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dating my bestfriend
i've known this guy that i am dating for a really long time, and i like him so much. but it feels so odd when we kiss, because it feels as if i'm kissing someone like my brother. anybody have some advice?
thanx,
dazed and confuzed
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hmmmmm thats tough because you should ask him, but if you do then he may feel weird. get one of your friends to ask him if yall have kissed he'll say yes and then she says is she good? then hell tell you. but i don't know what you should do maybe yall should just be friends with benafits hahaha kidding srry i had to make it a little funny it was getting boring. well i don't know sorry. i tryed.
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I think you have to try and determine <i>how</i> you like him. Because if you like him like a brother, it might be difficult to carry on a romantic relationship with him. You can't make yourself think of him in a different light. You can sure try, though, and make yourself feel guilty about not returning his romantic feelings. Don't beat yourself up either way, though...whether you like him as a boyfriend or not. It's just the way it was meant to be, and probably is for the better. You don't want to string him along when you really aren't <i>romantically</i> attracted to him.
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im guessing hes like your bestfriend...so you love him but only as a friend, but it feels like more because your bestfriends. so maybe take a break with him and still be bestfriends
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Try to close your eyes and relax when you kiss him. Try to also think of him in a different light. Don't think, 'he's like my brother!' think of him more as "he's my best friend," "my protector," or "my favorite."
And don't scrape a relationship based on the fact that kisses feel odd right now. If you two have been together a long time and are close, things will come naturally with time.
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