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my boyfriend is really scarying me
Well he asked me out about 4 months ago and we had sex and everything but he's in the army and he's going 4 training and stuff witch I'm ok with he's helping free our contrey I'm proud of him but then he said he wants 2 go on active dutiy 4 3 years and I already worry about him like 24/7 I mean he's my life I'm just scard that he might not make it and it hurts but I would miss that he always wants sex even if I'm crying r something he talks 2 me and when I stop crying he asks me if I want 2 have sex its like he's horny 24/7
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Talk to him about how you feel about him being in the army. Tell him it worries you; that makes sense, as there is real danger there. However, eventually part of you has to let that go. Yes, you are worried, but once you've communicated this to him, there's not much else you can do. It's up to you to figure out how you are going to cope with the situation. It might be best to try worrying about him a little less, if you do that 24/7. Try going out with friends more, or taking up a hobby, something that will distract you and make you a more individual, happier person.
As for the sex, it's all right if he wants it a lot of the time. As long as he doesn't pressure you to have it when you say no, it's fine. Scheduling more dates outside and in the open might help to make him less horny.
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well my ex-boyfriend is in the army... and he is a "horny toad" as well. Kyle has been at basics since september and he has changed so muchh already. At basics, guys have a lot of time to think about things... so hopefully he'll calm down. The only problem with dating a guy in the army is that when they go to iraq or wherever they go, they can sleep with people (NUMEROUS AMOUNTS of people) and you never find out about it...
its awful but its something i still worry about...
we are supposed to get back together but idk
my heart is broken but i know it will work for the best. Thats what you have to do. Dont give in to things you dont want to do, but dont settle for what you DONT want.
If a guys respected you, he would like YOU, not what you give him. The easiest way to see if hes worth keeping around is to hold off on the sex and see how he reacts.
idk what else to say but i hope i was of some help.
since you understand my situation a little, you should answer my question i just submitted "Love is a battlefield."
XoXO
madison
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well it seems you really love him and he just wants what every otha guy wants in this world. guys are like dogs u give them something once and think they can get it all the time. for you i think you should just talk to him about it. tell him is sex the only thing he cares about in this relationship. if it is then its not meant to be its sad but sex is not everything in a relationship and he needs to know that cuz if one day you marry him they physical attractions towards eachother dont always last so handle it now or have a divorce in the future!
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I think you should seriously talk to him about it. Maybe he doesn't know that it bothers you. Maybe he's afraid of going off to serve & wants to make the best out of things. Regardless, he shouldn't pressure you into having sex. He might not realize what he is doing though. He is a guy & guys naturally want to have sex, most do at least. Discuss this with him & don't be afraid to explain your feelings towards the situation.
-hope that helped!♥
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