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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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can you catch radiowaves from cell phones if your phone is on but not in use? i keep it in my bed while sleeping.

thanks!!

hey, cell phones dont catch radio waves. its perfectly fine to sleep with them. if they werent safe people wouldnt make them anymore and people wouldnt buy them. if you have any further questions about this issue dont hesitate to send me something in my inbox. cait ♥ = ].

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okay so i was with this guy for like a year and i loved him alot and then after school started the folling year he changed and kept telling me that i was changing and then in november we broke up and i have since moved on with my life i haven't rly had another boyfriend and i wanted to stay friends with him but we have this thing between us everyone who knows what i was to him and what he was to me knows we should be toghether but he just makes everything hard for me. he will email me and say rly weird things to me and i dont know how to deal with it. i keep talking about him but i dont know why. i have the sudden urge to call him because we talked all the time when we were together and i feel like its not fair please help me
Thanks Alot
not so amazing guy

hey, if your bodt tells you to call him, then call him! its obv. a sign or omen to call. let him know exactly how your feeling. dont hold back. if you have any further questions with this situation dont hesitate to send me something to my inbox! cait &hearts = ].

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hey for xmas I got a nail kit but it doesnt tell you what each tool is for. It includes:

cuticle scissors
cuticle pusher
cuticle trimmer
tweezers

could you tell me how to use these tools and what they are for?
thankx lv rach xxx

hey, try to look for directions that would have came with the kit. cuticle scissors are for clipping the excess skin the sorta dead skin that is falling off. cuticle pusher is used for pushing the cuticles to make them go back. cuticle trimmer im not sure. tweezers are used for plucking hair. cait ♥

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Hey I was wondering if anyone could recommend some glossy, chocolatey brown semi- permanent hair colours that condition your hair aswell as colour it. Price doesn't matter but the cheaper the better.

thanx ;-) luv r xxx

hey, id ont think you should go for hair dye. try patenne pro v brunette expressions. it brings out the naturla highlights of your regualr hair color. if you dont have brown hair get the blonde or red one. cait ♥

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Hey my hands go bright red in the warmth or cold and sometimes go purple.
My dad says that it is due to poor circulation and its nothing to worry about but i find it annoying because people are like 'why are your hands bright red?', even friend's parents.
Nobody else i know has this problem and its really irritating as it never happened before this year's winter. If I hold my hands above my hea for a few seconds and wiggle my fingers around they go back to a normal colour but as soon as i put them down again they flood red again.

I am really self conscious as it is and this is adding to my problems so does anyone know how to stimulate the circulation with massages or stop them going red?

please help thx luv r xx

hey, i think you should get a doctor for this issue. but what i would do is massage them daily twice a day. cait ♥

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Hey I am really jealous of my best friend and recently I have become quite depressed about it and cutting out bits of skin and crying on a night. Her we go:

*We have similar personalities but its like whatever she says goes more than what I say

* She has a big immaculate house, a perfect family and generous parents and she doesn't act a bit spoilt at all but shes always complaing about her life to us.

* she can afford to go to posh gyms and restaurants and buy whatever she wants

* Shes really pretty, even though people say Im prettier, and she looks gorgeous in the simplest of outfits because she's born with a perfect tan and the perfect body.

* its all happening for her: boyfriend( that i fancy n could have had but was too shy to go for it wen she started likin him), partys, money, moving house, more friends

* shes buying all the clothes i want but she doesnt know it and i get depressed because people will think im copying her.

i could go on forever. Everyone likes me just as much as her its just its like she has more to offer and i know i seem like a depressed teenager but i need something to overcome this jealousy before i snap. luv rach xxx

hey, well i dont think the problem is her, i think the problem is you. you have no self esteem and lack self confidence. you need to build up those two things and then you wont feel like this anymore. give yourself a facial or get one. get or give yourself a manicure and a pedicure. go out shopping and buy clothes that you like. take a bubble bath. do anything to feel pretty. then youll alawyas have that confidence if you continue doing that. cait ♥

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I have this pimple on my upper lipline and it's kinda big and red. What can I put on it to make it smaller (something i don't have to buy) because I have to go out tomorrow and this is bugging me.

hey, i dont think its a pimple. i think its a cold sore. just like everyone else has been saying, toothpaste is teh best thing for it. antoher good way to get rid of it in clearasil. you usually have to buy that but im just saying it because you might have it. try putting chapstick on it also. cait ♥

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So I posted a couple recent posts about what happend. And I think it's best if he and I go our seperate ways. I mean I love him and want to stay with him. But we are two different. We have different views on religion, and kids and hes younger, so we're really not on the same maturity level. Mom read some of our conversations and shes like Britt he's crazy. You need out of this. So I'm going to post some stuff and I want to know if he is.

