Im 20 years old, I have faced many obstacles and problems that I have had to go through alone with no help and the help I recieved wasn't ever any good. I have faced women problems, friends moving, suicide, killings, deaths, car accidents, sibling rivals, fighting, weird hobbies, my best friends being raped. I have been through a little of everything and I was the one many of them turned to so I like to help out.
Hobbies: I do a lot of work in recording studios, and video/editing studios so I know film pretty well. I am a director/producer. Thats what I am in school for, to further my knowledge of set production for I am a pre production wizard. I read a lot so I have knowledge. And more.
Education: I graduated at the top 15 percent of my class in high school which was college prep, and right now im in my 3rd year od college. I have an AA degree in media arts, a 6 month screen writing certificate from NYFA. I am 11 months from my BA in FILM and HDTV, and I am a semester away from an International Business Degree.
SO if you have any questions im polite and easy to talk with and you can ask me any question you have, I will be honest no matter what.
E-mail: spin18@aol.com
Gender: Male
Location: New Mexico but live in AZ
Occupation: Sudent/Film and TV Producer
Age: 20
AIM: Tightwireprod
Member Since: January 15, 2004
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Last Update: July 6, 2006
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I like this girl, but i dont know if she likes me. People say that we would be a great couple, and people also say that she does liek me. But if i ask her out and she says no, then i would be so embarressed. Mainly because we have been friends for a while and she might not see me the same way.. What do i do?
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Well lets begin with this if you ask her out she shouldn't say no because of the fact your friends because. Depends on wording like want to do something thid saturday, or would you like to go on a date this saturday. I think you get the point. Now go with the first approach because while on the date you have the option of talking about each others feelings. And trust me its not worth not telling your friend that you like them, because if you do that you may never tell them and that will lead you to not knowing weither or not she likes you. Hope this helped
Cspinoza1
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I AM CURRENTLY DATING A GUY THAT IS IN LUV WITH ME. I DONT KNOW IF I LUV HIM, I FEEL WEIRD AROUND HIM. IN A GOOD WAY. ITS LIKE NUTHING ELSE MATTERS. HE SAYS HE LUVS ME MORE AND MORE EVERY DAY... AM I IN LUV?? (link)
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No one can tell you you are in love, its what your heart tells you listen to your heart it will never stear you wrong.
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my friend thinks it's funny that she's not doing her homework. Every time we try to talk to her, she doesn't listen. She's failing and i don't know wht to do. (link)
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Now its just time to be honest, remind her she is going to be held back and end up in summer school. That all the good times she thinks she is having is going to end her back in the same grade. And remind her how much people are going to make fun of her because of that..
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i posted this question earlier:
what do you do when u fall for you best friend? i know it sounds like the CLASSIC relationship question.. but i really dont know what to do! i have been best friends with this guy for 3 months.. that mite not sound like a long time... but we have grown really close in that time! i like him as more than a friend now and when he starts to talk about who i like... i dont know what to say! he says im shy.. and well i agree.. lol cause im not the foward type to just come out and tell someone that i like them... i dont want to ruin our friend ship by telling him how i feel, but what if he likes me 2 and he wants me to make the first move?? please someone help me..
and id like to thank everyone who answered.. but one more question on that subject.. we go to tha same school and im in 8th and he is in 7th... i know that shouldnt really matter, but ppl will make fun.. what should i do if we do get together and that happens? thanx tons (link)
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What should you do if your together, Tell people to get the hell out of your business because people make a big deal about things like that. Like my girlfriend is 23 and im 18 imagine how difficult that is for her, but it doesn't both her what people say because its your relationship you are incharge so I say go for it, it doesn't make a difference. As long as your happy
Cspinoza1
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Is there any way to know how it works that when a person cares about others, that person is overlooked, but if that person doesn't care, more people care about them? I've cared about a lot of people, and when I stopped caring so much, I got more attention AFTER I stopped caring. Is there any logical explanation to this? I'm seventeen and can't seem to get a boyfriend, not that I need one, but it would be nice to have someone special who cares about me. (link)
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Yea, you gain the attention because the person/thing they used to take for granted isn't there anymore. Its like when someone likes their best friend and the other is too busy to notice, the other person begins to gain another crush and the bestfriend realizes what they took for granted is there for them like they used to anymore. Its funny because many people seem to be asking me about what wrong with me I can't get someone special? In todays world finding someone who wants you isn't easy, it takes time and you have to wonder when you get a boyfriend are you going to put time into the relationship? Everyone goes through what your going through there is no easy explaination to give, except for the fact people do want to be desired. I hope this helped you.
