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this name is old and stupid....well first off my name is stephanie.dont judge me before you know me.im pretty nice.i like meeting new people,so im open to friends, but im extremely shy, so yeah. i dont give that good of advice so i'll help you as much as i can













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there's this guy i like but all my friends sort of think he's ugly. i really don't know what to think about how good he looks. anyways he like gives me mixed signals and sometimes acts like a jerk. i am way too scared to tell him i like him cause i know he doesn't like me. what should i do? i really am desperate. i have to say i'm in junior high and haven't dated once.

it really doesnt matter whats on the outside.but how do you know he doesnt like you. maybe just tell him or be his "secret admirer" on V-day

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Erggg...I'm 13 and i STILL weigh only 70 pounds!! i'm not worried that i'm short, it's okay with me, but i really need to gain weight! i dont wanna die form this! And pigging out on junk food dont help either....

its doesnt matter about your weight it depends on your height so i bet your fine and the food your eating will catch up to you

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i know a lot of people are asking you these questions..but here it goes

vday is MONDAY! and my bf derek..weve been going out for a year and like we usually get eachother ..50$ stuff but his family is kind of low in money and i dont want him to feel bad like cause hes getting me a 20$ gift and i said i was guna get him like 40$ and he got mad but anyways i dont want to give him a photo album..cause i read peoples answers.. i already got him a necklace and braclet and cologn..i was guna give him my diary to read that ive been writing in for a while but i DEF. need something else so dont just say only the diary please. i dont know what else to get him. like tshirts are hard to find for him and yeah. please help! thanks

it doesnt matter how much you spend on your gift. i think its romantic when a guy give a girl 1 single red rose

maybe you can get him something he likes like maybe a video game or a movie or even a shirt

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ok, i'm not ugly, but i'm not exactly beautiful. does anyone know if there's a way to make me look and FEEL prettier? and by "pretty" i dont mean "slutty"

do your hair differently,use make up

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heyy everyone. ok i was wondering if a guy is 18 years old and your 15 is it illegal to go out as boyfriend and girlfriend? because theres this really hott college guy and i really like him a lot but hes like i cant ask her out because its illegal. thanks yall!

its illegal if you have sex which would be rape.. but im not sure if its illegal if you go out

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i've known this guy that i am dating for a really long time, and i like him so much. but it feels so odd when we kiss, because it feels as if i'm kissing someone like my brother. anybody have some advice?
thanx,
dazed and confuzed

im guessing hes like your bestfriend...so you love him but only as a friend, but it feels like more because your bestfriends. so maybe take a break with him and still be bestfriends

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I really want one of those cool quizes people have in their profiles on aol instant messanger. I cannot figure out how to get one though. Could any of you help me?

www.quizyourfriends.com >>i no theres more websites but they cant come to kind

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My parents got divorced and i'v been living with my mom, brother, and step-dad for over a year. I feel really bad for my dad because he lives alone and seems lonley. I think he should get a pet too bt he works and say`s he wouldn`t be able to take care of it and stuff. I think i want to live with my dad, but if i do i know my mom will cry and get alll upset.. :/ what should i do or say?! Plez help

maybe you can see him every other week or something like that

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whats black magic?

Magic practiced for evil purposes or in league with supposed evil spirits; witchcraft.


***Examples of "Black Magic" are spells and rituals of a 'negetive' nature and those that call on the forces of Darkness. These include cursing or hex spells, spells that try to force someone to do something they clearly would not do and spells/rituals associated with death and discord. Of coarse, spells/rituals involving evil spirits or the Devil are also Black Magick***

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Okay I failed a test in school with a 65, and to raise the grade, the teacher said we could take a retest. Problem is, we have to show a note to our parents saying we failed, and have them sign it. The re-test is tomorrow, and I still haven't showed my parents the note. WHAT do I do? Because..my parents kill me if I even get an 85. Help me. :(

tell them 'can you please sign this because i want to get a retest because i dont think i did that graeat and i wasnt trying my hardest' they will probably sign it. dont worry