[22:30] My Baby: k but i just got in a fight with grandma
[22:30] x_withoutu_x: what over?
[22:31] My Baby: religion
[22:31] My Baby: and i told her i would prolly kill myself before i turned 18
[22:32] x_withoutu_x: what did she say?
[22:32] My Baby: she thinks im kidding ill show her
[22:33] My Baby: im an athiast
[22:34] My Baby: there is no god
[22:35] My Baby: the bible is just a book nothing more than Harry Potter
[22:35] My Baby: are you reading this
[22:36] My Baby:
[22:36] x_withoutu_x: yes
[22:37] My Baby: what do you think
[22:37] My Baby: whats your opinon
[22:38] x_withoutu_x: I don't want to talk about it because we disagree and that would just cause an argument.
[22:38] My Baby: well id rather you stand up and talk instead sit there and let it go on
[22:39] My Baby: i think your leaving me
[22:39] My Baby: i know your trying to
[22:10] My Baby: im considering suicide
[22:12] x_withoutu_x: im back im gonna eat..trae stop it i love you
[22:13] x_withoutu_x: brb
[22:15] My Baby: i love you and im serious
[22:15] My Baby: i was about to stab myself last night
[22:28] My Baby: back yet

theirs some. If you need more just tell me.

hey, okay hes offically crazy. you need to leave him now! give him some time to get back to normal. then if you want to get back with him when hes normal again, go for it! cait ♥

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me and my x bf have been on and off for 2 years and even if were off were still kinda together...like holding hands..etc...and one day he went to a party and got with a girl..and he called me that same nite and told me that all my friends are going to be lying to be the next day sayign that he got with someone but its not true...well i found out its true and he admitted it to me...and i just want to know if i have a right to be mad..because he doesnt think so...

hey, no i dont think that you have the right to be mad. because you werent offically dating its not his fault that he wants to hook-up and try out other girls. all guys are like that. but if your thinking about going out with him again i dont see a problem. but make sure hes not with other girls. cait ♥

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I shaved my legs the other day and they were smooth and nothing was wrong. About an hour later, when i was at the pool, i noticed there was razor bump looking things on my legs.

They are red and itchy. I don't know what they are or how i can get rid of them. What dooo i do?

hey, the pool either irratated your legs or you had some type of illurgic reaction. to prevent the ichyness use bennadrill ich cream. to make your legs smoother use skinmate babysoft ( the blue bottle ). cait ♥

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How come your not supposed to pluck your eyebrows from the top part?

hey, because as you get older a very little amount of hair from your eyebrows fall out. so youll need those eyebrow hairs later on. cait ♥

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My best guy friend has been a real asshole to me the past few days. Well today I got really upset because the stuff he's been saying kind of hurts specially coming from someone like him. He'd like tell me that I look like crap, that my skirt is too short, tell me to shut up, give me that "are you a effing retard" look, ignoring me, all kinds of mean things. So I asked him if he was mad at me because he never acts this way towards me. He said no so I asked him why he's being so mean and he just said that it wasn't his fault that I can't take honesty and that I take things too seriously then just walked away.


What am I supposed to do? I really don't know what I did and he wont tell me. 18/f

hey, you need to move on. hes obv. not a nice person to be around. i mean you tried to fix it. so at least you tried. cait ♥

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ok well i just got my ipod today. . and well i dont know how to upload songs to it and transfer it to my ipod. i installed the itunes and stuff but i dont know how to go from there. i have a video ipod so can anyone help me?
thanks

hey, i only have a regular one. so i dont know but try reading teh manual. if that brings you no luck call the company or the apple store. cait ♥

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Dr. Dre FT. Eminem!!
whats the song called?
5s for anything!!
"most people wanna talk like they got somthin to say but nothing comes out when they move their lips just a bunch of jibberish"

WHATS IT CALLED??!

MUCHO LOVE
LILA

hey, its called forget about dre. cait ♥

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I just met this guy about 3 weeks ago and we really hit it off. We met at my party (one of my friends brought him to introduce us). Well, he lives about 3 hours away from me but is in town 4 days a week because he has an internship down here. Most of the time he'll probably be working. I'm a senior in high school and he's a junior in college so this coming fall, I'm going off to college and we'd be going to the same school. But, he's still going to be down here most of the week and possibly even more than right now.


Would it be a good idea to get involved with each other?

hey, to me it doesnt sound like the greatest idea. stay just friends and stay in contact. dont get involved with eachother tho. because it sounds like you dont have time to see each other. cait ♥

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Would you ever meet someone in person off of myspace? I know most of you are going to say no but what if it's a friend of a friend?

hey, no i have not. i dont recomend that you do either. its not safe. cait ♥

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ok well im really white. . and it sucks. .is there any way i can get a good tan? like wat stuff to use for tanning and its quick and wont look bad. and how much is it to go to a tanning salon??
thanks

hey, try jergens natural glow. its a sunless tanner and it works well. tanning salon prices depend on the salon. cait ♥

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ok well i get made fun of almost everyday. . mostly because i am really white. is there anyway i can make them to stop? ive tried standing up for myself and being nice to them and i dont want to tell a teacher because ive done that and they didnt do anything. . so wats a good way for them to stop?
Thanks

hey, just ignore them. if it bothers you personally get jergens natural glow to get tanned up a little. cait ♥

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http://advicenators.com/qview.php?q=422599

that was my previous problem,

she and my parents both think I need someone older. Mom thinks that Trae is just infatuated with me since I was his first everything. He wants sex, which that is a given, all guys do, and thats what got us in trouble because his grandma found out, and i told him mom we wouldn't do it again and hes still trying to find loopholes and do other sexual things. Mom said he's making me miserable. Mom said sex is all he wants since one day when I was on my period he didn't want to see me for that specific reason. I'm not allowed to see him for like 2 months till his mom gets back because his grandma won't let him see me. I don't know what to do. If I should break up with him, or what?

hey, waht i would do is take a break from him. but dont stop being friends. like still call him and stuff. then when his mom gets back work it out. cait ♥

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I know you're supposed to drink 64 oz. of water a day. Does that help you lose weight? If I drink more than 64 oz. of water will it make me lose more weight?

hey, water can help you loose weight. it also is better for you anyways because if you choose water over soda, soda will obv. make you fatter. so yes water is better. drink when you wake up, sevreal times during the day, and before you go to sleep. cait ♥

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