then you can use a body bronzer all over when your going out. it makes yous skin glow, but in a pretty way 0:).

good luck & hope i helped- :)

Q: your a loser....by the way nice picture
makes you look less retarded

hey now thats not cool. do i even know you?

Q: does anyone know where i can buy the seasons of smallville on DVD that's not ridiculously expensive?

hollywood planet, blockbuster, ebay, half price books, or a local discount book/movie store

hope i helped- :)

Q: how do you add all of the cool affects like the Big sparkly name of emily and the words goin across the screen? i want to do it to mine. please help thanks

hehe its cute isnt it lol. yeah i got it at a cool html website.. umm http://www.diamondrains.com/sparklenames.php yeah go there its really cool!! (it has most normal names) lol. just copy the html code and put it in the box under 'profile settings'

hope i helped- :)

Q: i've been itching a lot on and near my penis for a few months. does anyone know what this might be?

um are you changing your underwear at least once a day? because if your not its really bad for that area so that could be causing the itching. or if you shave that area then it could just be irritation from that. or if your sexually active, it could be the early signs of an STD. but i wouldnt be too worried about that. always wash and rinse that area also to reduce the risk of getting an infection (which you may have). keep an eye on it and make sure its not followed by smelly discharge and redness of the skin.

good luck & hope i helped- :P

Q: Has anybody ever tried the MAC powerpoint eyeliner (believe that is what it is called)? Is it really waterproof? It is worth the money?

yeah it is waterproof- but i dont think its exactly worth the money :/. but if you want to spend your money on extra things like make up- go for it lol. i personally like and use covergirl eyeliner and it seems to stay on pretty well, plus its super cheap, and you can get it at like any grocery store!

hope i helped- :)

Q: whats the best hair color dying stuff and which one lasts longest???

well if you cant go to a salon (they do it really good there and make sure they use the best kind of hair dye for your hair), then use loreal or herbal essences. between those, pick the one that has the best color for you.

good luck- :)

Q: I was removing programs to free up some disk space on my computer. I removed one that actually turns out to be a very important program but was listed under something that I couldn't quite tell what it is. Needless to say, now I know & desperately need it back. Is there anyway to retrieve removed programs?

click on the recycle bin icon on your desktop and see if the deleted file is in there. if it is, you can easily restore it!

good luck- :)

Q: My boyfriend's mom is such a BITCH. I know that sounds mean, but its the truth. He broke up w/ me and we got back together. We are together now but I haven't talked to him in 2 weeks because everytime I call she is like he's out side mowing the grass. I called 2 days ago and she said he's outside mowing the grass. I call back 3 hrs. later and she starts yelling I TOLD YOU HE'S OUTSIDE! I am very sensitive and I was like like ok. (I almost cried because she keeps yelling at me) I called back today and she said HE'S MOWING THE GRASS! Is there a way he can find out his mom is being mean to me without me telling him? If I tell him he'll tell his mom.

next time she says hes busy or whatever, just be like o okay is there a time i can call him back or can you tell him to call me back. if shes still mean, then i dono. try talking to him online instead of the fone lol. or if he has a cell phone you could just call him on that, but if he did im sure you wouldnt be asking this question.. lol

good luck- :)

Q: i know this is really dumb, but i REALLY need advice. okay well recently on myspace i got a message from this guy who was really hot and he thought i was hot, so we exchanged AIM screen names and were talking like all the time. then eventually we started calling each other and now i talk to him online & on the phone every single day. i'm starting to develop feelings for him and i don't want to. there is no chance or future for us, he lives across the country from me! i don't want to stop talking to him though because he is really sweet and funny. is there something wrong with me for liking him? is there any way i can continue talking to him without liking him like THAT ?? please help im going crazy

well i would suggest trying to keep up your frienship and only that. think of him and refer to him as FRIEND. however, i dont think theres really a way to just *stop* liking him. yano? that would be like stopping your emotions. theres nothing wrong w/ liking him!! but if you dont want to think of him like that then just keep all of your chat as friends.

good luck- :)

Q: okay well i was at my grandparents for a little get together and my aunt took a picture of me and my friend outta my purse and went around tellin everyone that he was my boyfriend, and when i found out what she was doing i freaked out and ran over and took it out of her hand and i was like, what the hell were you doing in my purse anyway.. and she was like i need your dads car keys, and im like, first of all..my dad doesnt want you in his fucking car, and you had no right going into my purse and taking out my picture and telling these people a bunch of lies, and shes like, calm down, and im like, lay off the beers and fuck offf. and she got all pissed off. but thats not wrong of me is it? i was right, right?

i totally think you were right to be mad because she invaded your privacy and made up a bunch of bs. however, i dont think you shouldve cussed at her. i mean shes family :( lol. thats a really sucky situation though.. i hope it gets better.

good luck & hope i helped- :)

Q: my parents are way overprotective. like my friends are allowed to stay out til 11 or later, and i have to be back before dark! what can i do?

if you've already just tried *talking* to your parents, then all i can suggest is just respecting your current curfew and always acting responsible. if your parents see that, then the may extend it til later..

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Q: im going out to eat with my boyfriend and his family (his mom,dad, 2 bro's, and 2 sister-in-laws, and nephew and neice) anyways.. i gotta inpress them... dont know why but i know i do. So were going to applebee's.. im a very picky eater and i dont know what to get. i dont really like burgers and such. Any suggestions?i was thinking matzarella sticks but i dont know if that'd be rude because its a appetizer.. help. i know its dumb but whatever!

salads are always an easy way to go. theyre healthy and look like you care about your well-being. lol. i would suggest going to the applebee's website and looking up their menu so that you can scan it and see what you might like ahead of time! ;)

*always use good manners also and order water or iced tea lol (i find that it leaves a better impression)

good luck and hope i helped- :)

Q: For my birthday I'm asking for a great quality digital camera of my own. I would like one that hold ALOT of pictures (maybe in the hundreds-3 hundred range), can take videos, and shoot in black and white but it still in a resonable price for a birthday present. Do you guys know any camera/camera brands like this? I'll rate LottZ!

ive been really happy w/ the cannon camera that i have. its one of the three 'power shots.' and it does everything you say. i got it at best buy, and got an extra memory card that was like 30 bucks extra so that it could hold lotts more pics.

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Q: What do u do when the guy youve been going out with dumped you cause he wanted someone hotter?
age 13 gender female

try to not let it get to you (i know its hard). but just know that if a guy decides what g/f he wants solely on looks.. then hes not the kind of guy you want to be dating. *there really are plenty of other fish in the sea* lol

good luck- :)