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Q: okay i dont really want a bf right now cuz i luv to b single but then when im singlei never get ne! so im wondering how do i get a guy to make out wit me if we're not goin out? i mean there are soo many hot guys around but i never have the courage to just go up to a guy and tell him wut i feel so help the gurl out asap!
Ask a guy for kissing lessons or something. I know you don't have that much courage to go up to a guy but, hunn, just try! It's not like you'll date him! Or ask a guy friend to the movies, mkae sure he knows it's not a date. Then kiss him. Guys may want you to make the move instead of them. Good luck!!! I hope I helped!!! xoxo, Maris

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this guy ive been dating w/ for a few weeks now.. but he acts like he doesnt even know im his g/f.. he NEVER calls me, and when he does he's so quiet..i havent even heard from him in over a week..its pathetic. id call him but im just thinking this is a bad relationship. should i break up with him?
I don't want your heart to break but yes, I think you should break up with him. It seems like you are ready for a relationship. He prob. isn't. I know it's hard to talk to him but if he doesn't call you in the next week, I think it's over. I'm sorry..... I am just trying to be truthful, sweetie. Hope I helped! xoxo, Maris
Any guy would be happy to have you!

Q: mi gf haz been acting diffrent. she uzed 2 luv tolkin 2 meh and she alwayz wanted 2 see me but now its like she dont like tolkin 2 meh that much nd she avoidz me sumtimez nd she still sayz she lovez me but not alwayz like she used to nd she dont alwayz wanna c me anymore. wut do i do?
Bring it up with her. You don't want to be dating her if she is possibly cheating on you. Tell her what you told me, like how she's avoiding you. Ask her what's going on. If she is your tru g/f, she will tell you the truth. I hope I helped! xoxo, Maris

Q: okay, I have this guy friend named "Joe" and we hav been frends for 5 years and alot of people say we shud go out , but we deny it! i like him and i wanna no how to no that he likes me before making a move. how can I find out he likes me? I rate!!!!
Try asking one of your friends to ask him who he likes or if he like you. Or ask his frinds who he likes. A good movie that would help would be, 13 going on 30. Jenna likes her guy friend. See what happens. Hope I helped!!! xoxo, Maris

Q: I'm shy around people I don't know. When my friends are talking to their friends that I don't know I get REALLY shy and I hardly say anything. I know people will just say start talking...but for people who are shy its not that easy. I'm just wondering if theres anyone else out there that has been shy and found a way to get over it...thanks.

-Zero
I think what the problem is is that you don't have enough confident in yourself. If you gain more confidence you'll be fine. Love yourself.
Hope I helped! xoxo, Maris

Q: thyz iz a dumb ? but how do u keep frum gettin shaver burnz on ur legz?
Use shaving cream and don't press to hard! Skintimate works really well. But if you don't want to cut yourslef use Veet. Nair smells bad..... don't use it!

Q: This is a stupid little thing.. but oh wells.

As of now, I'm hungry. I need something to snack on! Any ideas of what I could make for a little midnight snack?

Haha. Thanks!!
Don't eat anything salty... you'll want something to drink.... you'll have to go to the bathroom. Eating something fatning isn't always good. I'm going to be a mom here and say, eat soemthing healthy. Hope I helped!
xoxo, Maris

Q: Male 15
Why is it that i am never able to ask a girl out?
Most people say im just a stupid chicken and make fun of me. I need help :( Wats ur opinion?
You have to just go for it! If she says no, she says no. She would be a loser to say no to you, plus there is alot more fish in the sea! The best way to ask a girl out is not having to talk to her face to face! The phone is good, but IM is better! You don't have to talk either! Hope I helped!
xoxo, Maris

Q: how do u get a boyfriend i dont wanna act like a whore
It simple, start to flirt... online if great with a boy you like or you think is boyfriend material. Pretty soon, he'll ask you out. It's not to casual to ask a boy out but don't worry. Say something online like, you know, you look so much better with your hair short, if you would cut it, I would so go out with you. He may ask you out and maybe even cut his hair! But don't go out with a stranger just because you want a boyfriend! Hope I helped!
LyL, xoxo, Maris

Q: does anyone know any good places to make a babysitting flyer that will catch people's attention????? please help asap!! if you help, i'll rate 5!!!!!
Wawa... every goes there!!!!!! Or the newspaper!

Q: my bestfriends sister likes to make me cry i think she says her sister [my best friend] says im mean and i make her two faced and that im not nice at all im afraid to go back to her house because i dont wanna see her sister again im afraid ill do something to make her mad and yell at me again what do i do? should i just stay away from her and my best friend i mean they tell each other everything!
This happened to me before too. Actually the exact same thing. Tell your friend how you feel. It's the only hope. If your friend doesn't know, no one can make it better. Ask your friend to talk to her sister about it. Tell her that you are uncomfortable. Don't lose a friend, make things better!

Q: is it still pleasurable for a guy to kiss a girl with braces? do you have to do anything differnt?
I think it's fine. I just got my braces off, I know hwo your feeling. Here's a tip put on some lip gloss so your lips won't stick to your braces! Hope I helped!
xoxo, Maris

Q: My friends keep..."teasing"..me about something and its not really a big deal or anything but im getting embarrassed and i want them to stop, i told them that and they said they would but they havent....what should i do?
This happened to one of my best friends too. Try sitting down with your friends at a serious time and explain to them how you feel about them teasing you. They will prob. say "We we're just joking." Say that it really hurt and you already asked them before. You shouldn't have to ask a friend to stop doing something more then once.
I hope I helped!
xoxo, Maris

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Hey! I am Marissa and I'm 16. I live in South Carolina and I love to dance and laugh. I liek to give advice and help people a lot so feel free to ask me anything and I promise I will get back to you! &hearts

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