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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

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Ok well my boyfriends sister is like doing alot of things and starting to become famous and he has to do alot of traveling with her i dont know if anyones ever heard of her but her name is Ansley Carter shes so amazing at singing country music anyways i hate it when my boyfriends away and We dont get to see or call each other and i really dont like relationship like that are long distants so do you think things will get better between us or should i just end our relationship now because i dont want it to be long distance
help

If you love this guy then you wouldnt care how far away he is and you would belive that your relationship will work out. He isnt going to be ont he road with his sister forever and you could still see him! Let him know that you will miss him a lot and if he could just to call you at least once a day! Make your relationship work and dont loose him over something stupid! ♥ // ex_oh

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13/f i broke up with my bf for numerous reason. one being that i like someone else ((still do)). well 2 days after i broke up with him he asked me out again. i said i would get back to him since i still like him and all but theres this other guy! he kept asking me! last night he asked me again and he forced me to give him an answer so i said yes but i REALLY REALLY dont want to go out with him. i thought of all the pros and cons nd there are MUCH MUCH MUCH more cons! im in deep crap! plus its the summer, so i want to brake up w/ him for that too. HELP ME!!!! IM IN DESPRITE NEED!!!!! :(

You should not go out with him if you dont like him and if you dont want to! He cant force you at all! Brake up with him.. I mean its summer.. come on I understand why you want to be single!! And plus you have your eye on that other guy. Just tell him to stop asking you out because you want to be single and that you still want to be friends.. if he doesnt stop tell him to fuck off because he's being annoying! ♥// ex_oh

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I'm having a camping party by the sea for my 18th birthday in July but the only campsite available is quite expensive.

The charge is £5 per head for camping and I want to invite 20+ people. My total budget for the party is £100. I'm providing food and drinks, and even tents for some people. Do you think it would be reasonable to ask my friends to help out with their camping fee and if so how much should I ask them for? I thought about asking for at least £2.50 each otherwise I'll have to severely limit the number of people.

Thanks.
*Girlwithamansname

I think that would help out a lot! They are your friends and they wont mind helping you out at all. I mean just explain to them that it is kind of pricy and if they could give you about $2.50-$5.00 ! so yea defenetlly do it. Have fun tho! ♥// ex_oh

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To be honest with you I feel a bit unhappy generally. I don’t know why- ive always felt like this really. It comes and goes.

The only way I can explain it is I feel this kind of indifference to everything, like I don’t care about anything. Numb. And then all of a sudden I get incredibly upset and angry - i really feel for people and try and help them, and sometimes i think nasty things about people. I sometimes take it out on people im close to and then regret it and feel guilty. Its like im constantly frustrated, like there is something inside that I can’t resolve. I feel like there is a gap somewhere needing to be filled and my heart is heavy with sorrow for some strange reason! I just feel like im different to others and it weighs me down. Maybe someone out there understands and can offer advice? Im 29 years old.

Stupid Answers will not be noted.

I've done that a couple of times. You are just really frustred and you are taking everything out on yourself. I know that that might not make sence but you are.. You also have some sort of depression and all you need to do is just get away for a while and clear your head. Do things that are nice for you and hang out with the people you love. You also could be Bipolar. Its just when your moods change a lot and you would have to take pills for that. ♥//ex_oh

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hey! what is the difference between a handjob and a blowjob? i never knew the difference when some1 talked about it...

Handjob is where a girl just puts her hand down a guys pants and plays around with his penis and a blowjob is where you suck on the guys dick. ♥ // ex_oh

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im 14 and i go to a highschool in plano texas ,
my case is a little bit different i suppose
my shrink diagnosed me with a mild-severe social paranoia meening i afriad everyone is always judgeing me and watching me , like im some zoo animal, even if sum1 isnt around.
iv also got mild social axiety bah like i know what that means for sure
i have "hyper-hydrosis" wich is a condition i was born with where my hands are always moist wich makes it wierd to hold hands with girls
iv liked this girl since she moved to the school, shes always been reay nice to me and iv always been nice to her, just recently iv been realy wanting to be in a relationship with this girl but i cant bring myself to ask her out in fear that she would say no in fear that i might make an attempt on my life (this is i guess social anxiety?) , i dont think she even knos i like her and she doesnt seem to even realy i know i exist sometimes
she tells me about all the guys that she likes and that realy hurts my feelings becuas im not the tallest (at 5'1" im far from it) im not the fit-est or the most handsome , i have acne and a steryotypical "Jewish Nose" wich many predjudists remind me often about.

