im always here to help im really good at giving advice mostly about teenage problems not like my computer software crap! look im not supa smart, ask me questions that i'll know. but other than that im great! that doesnt mean i wont have questions of my own im still learning too so if i dont answer a question of yours than dont get mad b.c i havnt been through it. im very honost to people so if u ask i will certainly tell thats my motto! Just one more thing people if you dont like the way i type then get over it. thats how i am and its not like im typing to some important person. well you are but not that important!
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Ok so some people are probaly going to think I'm just making this all up and as I'm typing I'm having a hard time beliving it but I asure you that this is all true. I have known this girl for quite along time and we dated several times ending in failure. Then as we have goten older (im 17)(shes 16) we have talked less and less. We are both in relationships now and her bf severly dislikes me and my gf is afraid she is going to try and steal me. Anyway the only times we talk is if she is severly upset and needs some one to talk to.This is the strange part now, a few days ago I had a panic attack and cried for over and hour and punched my bedroom wall to my hand was bloody, thats not the strange part though I hadn't talked to "her" in quite some time but she texted me the next day saying what was the matter. I was shocked to see this, she had told me once that she had some psychic powers and could see ghost and spirits. Part of me belives this is true part of me is still skeptical. The real problem is that she seems to find away into my head like when I don't talk to her in a while its like she never exisited but her name is even metioned or just the friendly "Hello" in the hall I rember why I dated her in the first place and shes all I can think about. How can I get over her when she can always be their if you know what I mean? (link)
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well u never forget the people you love its just the way it is if i knwe how to get over someone life would be ten times better. someone told me to just stop calling her and hang out with family and friends more just to get it her off your mind
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What is the safest time for a woman to have sex? (link)
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there is no safe time
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Alright. Im 15. And I do know that right now is really early to start having sex. or whatever. But i feel really pressured. Everyone had girlfriends or boyfriends. And Im like the odd one out. And I feel like, whenever I do have a boyfriend, and I do refuse to have sex, they might breakup with me. Because right now is so sex realated. Everything is about sex. And more sex. Or "head".. I dont know. So Im thinking what is the worse thing that can happen if I do decide to have sex right now. I will just be up to date. And If i use a condom. Everything will be ok..??
And just so you know. Im not the one just to go find some dude and have sex with him. I will go through the regular process or whatever. and like wait like 3 months to start..but im still really iffy about the situation.??
I dont know. I just feel out. (link)
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hello i am 15 too and yes i know exactly what you are going thourgh and to tell you if i were you if you do get a boyfriend dont wait 6 months in the relationship thinking your both madly inlove wait a year im telling you its the best time to wait. 15 is a border line ready not ready to young its confusing and if you just go ahead and have sex it can change your mind about things drastically not just little and if you do use a condom it doesnt mean your 100% safe from becoming pregnate. the purepressure thing sucks to the limit of all about being a teen and the only way to live above the purepressure is to do what you think is really rite and waiting 3 months into the relationship to have sex or give head in my oppinion is not ok. it would take me at least a year i would want to reallly know the guy it would be better if the guy was your friend for a year or two then you guys went out for like a year and had sex. emotionally you are not ready i can tell already and maybe not even physically. so waiting is a key thing to do and it doesnt matter if everyoen has a boyfriend you dont have to be like everyone and having a boyfriend or girlfriend is so hard you always have to talk to them theres the gifts worrying if they like somone else if they are cheating on you why are they acting differnt all of a sudden so really think about it if your going to have sex or do anything to do with sex. be safe get the rite guy or girl. but i really hope your going to take my advice and wait and dont think about it if somoenes telling you to just do it they are deffinalty not someone your going to want to hang out with or you know. follow your own path.!
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OK i know this way off topic from sex but on like a scale of 1-10 10 being the highest can someone rate the amount of pain to get
Eye brow pierced
Lip pierce
Tounge
Nipple
Belly button
Clit
I cant figure out which would have the least anmount of pain cause i hate pain!!
