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risky business... I hope this is the right place to put this question, it's the closest place I could find.
I realized recently that most of the problems in my life can be traced back to me not taking enough risks. I need to start taking more risks. Even the stupidest things, I can't do, I freeze up. How do I learn to take more risks?
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haha! this question makes me laugh!.. you are the same way as me. iv probably asked myself this 100 times in the same wording. i would freeze up on telling somone i liek their shirt.. or telling somone hi.. even my friends!... just.. do it. dont think about it. do it. little things.. just do it. i dotn mean go out and steal a car.. but i mean do little things and then when bigger things like.. doign a solo in choir or trying out for a play come.. itll be less of a jump... just do it. simple as that.. i knwo it sounds more simple than it is.. just try to.. and youll feel better about yourself ]
you know im nothing like that my sister is and i dont know how she can live like that you need to learn to have fun let loose of everything just think that you only have one life to live and if you waste it on just not taking enough risks or sitting in your room being boring is not a life u want to live so get up and just do it say that over and over just do it. do things that wont kill you at first like going up to a guy you think is so hott and yell it out to him let him know. yell somethings out to let everyone know i do it all the time sure its embarrasing but i dont think so my friends hate it but love it some people need guts to do it! ]
well theres a simple answer. just take a risk! its hard to explain.. dont do something too crazy where you could really get hurt or anything, but sometimes you just say "screw it!" and do it anyways. always think of whats there to lose and whats there to gain by taking the risk. ]
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