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i like my best friend
i posted this question earlier:
what do you do when u fall for you best friend? i know it sounds like the CLASSIC relationship question.. but i really dont know what to do! i have been best friends with this guy for 3 months.. that mite not sound like a long time... but we have grown really close in that time! i like him as more than a friend now and when he starts to talk about who i like... i dont know what to say! he says im shy.. and well i agree.. lol cause im not the foward type to just come out and tell someone that i like them... i dont want to ruin our friend ship by telling him how i feel, but what if he likes me 2 and he wants me to make the first move?? please someone help me..
and id like to thank everyone who answered.. but one more question on that subject.. we go to tha same school and im in 8th and he is in 7th... i know that shouldnt really matter, but ppl will make fun.. what should i do if we do get together and that happens? thanx tons
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I think you have the perfect timing. 3 months isn't a long time, but it's long enough to get close to someone. If you had been his best friend since, say, 5 years... It would be a little different because your friendship would be settled. Maybe he talked about who you like because he wanted to know if you liked him. I think you have a good chance with him. I think that if he's a good friend, he won't stop being your friend after you tell him your feelings. That's why if I were you, I would send him an e-mail or write him a letter about your feelings.. And I'd add that I really do want to stay his friend even though I like him. I think you really should tell him your feelings ...
About the fact that he's younger than you, I don't think it should matter. If people make fun of you, it's their problem. If they do make fun of you, it's because they are too stupid to realize that you two are happy together. If that does happen, I would just avoid that type of people.. But the worst thing you could do is hide your relationship from people, because hiding things like that can sometimes create problems. Besides, I don't think people will necessarily make fun of you.. I've seen a lot of people go out with younger or older people and people didn't react in a bad way.
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Be the first older girl - younger boy relationship in your school. Look at Demi Moore - there are a lot of examples lately in celebrities with the girl older.
Really, it shouldn't matter that much if you both like each other and people will get used to it if you ignore any dumb comments about the difference.
Besides, he may like the idea of an older girlfriend.
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Well usually at that age numbers matter a lot. Maybe you should just be his friend for now.
-shay :-)
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it don't matter if you wreally feel that way go for it
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What should you do if your together, Tell people to get the hell out of your business because people make a big deal about things like that. Like my girlfriend is 23 and im 18 imagine how difficult that is for her, but it doesn't both her what people say because its your relationship you are incharge so I say go for it, it doesn't make a difference. As long as your happy
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First of all, he's the guy-he should make the first move not you. Wait a little longer. Who knows maybe he likes you to too but not quite sure whether to tell you or not. Send him subtle hints and signals that you like him but don't make the first move. I don't see any problem if you're in the 8th and he's in the 7th grade...it's not like you're dating a 4th grader or something. Those people who would do that are such babies and should be ignored.
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If you have to enter into a realtionship concerning yourself about the way others will percieve it, then it's probably not a good idea.
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