about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

whens a time where feedback wouldnt "Counts towards rating?" cause all of the times for me say "yes". thanks in advance!

Private questions dont count on the feedback! ♥//

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is anyone else extremley bored?

Nahh..

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i have very small eyes..what make-up tricks can i use to make them look bigger? i rate=D

Wear dark eyeliner and darker eyeshadow and mascara! If you make them look darker they will look bigger! // ♥ //

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is it wrong to wear a thong? i want to get one but i dont want people to think of me as a hoe

No its not wrong.. just dont let it show!

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Okay, so I`m going out with this guy and I reallllllly like him. But the only problem is, he uses drugs and alcohol a L0T. I`m totally against this.. I have seen families torn apart and people`s lives ruined because of alcohol/drug use.. I would never do anything like this, and he knows that, and he`s okay with that.. But I don`t want him to hurt himself. And I really don`t like the fact that he does.. I know that I can`t change him.. What should I do ?

You need to talk to him. I know that sounds like eh.. I dont know.. and you might not think its the best thing but you need to show him and tell him how much you care for him and all the bad things that happened to people you know who used drugs and alchocol. It might be hard for him to stop because I bet he is addicted but tell him you will help him and you just dont want to see him hurt. ♥ //

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ok tonight i had like 4 or 5 beers..for me it was enough to definately get me tipsy..i feel sober now but can i still get a hangover in the morning? any thing i can do or take tonight to prevent a hangover?

Yes you could. Once I was drinking a little for fun and stuff and 2 days later I still had a hangover.. it can happen. You need to take a nice relaxing bath. Then just listen to some music and lay down. ♥//

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Could someone explain this phone to me...what all can you do on it and is it hard to learn? How do you get the jewel looking things on it?
Thanks

Yea sorry but I dont know ALL that you can do on the phone but I know about the little jewl things you can do. You can decorate it anyway you want. Go to Walmart or Target and get it. The little diamons and glue. You can probablly find it in the crafts section. // ♥ //

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okay if someone has a std could you get it by just making out?? or what if they have one on there mouth can you that way? or what if they just have one below can you still?? ill rate fives with acuarte answers...thanks!

If its inside the mouth or around the lips and stuff its herpes. It could be a cold sore but I highly doubt it. You can get it by pretty much doing anything. Sharing drinks,kissing,head.. stuff like that! // ♥ //

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ok well yes. i know, its a girl question, but im not sure about it. I have a had my period for about 9 months, but this month it hasnt came it was due on the 21st, but it still isnt here, i have never ever had sex. and i dont know what to do! please please tell me its goin to be okay...i dont need to be pregnet at 14...

thanks
scared!

Theres nothing to be scared of. Everyone is late sometimes. I mean you cant always expect it to be on the normal date. I mean once I was late for almost a month.. its nothing bad tho so dont worry about it. // ♥ //

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My hair is blonde right now, and I usually get it professionally done. But right now I want to dye it to my natural hair color (medium brown.) But instead of going to the salon, I was thinking doing it out of the box since it's cheaper and kinda hard to mess up brown (right?). Anyways, I was wondering if anyone had any recommendations of brands that look natural and don't fade? Thanks!

Acually Revlon is good. Covergirl,Loreal! // ♥//

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okay i no this sounds really dumb but what do these 'jobs' mean i know a few but im confused and i need to know what they are like blow job, finger job, etc

Well I'll just tell you all of the bases. 1st babe is just making out. 2nd base is handjob and fingering. A handjob is where you just put your hand down the guys pants and play around with his dick. Fingering is when a guy puts his finger up your vagina. 3rd base is blowjob and head. And thats pretty much the same exept when you give a blowjob you just suck the dick. But head it the balls and everything lol! And home is sex. Sorry ifs its gross to you but yeah! ♥//

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I have a friend who is a cutter. She has been for as long as I can remember. Lately, we have become best friends and I felt like cutting, too. Not because I have a bad home life or because I have stress in my life or anything like that because I don't, but I think it's because I am best friends with her now. I did cut my legs up pretty bad just 2 weeks ago, but then I never did it again and now they are healed. I keep getting the urges to cut, and then I tell myself not to. But I still can't help but feel so influenced by her to cut myself. A long time ago I used to cut because I liked it, but that didn't last long and wasn't as obsessed with it as I am now. I love this girl with all my heart. She really is a GREAT friend that I had since pre-school, but I need help with trying to stop thinking about the whole idea of cutting all together. I must admitt that I did REALLY like it, but I know that it is unhealthy. But I STILL get those urges and they keep getting bigger and bigger .. HELP !* signed., helpless soul

First of all you shouldnt be cutting just because she is. You are the one who is supposed to be heloing her stop because its not good or healthy! No one can get through people and cutting. I honestlly thinks its pathetic that you like the pain! Rate me bad but I'm just like oh god! If you were a true friend you would of helped her stop and talked her out of doing it. You are't supposed to do it with her! It doesnt feel good.. trust me I know. Tell her its not worth it and all it does is leave bad scars on yourself and then again all her problmes.. stress.. depression will still be there. The only way she can stop is if you help her or if she talks to a counslor. And trust me she needs that. If you continute it you do to. You never know if one of you will cut your vein and thats just not good. Eather of you could end up at the hospital. Babe.. there is a lot of other ways and habits you can do.. that are healthier. When you have the earge to cut take a rubberband and just snap it on yourself. Good luck.. and I seriously wasnt trying to be rude or anything but you need to stop. Just keep trying! You both can do it! ♥//

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I am on a championship team for school but now we are playin summer basketball and this team isn't workin together and when i try to tell them they dont listen.What should I do?

You should tell your coach that some of your team mates aren't getting along and if they can talk to them about it because you all need to get along to win your games and eveything. Your coach will do something about it. You guys need to win it. When your team is arguing or something make sure you tell them and mean it! ♥//

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how do you do those hearts in myspacE??? its like &heart;?

Yes thats it! ♥

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I need a pet! should i get a dog or cat? i dont want it to smell bad! so what smell better

Dog!! A small dog like a Yorkie!! They dont smell bad or make a mess that much!! And plus they are super adorable! ♥//

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see the thing is i have alot of friends but not one best friend i can do everything with. i want my one friend to be my bff but i dunno how, its really confusing and even tho i have friends i feel so alone.....help please

You have to get really close to that friend first. I mean you also have to be able to trust her and stuff and talk to her about anything! Hang out with her a lot and get to know each other way way better and you guys will become really close one day and probablly best friends! // ♥ //

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i got my period for the first time thursday night and today is saturday.. it was like kinda heavy up until friday night..is that supposed to happen? cuz like now its like i didn't even have my period because its barely coming out..someone please help me and tell me if this is normal

Yes thats perfectly fine. Some people get it for 10 days straight. If its not heavy and its barley comming out then its probablly going to stop but still wear those really small thin pads! [[ ♥ ]]

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Does anybody know where to get those cute leg warmers?

Abercrombie and Hollister always have really cute ones!! ♥//

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Is cassidy in prison (ya know the rapper) if he is what did he do ?? please answer soon i rate 5's !

Yes he is. He was involved in murder. There was a gang and there was a lot of shooting and I think he shot 2 people but I know he killed someone. ♥// ex_oh

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is it bad if your a porn addict

Yes.

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