Ok, theres this boy in my 4-H class, and he is sooooooooo cute, and funny, and seems nice, but I just cant talk to him! Please help me out, tell me, what should I say? Please answer!
DOREMI answered Tuesday April 18 2006, 5:43 pm: I am the same way. iv'e had a crush on this guy named jeremy for 5 years now ( still do) and I never once spoken to him. So I'm giving the the advice I wish I could do ( but can't since I can't find him). You don't have to say anything if you don't like, exchange smiles, glances, sit next to him in class so he notivces your existance. Maybe invite him out with your friends and a couple of his so it won't seem like just a date for you two, but a group one. Get to know him better, write him a poem that shows you're interested, and slip it onto his desk. If you can't do any of those, work on building up courage and not being shy. It's hard finding the right words, but here's a start:
"Hey my name is _______, would you like to hang out with me sometime when you're available? from what I see I think you're ________ and I'd like to get to know you better, hopefully we'll become good friends" Don't mention bf and gf yet if he doesn't know you well.. guys get kind of freaked out about that in the beginning. Hope I helped you ;3 don't forget to rate! [ DOREMI's advice column | Ask DOREMI A Question ]
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