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help me
me and my x bf have been on and off for 2 years and even if were off were still kinda together...like holding hands..etc...and one day he went to a party and got with a girl..and he called me that same nite and told me that all my friends are going to be lying to be the next day sayign that he got with someone but its not true...well i found out its true and he admitted it to me...and i just want to know if i have a right to be mad..because he doesnt think so...
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Heh, well what do YOU think? If you and your boyfriend love each other deeply (which you didn't state) then even when you're off, you wouldn't even be thinking about some other guy or chick. It was wrong of him to hook up with a chick at the party, because when you love someone(even when you're not with them and you know you're on and off) you don't become unfaithful and cheat. That's exactly what he did. You do have a right to be mad, you can forgive him, but never forget it.
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at the risk of overreacting and blurting out the first thing that comes to my mind...
do you have a right to be mad?? um, HELL YES. he doesn't think so??? um, HELL WHAT THE.
what do you mean by "he went a party and got with a girl"?? he made out with her, he hung around her all night, she kissed him on the cheek, they were involved in a rainbow lipstick competition, he drunkly declared to any and all passerby that she was his girlfriend...?
and, although you do have a right to be upset, are you two officially together, as in, dating, and both of you accept statements like:
YOU: he is my boyfriend, exclusively.
HIM: she (as in you) is my girlfriend, exclusively.
from what you tell about the situation, he sounds like a bit of an ass to me. but i don't everything that's going on here, so i'll try not to pass judgement.
as for what you should do, it seems like he's prone to sneakery, half-ass-ed-ness, and lieing. and if he's a half-ass-ing sneaking liar (although, apparently, a really bad liar...), i'd lose this guy if i were you.
hope this helped. good luck babe.
~*kitty*~
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Hi
After reading your question my main concern would be that he lied.
It's one thing that he hooked up with a girl (if you two weren't really together then this should be ok right?) If you two were together, then you definitely have a reason to be upset.
The lying thing to me is the worst. He obviously felt guilty or he wouldn't have phoned you to tell you what you "might" hear.
Sounds to me like it't time to move on. You deserve someone who wants to be with you and you only....and who won't lie!!! Take care.
Brenda
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yes i do think you have the right to be mad.. he went to a party and hooked up with a girl and you two were still kinda together, and he basically lied to you first saying that his friends are gonna tell you he got with someone but its all a lie, shouldnt he be more honest although he told you after ? but yes i do think you have the right to be mad at him
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you definatly have a right to be mad. First off, you two were "still together" when he hooked up with antoher girl. And Another thing, who has the nerve to call someone they are seeing and say that their friends are gonna be lying tomorrow. Wouldnt you want him to tell you that he did hook up with someone, rather then pinning your friends as liars.
Rachel
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hey, no i dont think that you have the right to be mad. because you werent offically dating its not his fault that he wants to hook-up and try out other girls. all guys are like that. but if your thinking about going out with him again i dont see a problem. but make sure hes not with other girls. cait ♥
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You definitly have the right to be mad, but you don't have the right to make a big deal about it because you aren't officially dating. Tell him it bothered you if you need to talk about it, but making a big deal will only make you seem too attached.
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