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I'm really shy...


Question Posted Sunday August 1 2004, 12:40 pm

I'm shy around people I don't know. When my friends are talking to their friends that I don't know I get REALLY shy and I hardly say anything. I know people will just say start talking...but for people who are shy its not that easy. I'm just wondering if theres anyone else out there that has been shy and found a way to get over it...thanks.

-Zero


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xoMarisox answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 9:42 pm:
I think what the problem is is that you don't have enough confident in yourself. If you gain more confidence you'll be fine. Love yourself.
Hope I helped! xoxo, Maris

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xO4uXo answered Sunday August 1 2004, 8:03 pm:
*hey sweetie*

i know how you feel, i was like that a while a go, i went threw all the same things that you are now. but a while bak i decided to show my wild and talkative side that i had when i wasnt around people i didnt know. Alot of people were surprised that i was talking and they kept on saying "she talks".Ever since then i can not seem to b quite,it feels realli good! so go for it, nad if u eva need any advice feel free to ask!

best of luck

x's n o's
*bethany*

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xo_Meg_ox answered Sunday August 1 2004, 6:30 pm:
smile and laugh when it's appropriate...find things that you know you can relate to them about - for example, if you notice they have the same cell phone as you, let them know and start a convo

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xoxoGlamGlamxoxo answered Sunday August 1 2004, 4:55 pm:
well....i use to be shy but i started talkin to more people i didn't know and i overcome bein shy..it works :)

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Kittie.And.Chains answered Sunday August 1 2004, 4:25 pm:
I'm shy too. When alone around my friends I'm the loud one, right smack in the center of attenchion. When other people are around I'm the opposite. I'm guessing your the same way.

I usually find comfort when my friends are around but I just usually act nice to people and the barriers just fall down. But I find people just really like talking to me. Just find a comfortable subject you can speak your mind on, it won't be as bad.

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twizzler2 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 4:23 pm:
I'm shy but i have gotten better. What I usually do is lyk if im at lunch and i dont know anyone at the table-i just compliment something i like about them...EX nice earings or ur hairstyle is kool. Be honest thou! And then if i'm stuck in a problem lyk in a big group try to make them laugh. Just be yourself..most lykly the other ppl are shy too!
Hope i helped ..Twizzler

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aLLyAtYoService answered Sunday August 1 2004, 4:11 pm:
I used to be pretty shy too. It sucks because the only way you can really break that barrier and for it to be easier to be yourself around other people is to just talk to people when you meet them. If you can conquer one person you can do the rest! Have cofidence in yourself & good luck!

<3 ally

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xlilcherrychic69 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 3:55 pm:
i know how you feel i get shy to..just try to talk to them its hard at first but you get used to it i hope i helped

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