And how tolerbale are you to pain cause im not good with pain Thanks alot (link)
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ok i can deal with pain and idk how bad that otha stuff hurts but im sure to find out so far just like the ears but it hast to hurt same amount as the ears to get ready for the peircing i would pinch the spot u want as hard as you can to see how hard it will hurt usually doesnt hurt as much as you pinch
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hi my names katherine
i go to my dads at the weekends and i go to this youth club thing and we know a load of boys there.
anyway theres this boy called kile and the other week he was flirting with my step sister and i was there but the week after when she wasnt there he started flirting with me but a lot more than my step sis, anyway the week after my step sis came and he wasnt always with her he was like evening it out, but my other step sis asked him if he likes me an he said yes, but that day we met this other boy as well but hes one year younger than me and kiles two years anyway i know kile likes abi but me as well and i know the other boy likes me
what should i do (link)
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well just look at them and see who u would rather be with whos more fun nicer and knows how to make u laugh more!
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Alright, I straighten my hair, but it's layered, so i straighten the top, and then at the bottom's I go under, so it's curly, you know.
Well, how do I make it stay like this? Cause after awhile it will just be all gross. I want it to stay curly the whole day, but how? (link)
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what i do it put my hair in a bun after taking a shower put hair gell in put it in a bun in the morning or an hour or so after take it down put a lil more gell in and hairspray!
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I hope this is the right place to put this question, it's the closest place I could find.
I realized recently that most of the problems in my life can be traced back to me not taking enough risks. I need to start taking more risks. Even the stupidest things, I can't do, I freeze up. How do I learn to take more risks? (link)
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you know im nothing like that my sister is and i dont know how she can live like that you need to learn to have fun let loose of everything just think that you only have one life to live and if you waste it on just not taking enough risks or sitting in your room being boring is not a life u want to live so get up and just do it say that over and over just do it. do things that wont kill you at first like going up to a guy you think is so hott and yell it out to him let him know. yell somethings out to let everyone know i do it all the time sure its embarrasing but i dont think so my friends hate it but love it some people need guts to do it!
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Well he asked me out about 4 months ago and we had sex and everything but he's in the army and he's going 4 training and stuff witch I'm ok with he's helping free our contrey I'm proud of him but then he said he wants 2 go on active dutiy 4 3 years and I already worry about him like 24/7 I mean he's my life I'm just scard that he might not make it and it hurts but I would miss that he always wants sex even if I'm crying r something he talks 2 me and when I stop crying he asks me if I want 2 have sex its like he's horny 24/7 (link)
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well it seems you really love him and he just wants what every otha guy wants in this world. guys are like dogs u give them something once and think they can get it all the time. for you i think you should just talk to him about it. tell him is sex the only thing he cares about in this relationship. if it is then its not meant to be its sad but sex is not everything in a relationship and he needs to know that cuz if one day you marry him they physical attractions towards eachother dont always last so handle it now or have a divorce in the future!
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alright so me and my other three friends are looking for a band name and we cannot think of one! we're all girls and we're kind of rock-ish punk-ish emo-ish. lol. so if you have any good suggestions thanks! (link)
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thunkers
tree chicas
rounkmoish thats rock punk emo ish all together! here is how to say it Runk- Mo-ISH
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You know how love can be based on looks,personality,interest,etc.etc.?
well can it be based only one?I think so,but I want your opinion too,like some girls just love a guy cause he looks hot and then only get to know him further,and some girls like guys that play guitar.
anywayws,i met this gal online,and we did not see each other at all,after talking for quite a while we logged off.then the following day we chatted again for hours.She then told me that she likes me and really loves my personality and the way I talk and asked me to be her bf.
So the question is this,is that love? or maybe like?(If love is too strong a word).In this situation,can it be counted that this girl actually likes me? or is it not counted as a crush/love/like since she has not seen me at all but just talked to me?
thanks (link)
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it could be love but it couldnt youll know when your in love its a forever thing!
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Hey
i just wanted 2 no wat a good halloween costume
is ...i live in Australia and i no not many people do it here but i think it could be fun just with a few friends...sooo yea a good idea for a costume...thanx a bunch!
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an american haha jk!
like if u want it funny then a pimp daddy
cowgirl
princess
witch
a killer idk w.e!
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hi, i know this might be a little too much information but i AM pretty nervous for some strange reason. First off i NEVER had sex in my life, i have done other things but sex isn't one of them. anyway. i am really nervous because my period the past 3 months has either been on the 7th or 8th day of the month but its now the 14th almost the 15th and i still haven't got it is that normal for a 15 year old girl?
now although i havent had sex im still REALLY nervous like if there is something wrong with me.
please help asap. thank you =]
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nah nothing is wrong with you the same thing happends to me i start in the begining of the month but for some reason it started like 2 weeks early! my mom said it was just because ur growing up! its not regular yer but it is normal for that to happen!