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I'v been doing the whole secret admirer thing for a day or so now. I think that this girl knows its me doing it. Should I just play it off and continue with the plan or should I just forget it and go for it.

maybe keep writting notes or whatever your doing and like give hints to who you are and stuff and then in the end be like its me_______ will you go out with me or something like that

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Is it wrong to cry if your dog died and you've known her since you were a toddler? My friends would think it's silly, and when you think about it, it kind of is. Does anybody else think it's silly?

no, you kind of think of her as a best friend or even a family member. i couldnt see myself crying but when the time comes i would probably

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I've heard that if you go on a diet that restricts food intake or doesn't have the right nutrition, that when you go back to normal eating, you will gain back all the weight PLUS more. The gaining back all the weight makes sense, but what is it that makes you gain more? Just curious.

it makes you gain more because of your metabolism it slowed down so whatever you eat you will gain it right back

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okay im starting on birth control soon..and im on itcuz of my acne..but im also happy im on it cuz when i do bcome sexually active (imma virgin) with my BF of a year and 3 months i want to me 100% safe meaning using a condom and being on birth control..and i wanted to know..how long till birth control is effective? like how long should i wait till i can trust that it will work before i feel safe enough to go off and lose my virginity..

its effective after about a couple months after you take it. with a condom and birth control you still wont be 100% safe. you could still get pregnet and you could still get an STD, just be safe

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Ok well im going to paint my room a light green and im wondering if i should get a different shade of green for my bedspread and stuff or should i get a light orange one? please help me out! Thanx!! :o)

change your sheets with different colors or green because i dont really think orange really goes with green

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okay everybody,

I have a friend who is 12, but she's kinda tall, or atleast, that' what everybody says, and she's starting to hate it, czuse she think it's kind of annoying, so to reassure her, can someone tell me what the average height for someone who is 12, weighs 90 lb, is? I want to know, so I can tell if she really is too tall or not.plz help

well if shes 90 pounds i would think like 5'0

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Okay i like this girl in my school....I dont think she likes me.But she dont know I like her like that too....We met this year but we are really close.....What should i do!

tell her how you feel but your relationship might be a little weird

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My computer sucks.

Everytime I try to go onto any site that has anything run by Java, IE just shuts down. It doesn't say that anything is wrong, it doesn't give me an error pop-up or anything.

I've tried re-reinstalling Java. That worked for a week.

I've also tried downloading Firefox, thinking there might be something wrong with IE. But it does the same exact thing.

Does anyone have any idea why this is happening or how I could fix it?

it sounds like you have a virus, maybe take it to a computer store thing

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Heres the story I weigh 140 and I am 15 years old, that is not normal for a 15 year old! I am Fat and people may say i'm not but I am and I've been working out and everything and all that does is makes me hurt all day long the next day, i'm not asking this for people to say oh your not fat i'm asking it because I am very unhappy with how much I weigh and i'm unhappy with the fat on my stomach and legs!I was wondering if there is anything I can do to make all the fat on my stomach and my legs go away and fast I'm so sick of looking and feeling fat i'm sick and tired of it so if anyone can help me out with this please help me! I'll rate very high for anyone who gives me an honest answer, like are their any diet pills I can take that you can buy at wal-mart with out my parents knowing? please who ever can help me with this please do! Thanks in advance!-Signed wants to be thinner

first diet pills are unsafe. it would help if you gave your height but thats ok,it doesnt matter how old you are or anything, it depends on how tall you are. also most girls think their fat and everything when their really not. if your going to lose a lot of weight in a short amount of time you have to watch everything that you eat after you lose that weight because you will just gain it all beck.all you can do to lose weight is to eat healthy,exercise,drink water,dont eat that much

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Hey does anyone know a real easy to get rid of pimples fast without popping them please help.

1.wash your face with anti-bacterial soap
2.wash your face with face wash
3.put on a "cleanser"
4.(you dont have to do this)put on face lotion

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