i just cant help but feel that she wont accept my offer to start a relationship

this girl is truely beutiful in every sense of the word ,in class since i sit behind her i just stare at the back of her head and go off into "lala land"
on several times iv tried inviting her to movies or something but she always seems to have something else to do

any and all help wud be most appreciated

if u want to talk to me just chilling and stuff y AIM is forty5calpsyco

Thanks So Much

Babe.. first of all you need to stop talking like that and how bad you look. There is just one thing you need to belive in and have. You just need confidence in yourself and you will be fine! Being confident is really important and you could defenetlly ask this girl. Dont jump into a relationship right away tho. First just let her know that you like her. She seems to be really friendly to you tho so thats good. You'll be fine tho..just keep saying to yourself that you can ask her and you can tell her that you like her. I think you should because one day it just might be too late and she might have a boyfriend. So just go for it! Good luck! ♥ // ex_oh

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ok i was in the store with my friends and therr b/fz n they werr talking about finger condoms..what are they used for and where can you buy them?? thankz for the help and i rate HIGH!

Yes.. they acually do exist! If you dont belive it look it up on google. They are used for fingering a girl.. like if a guy cums and then fingers a girl .. I dont think the girl would want the cum up.. yea L0L. Im not really sure where you can buy them but probablly anywhere you can buy normal condoms! ♥ // ex_oh

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okay.. Im 15 years old. I gave head to my boyfriend about a week ago. As far as I know nothing is wrong with him as far STDs go or anything. He totally didnt pressure this upon me.. but.. i just have to ask..

I woke up kinda quivery from taking a nap in the afternoon just yesterday. It went away after I got some rest and hasnt came back... but Im adding this just in case its a symptom of some sort.

I have no soars in my mouth.. and as far as I know no pains down around my genitals, but for the past few days.. whenever I try to masturbate it feels like it STARTS to work.. but it doesnt end up feeling well at all. I mean it doesnt hurt AT ALL.. it just doesnt pleasure me. Is this normal?

It just is scaring me. Like I have no clue if anything is wrong with me. Im really scared too, can somebody just please help? We didnt use a condom even though it wasnt sex.. I know I should have but like.. nothing is wrong with him hes supposedly healthy but is there anything I should look out for?

please help.. any help especially if you have had experience will be greatly appreciated.

Okay.. well I'm not 100% positive that there is nothing wrong with you but those are not symptoms of STD or anything else. To me it just sounds like you are really stressed. You are stressing more over to find out if there is anything wrong with I highly dought! Everyone feels a little quivery at times but you're fine. Now.. about masterbating well I honestly dont know why you dont feel pleasure. ♥ but it wont stay that way so dont worry about it. Just stop worrying. If you really did have anything or STD things would be worse but you sound fine. ♥ // ex_oh

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MEMEnplease honestly your advice is horrible. and i think your rude.

examples:

Shave your head and then with wood glue paste your pubic hair on your head.

HAHA you pussy

Well, i hate to tell you this. But.... thats not sunburn. You have crabs. You shouldn't have fucked around you whore


If anyones who planned on kidnapping you has read this, then they will realize your a waste of a good kidnap. Also a waste of life.


Just fuck him and get it over with

The best way to make new friends and to have sex.

ewwwwwwww what sick asshole asks some question like that.

I think you should probly just fuck the little guys brains out.

You should probly just have sex with the guy.


yaaaa.. have some respect you jerk! none of that was even an answer to peoples questions. this sites for ADVICE not put downs and nasty comments.

If you want to get that columnist banned from this site when just report an abuse. There is a lot of people answering questiong like that and honestly its getting on everyones nerves! But theres nothing wrong with sex.. L0L ♥ // ex_oh

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I am going out with a guy and all i keep thinking is about antoher guyy i dont whats wrong w/ me cuz my b/f loves mea nd gives me what i want and stuff he is really sweet but i just think about another guyy waht should i do should i brake up w/ mi boyfriend or jsut keep going even thoguth i keep thinking bout another guy?

Dont break up with him.. its okay to keep thinking about a different guy but anyways you still know you love your boyfriend. Thats all that matters tho.