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hi 14f
my period has been lasting for almost 2 weeks now
is that normal??
has that ever happened to you?
also it has also only been coming during the night time for the past few days!
thank you (link)
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umm ok that guys b4 me was totally wrong its perfectly normal im 15 and have had my period when i was11 its still al fucked up. i have it for two weeks i dont know why but im guessing this is totally normal! i think its because you arnt fully grown and your period isnt in its normal course yet its also normal when it comes early!
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why do i cry when i look at pictures from when i was younger? & from when people tell me like "oh when you were little you used to do this and this..." and i want to cry?
it's really weird.. =/ (link)
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you miss the past you wish it could be the same like always but you see how much you have grown it takes a big hit on you! trust me i feel the same way perfectly normal~!
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I think I may be pregnant. I'm not so sure right now, so I'm not going to get a test or go to the doctors until I talk to my mom/boyfriend.
First of all, I'm on the pill and have been for almost a year and I use spermicide condoms ALWAYS. so i'm not sure if i am pregnant since we never had a tear in the condom.
But maybe it's my imagination, but my boobs got slightly bigger or maybe it's because i'm not wearing a bra? I dunno, they aren't tender or anything. My stomach looks bloated. I have a high metabolism too and my period is a week & a half away.
Is there any other reason why my stomach looks slightly bloated? Before I jump to conclusions? (link)
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before you get your period you seem bloated thats how it is so dont worry to much but if your period seems to be 2 weeks late then get a pregnacnys test!
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Does diet affect the amount of zits you have? Because it seems whenever I eat a lot of junk food I break out...=[ (link)
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actually eating fatty foods doesnt make you break out but when you are eating them and then you touch your face thae oil probally makes you break out dont touch your face and you wont break out as much!
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hey, for all you creative people out there, i need a name for my dog i will be adopting tomorrow. it is a girl and it is a german shorthaired pointer breed. if u have any ideas PLEASSE write back =]
heres what the breed will look like when it is an adult (copy and paste the link into your adress bar to see the picture)
http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://
www.dogbiz.com/dogs-grp1/pointer-german-sh/
images/german-shorthaired-pointer-300x235-tig-1
28.gif&imgrefurl=http://www.dogbiz.com/dogs-grp1/pointer-german-sh/germ-shorthaired-pt.htm&h=235&w=300&sz=17&hl=en&start=43&tbnid=rDhYEnU21ZJXjM:&tbnh=91&tbnw=116&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dgerman%2Bshorthaired%2Bpointer%26start%3D40%26gbv%3D2%26ndsp%3D20%2
6svnum%3D10%26hl%3Den%26sa%3DN (link)
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ik its stupid but its differnt and who names their dog this rite here a couple of names
pickles
bettsy
or neap!
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mk so i've never really had a real boyfriend and i was kinda desprete so a few weeks ago i met a older man online and we had sex. It was pretty much just a one night thing. I really liked him and would like something more then that from a guy but i also do want sex. I'm 15 and I don't know what i'm doing wrong, i'm pretty outgoing, tall, thin, i consider myself nice...what should i do to get a boyfriend? (link)
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ok people are gonna like rape you if you meet them online and if you get pregnate even thou u uesd protection that could become into a serious problem and dont be desprate guys can tell and its a total turn off cuz they are gonna think your some slut easy to get into the pants and you dont want that rep becuase then no ones eva gonna want you but be yourself and dont ever tell ne one that you met an olderman online and dont do that again!!! please. but it does take time for a nice guy to come around wait for the rite one. acting like yourself is the number one key thing here to getting aboyfriend not being a slut!
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i thnk i walked around school all day with a blood stain on the back of my shorts. that is just so embarasing and then my friend just came to see me and i walked away and he was in the car, i know he deff saw that tho. like its overwhelming,what do i do to get over the embarasmenttt? (link)
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ahh same thing happend to me once it is so embarrasing but if they ask u sat in paint in art!
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what is that thing that you get on your tv and it has alot of channels? how much does it cost monthly? (link)
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umm timewarner cable its like 10 a month i think it depends what u get with it!
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