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Old lovers
Ok so some people are probaly going to think I'm just making this all up and as I'm typing I'm having a hard time beliving it but I asure you that this is all true. I have known this girl for quite along time and we dated several times ending in failure. Then as we have goten older (im 17)(shes 16) we have talked less and less. We are both in relationships now and her bf severly dislikes me and my gf is afraid she is going to try and steal me. Anyway the only times we talk is if she is severly upset and needs some one to talk to.This is the strange part now, a few days ago I had a panic attack and cried for over and hour and punched my bedroom wall to my hand was bloody, thats not the strange part though I hadn't talked to "her" in quite some time but she texted me the next day saying what was the matter. I was shocked to see this, she had told me once that she had some psychic powers and could see ghost and spirits. Part of me belives this is true part of me is still skeptical. The real problem is that she seems to find away into my head like when I don't talk to her in a while its like she never exisited but her name is even metioned or just the friendly "Hello" in the hall I rember why I dated her in the first place and shes all I can think about. How can I get over her when she can always be their if you know what I mean?
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Don't give her more power then she deserves.
I don't know much about telepathy, but I do know that is a basic truth of the universe: People only have as much control over you and your life as you give them.
If you spend your time obsessing over your 'connection' with her, her abilities, or your relationship with her from years ago, you WILL be haunted by her.
That isn't the universe causing it, it's YOU doing it to yourself.
I would suggest, to you both, that you stop contacting each other in your moments of weakness. Reconnect with each other when you are free to do so, but unless you are going to dump your girlfriend and chase this girl down, you need to maintain some distance, both physically and mentally.
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well u never forget the people you love its just the way it is if i knwe how to get over someone life would be ten times better. someone told me to just stop calling her and hang out with family and friends more just to get it her off your mind
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