Cspinoza1
Mr AIM sn is Cspinoza1 as well you can email me if you have any other questions. a Cspinoza1@aol.com
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Well basically I'm really out of shape. I don't play any sports i don't take dance classes or things like that. And i would like to stay in shape even though it's really hard for me. Does any body know any excersises that i could do over a couple of minutes to keep me in shape? (link)
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Im going to tell you the truth getting in shape takes more than a few minutes a day anything you see on tv "5 minutes a day" it mean 30-45 minutes a day sorry to break it to you, I used to be a physical trainer at defined fitness so trust. But you want things to help you ride a bike, or rollerblade many people don't know that roller blading helps you lose weight because your whole body is used when you do it right. Hope this helped
Cspinoza1
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I often feel really lonely. Most of my friends have changed, and I don't know who are my real friends anymore. Some of my friends became really snobbish since they entered college.. And they act much differently towards me. It's like I annoy them, like i'm not cool enough. Also none of them ever have time for me.. Sometimes, I tell them to invite me when they do things together, yet they never even think of me.
Since two years, I also met a really nice guy named Kevin. He really is my best friend, but since a few months he's been completely ignoring me. He is always talking to his online girlfriend. When he can't talk to her he calls me and complains how boring things are without her. I feel like I'm a "last resort" thing to him.
How can I know who's my real friend and who isn't? (link)
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Your real friends don't leave you behind. Its simple as that. But we do tend to change as we enter college, Like a year ago I was still a bit immature always partying instead of studying or having better things to do. Now in college its changed so have my friends, They tell me I left them behind and the truth is I did they like to party and not go to class. ANd they forget about me as well we don't call each other for events and we do feel very left out when we do that to each other. ITs the same for you. What im trying to say is talk to them dont make my mistake and make new friends because your college friends are the ones that do last a life time.. I hope that helped if you have anything else e-mail me at
Cspinoza1@aol.com
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My friend hasn't been doing her homework and she has 6 zeros in the grade book. I'm afraid she is going to fail. What to do? (link)
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Help her with her homework, be there when she does the homework, just dont let her copy or she will not learn go the extra mile to help her out.
Cspinoza1
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what do you do when u fall for you best friend? i know it sounds like the CLASSIC relationship question.. but i really dont know what to do! i have been best friends with this guy for 3 months.. that mite not sound like a long time... but we have grown really close in that time! i like him as more than a friend now and when he starts to talk about who i like... i dont know what to say! he says im shy.. and well i agree.. lol cause im not the foward type to just come out and tell someone that i like them... i dont want to ruin our friend ship by telling him how i feel, but what if he likes me 2 and he wants me to make the first move?? please someone help me.. (link)
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Hey, what do you do? Well why don't you make the first move because let me tell you some guys are waiting for women to make either the first move or to show interest, because most guys like to have assurance on their side before they take a chance at a relationship. So my advice is gradually bring up the question, or ask him out
And hey be happy this is one of the best relationships you could have. And you should be able to tell him anything considering he is you best friend
Cspinoza1. If you need anything else my Aol SN/EMail address is Cspinoza1@aol.com
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I got my period 2 days before school started hwich was september secound, I got my period August 31st, And it sbeen coming like the first of every month and I've had it for about 3 months now, and then all of a sudden its already the 6th of december and it hasnt come yet. . is this normal. . I ams till a virgin!!! I havent had sex or anything!! Please help! (link)
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NO its perfectly normal because a womans period can jump around all the time it doesn't become consecutive for a while, so my advice is be prepared for everything just keep a few products with you just incase it happens at school or when your out.
Cspinoza1
I hope this helped.
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OK, i just got my first period today. Unfortunately, my mom is on vacation so I have no clue what to do. Am I supposed to wear a pad/tampon while I sleep? How often should i change them? THank you so much for your help! (link)
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Well first of all don't us a tampoon your not old enought wait for about 6 months, and change your pad often as needed like once you see that its holding to much. Most females have to do it 2-3 times a day. Yes some women do have to slepp with a tampoon but right now wait for a while, because if you leave it in to long bad things can happen.