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hey there, i have a hugeee problem =[ i am truly in love with a guy who barly even knows me! now that its summer i like never get too see him except for like once a week while hes playing football, but like all i think about is him, and ive never felt so strongly about someone before, but im extreamly shy as is he, and one of my freidns told him i liked him and he said hed go out with me if he knew me better, but im wayy to shy to just go up and talk to him, or ask him to go to the movies and stuff =[ ughhh help please

Aww Well.. if you want him to be your boyfRiend then you have to be confident enough to talk to him. Even though you are really shy just keep saying to yourself yes I can talk to him.. since we both like each other =] and then you will! Just keep being confident in yourself and since you know he likes you also thats awesome!! Get his screen name or e-mail or even his number so you guys can defenetlly talk more and get to know each other better!! All you have to do is at least try to be more outgoing and confident!! Its really important.

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Hey well umm my boyfriend is kinda prude and im not. well he barely kisses me and i want him to start like kissing we've been going out for liek 2 months and all weve done was kisson the cheeks. should i tell him how that we should like start kissing more or just keep going like this?

Yea you could eather tell him or just make the first move! Like when you give him a hug then just slowly kiss him on the lips!! He is shy so he probablly wouldnt make the first move.. first lol but yea you should.

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i know its not out yet, but is the war of the worlds a good movie for a group of teens to see?

Yes! I wanna see it! It looks like a good movie! ♥ // ex_oh

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I'm so confused!! Alot of guys like me but the thing is I think I'm ugly!! Do guys usually get with ugly girls just for sex? Why do they like me? It dosen't seem right to me!! Help!!

First of all I dont think you are ugly because usually the pretty people always say they are ugly! Just because you think of yourself that way doesnt mean everyone else does! Since a lot of guys like you then you are pretty just dont think your not!! Guys dont use "ugly" girls for sex tho. Some are just easy like that but the guys that like you problly do because you have a nice personality, are pretty or hot l0l!! ♥ // EX_OH

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does anyone know any cute screen names? i've had the one i use now forever, and i need a new one really bad...just some ideas would be great!
thanks in advance...i'll rate high!

BEACH BUM o8
H0LLISTERxL0ViN x3
name llx3
TROPiCAL BREEZE
CALiiDREAMiNG
SUMMER 0H 5

THATS ALL I CAN THINK 0F NOW.. YOU SHOULD 0F GAVE US THING YOU WERE INTERESTED IN. ♥ // ex_oh

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ok im 15 and sometimes i feel like my boyfriend wants me to do more than just making out. But i dont think im ready and i dont want to yet. We've been together for 6 months and some people say thats a long time. But what should i do? is it bad for me to be 15 and not wanna do anything yet? is 6 months along time?

6 months is not long enough to go into all that. If you are not ready then dont! You could do litte thing like a handjob or something. It wont make you a slut or anything so dont worry about it! And its not bad that you are 15 and dont want to do any of that. You just arent very sexual and thats fine. ex_oh ♥

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there are these girls in my school and they bully me to often.It is interfering with my grades.help!

I never got bullied but I know how it is since the principal told me I was bullying some people.. just making fun of them and yea but Im not like that anymore. You have to stand up to the bully and let them know that you will not let them talk trash to you like that and do whatever they want. If they say something mean to you or about you say something back. You are their weak link and they think they can do that since you wont do anything about it. Dont tell the principal or a teacher because that will just start more trouble but you can tell the counslor. That is the best solution because if they do it again they could get suspended after they are told to stop. They wont go around telling the school anything but you have to watch out for yourself!! Good luck! ♥ ex_oh

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okay so i know boys balls get bigger when they masterbate.. but does anything like that happen to girls when they do? like does the clit get bigger or something?

Not sure.. and I dont think so. But when girls do get horny their nipples get hard. < Someone told me L0L > ♥ ex_oh

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is there any way to speed up ur boobs growing process?

No there isnt! =[ I know that there are pills that metrosexuals take for their boobs to grow faster. But dont take pills. Your breasts will grow. But you could wear padded bras and such. ♥ ex_oh

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what the best way to get rid of pubic hair? its soo embarrassing, becuae i shave it, but then theres redness and raser stubble & im too embarrassed to ask my mom to take me for waxing & im allergic to nair!! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!

I just answerd this but if you shave it the way that you hair is growing , with shaving cream it will reduce redness and razor burns and also make sure you always put lotion on after you are done shaving!

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