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Thanks 4 your advice! And ya, I am not in normal school, but I do have 4-H class once a month! lol! But anyways, I will see him on the 28th, I'll talk to him then! Thankx again!

No Problem. Next time leave this as feedback instead of posting this as a question though. =)

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Ok, theres this boy in my 4-H class, and he is sooooooooo cute, and funny, and seems nice, but I just cant talk to him! Please help me out, tell me, what should I say? Please answer!

I am the same way. iv'e had a crush on this guy named jeremy for 5 years now ( still do) and I never once spoken to him. So I'm giving the the advice I wish I could do ( but can't since I can't find him). You don't have to say anything if you don't like, exchange smiles, glances, sit next to him in class so he notivces your existance. Maybe invite him out with your friends and a couple of his so it won't seem like just a date for you two, but a group one. Get to know him better, write him a poem that shows you're interested, and slip it onto his desk. If you can't do any of those, work on building up courage and not being shy. It's hard finding the right words, but here's a start:

"Hey my name is _______, would you like to hang out with me sometime when you're available? from what I see I think you're ________ and I'd like to get to know you better, hopefully we'll become good friends" Don't mention bf and gf yet if he doesn't know you well.. guys get kind of freaked out about that in the beginning. Hope I helped you ;3 don't forget to rate!

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okayy, i am basically in my young teenage period of my life. i have been sexually active for only about a year now, though. me and my boyfriend have been having a lot of problems lately, though. last night we just stopped to take a break from everything, though. i am having a lot of trouble with this though because i am use to seeing him everyday, we are always together. we have been having unprotected sex, and i am getting nervous that i am pregnant. sometimes, we have sex up to 10 times a day. && lately he has been pulling out and then going right back in. my period is not expected until this sunday, but i am really nervous. i know people don`t usually get signs this early, but is it possible?? lately i haven`t been able to sleep or eat right, i am very emotional, i have been urinating a lot, i have had very bad discharges, and i have been experiencing bloading and cramps severly. is there anyway this could be signs of pregnancy? or do you just think i am overreacting to this whole thing??

Those are somewhat symptoms of pregnancy. The first thing you should have done was use the morning after pill. Condoms are very effective and protect against pregnancy,99.9% remember that. But it's sort of too late for that now. Make sure this guy of yours have the money to support this child that is on the way, and you should definately tell your parents, don't wait, it'll cost you in the end. Also, please get checked out for any STD's. Even though you believe he hasn't slept with anyone else, he could have before you. You're not overreacting at all, especially when it comes to the word " pregnancy" at such a young adult age.

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me and my x bf have been on and off for 2 years and even if were off were still kinda together...like holding hands..etc...and one day he went to a party and got with a girl..and he called me that same nite and told me that all my friends are going to be lying to be the next day sayign that he got with someone but its not true...well i found out its true and he admitted it to me...and i just want to know if i have a right to be mad..because he doesnt think so...

Heh, well what do YOU think? If you and your boyfriend love each other deeply (which you didn't state) then even when you're off, you wouldn't even be thinking about some other guy or chick. It was wrong of him to hook up with a chick at the party, because when you love someone(even when you're not with them and you know you're on and off) you don't become unfaithful and cheat. That's exactly what he did. You do have a right to be mad, you can forgive him, but never forget it.

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