Cspinoza1
If you have any other questions don't be scared to ask me. I can help just and my AOL sn is the same as the name above. hope this helped
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my guy friend has always had a crush on me and he would always- i htought. i always kinda took it for granted that he was there for me to be reassured that i was still attractive but i jsut found out that he really likes somebody else. any advice on how to deal? (link)
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Well look at it from his point of view. I had the same problem I was in love with my best friend since we were children I always told myself there are other girls out there, but she was the one I wanted. I dated but it wasn't what I wanted. She knew I wanted her but she kept her feelings to herself. When I turned 17 I gained another crush and she got extremely hurt because I wasn't there to follow her around help her with homework and everything else. I thurt being last in line no put yourself in his shoes the one guy you knew liked you no matter what was slightly pushed or set aside for your convience. If you share the feelings he has for put your friendship aside a make it a relationship you never know he might surprise you.
Hope that helped
Cspinoza1
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how do u know youself if your a good or bad kisser?help please (link)
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Too tell you the truth the only way to know if your a good kisser is for someone to tell you, and in that case if you are told your a good kisser it generally means you are or they don't know how to kiss and you just have more experience so you don't unless told..
Cspinoza1
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my boyfriend and i had sex 3 days after i got off my period, he bust in me. i don't start until the 15th but do you think there's a chance i could be pregnant if he bust right after i got off my period? (link)
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Well yea is possible that you might get PG, anytime you have sex near your period before or after the possibility is still there. Just because your period ended it doesn't mean an egg hasn't left the body yet.
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how will i know if he really loves me? i say a prayer with every hearbeat i fall in lovw when ever we meet how will i know if he's thinking of me?i try to talk but im too shy i cant speak well sometimes i can (link)
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Well to tell you the truth no one can tell if he really loves you. But let me ask you this when your together WHAT DOES YOUR HEART TELL YOU? Listen to your heart because your heart will never fail you, your heart can tell you secrets about love and other decisions it just are you listening or caught up in the moment?
Cspinoza1
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Dildo sword fights are all right arn't they. I'm playing with my cousin ryan. Jon and Adrienne (link)
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Hey there is nothing wrong with a dildo sword fight, people may feel its a bit unappropriate to engage in that activity, but your in the privacy of your own home so its not hurting any one. And if you go around telling your friends about it they may label you something else, or cosider you a very strange person. So no its not weird.
Cspinoza
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if i went out with a boy but now i hate him cuz he is mean buti cant stop thinking about him andi want to talk abotu him what does this mean? and how can i stop it? (link)
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Its the fact that you hate him, thats why its on your mind so much, its a hidden anger that you have built up from what he did that made you angry its perfectly normal. SO just don't think about what he did, keep yourself busy..
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I am getting a new bass/guitar. It is a washburn. I was wondering if it is hard to learn, or if my fingers will hurt the first few weeks or something. . . Im just curious, please tell me if its easy or hard or if it will hurt my fingers or etc. . .
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Its not hard to learn, but it takes time to learn. Like I learned to play the bass in 4 weeks, but its taken me 4 years to play as good as I do. And yes your fingers are going to hurt until they gain catalysis so for a few weeks depending on how hard and how much you play.
Cspinoza1
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What does everyone here do to become a better writer? I want to be a writer when I grow up and I want to know if there are any writing excercises to become a better one. I know reading helps...but I'm just always in a writers block because all my writing is the same and it gets frustrating.
Know any way to improve my writing?
Anything...even if you think it sounds stupid.
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Think of your life and relate it to your work in some way, think if I were this person what would I want to do and say in this situation. Most writers know to write about something they know and when your writing its about your feelings and your approach to it, so get apply things to your life, your friends actions and reactions, just apply the details in a fruitful manner.
Cspinoza1
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i really like a boy but i not sure how he feels about me . how can i find out???? (link)
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Hey, there are many ways but if your not shy ask him. Work your way into the conversation make yourself open to him, like make it apparent you are attracted to him and then ask him. Or maybe he will ask you out and you can ask the question on th date.
Cspinoza1
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