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with a name like mariait has to be good ♥
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ok i have this friend and she thinks she has the worst skin and really all that's bad is she's got kind of redish skin and a few spots of acne and its not TERRIBLY bad..but she thinks its really bad so she fricken LOADS on concealer..powder..foundation and all that junk and it takes her AT LEAST 20 min to do her make-up (meaning just the foundation n stuff) and it looks SO bad and people are now starting to talk about her and she just wears sooooo much foundation and idk how to tell her and its disgusting almost..what should i tell her??
tell her she's overduing the makeup and that she should lighten up on it. but also tell her to try the proactive stuff. that stuff is amazing! especially when it comes the makeup! proactive has the most wonderful makeup i have ever tried! and the cleanser, toner, and lotion works wonders!
Love Always,
Maria
im 13/m and just wondering. my goal is to be a virgin until i get married, i want that special moment to be with the women i love, can i get some feedback? anything you want to say. ill rate all answers with a 5
irish
13/m
that's so amazing! you never meet anyone that says they want to wait until marriage!... especially a guy!
Love Always,
Maria.
Okay, He's 17, I'm 14, I really really REALLY like him and have known him for about 5-7 years. Family freinds, tight. whatever. ANd he knows I like him and he's said a bunch of times that he like's me as much, we were valentine's, have plans on "hooking up", and then I asked him what our relationship was, and he says "friends with benefits" and I was hurt by it, just because freinds with benfits sounds like he doesn't care about me as much as I do him, even though he's said it. I know age is a thing to get over, but it's not that bad. When he's 18 it'll be differnt. And he and I live in different towns, like 30 minutes away, and see eachother on vacations and what not. Distane and age is not an issue for me at all. But it is for him. And I don't know what to do, because I really like him, and can't figure out what he wants from me. Any adivce? I'll rate and whatnot.
first of all: you're too young to be hooking up.
second of all: i know you dont care, but he's too old for you sweetheart.
and finally: obviouslly he doesnt truly care about you if he has the nerves to call you a friend with benifits. so drop him and leave him.= and find someone new..hopefully around your age...
Love Always,
Maria
i really like this guy... and he likes me too.. and heres the problem... hes 18... im 14.. and my mom wont let me go anywhere w/out her when im with a guy.. so i cant ever go anywhere with him.. and he doesnt go to my school.. and my mom just said im not allowed to talk to him since hes 18.. what should i do?
get some help! that's what you should do!
i'm not trying to be mean or anything, but you're stupid!..and what you're doing is disgusting! at least your mom has enough common sense to try to stop you! i'm freaking 14 too and i would never go out with some 18 year old dude. all he probably wants is some tight ***** to screw and then he'll drop you on your ass when youre all stretched out. sorry hun, but the truth hurts. and dont get all mad cuz you're the one putting yourself out there.
Maria.
my mom's an alcoholic, my dad left us, and i'm all alone. how do i make myself happier??
think positive and try to keep yourself busy and away from your home life. try to keep your attention focused on school and friends and just be optimistic! or better yet, talk to your mom and tell her to grow up!
Love Always,
Maria.
wut's up with you and john? he's telling everyone that yall are going out.
um nothings going on. he's just a bit... crazy..!
Love Always,
Maria.
hey. i know who likes you! you sat across from him during that debate play thing. well actually you were sitting at the tables right next to each other but you were facing each other. well that dude likes you. he likes you a lot!
nick han??? pssshh yea right! i remember he was sitting across from me cuz i was watching that whole table play around with a spinny belt and then get in trouble by tasker.
Love Always,
Maria.
I need help because I have always been a sporty type of person, and now I like this one boy. People just don't understand that I have a sensitive side. I need help to make it seem that I have a sensitive side and for people to accept me for this.
let that sensitive side of you out! it's as easy as that. if you want the guy, then just drop some hints and hopefully he can see that you like him! but just be yourself. you're WHOLE self! show that you have a sensitive side AND a sporty side. just be yourself!
Love Always,
Maria
I met this woman through work, and I would like to get to know her better. I don't ever get to see er anymore though, and the only way I know of to get in touch with her is to cal her. I vever asked for her number, but I can look it up. Should I call her, or would it be a bad idea, since she hasn't given me her number?
go ahead and call her. it could be very flattering for her. but it depends on what you say! if you say the wrong things, she may think youre a total creep! maybe send her flowers first...maybe every other day for about a week but dont put your name on it. then call her! that would be so adorable!
Love Always,
Maria
Theres this guy in my class, we're kinda friends, but recently since I told friends I liked him they say they haven't told but he's been kinda blankin me mostly. One of the friends says I should ask him out, but I'm no Sandra Bullock. So should I or shouldn't I????
Thanx
dont do anything that you dont wanna do. if you dont wanna ask the guy out, then you dont have to. do what you want! if he likes you enough, then he'll totally ask you out! just make it obvious to him!
Love Always,
Maria
Hey is it ok to flirt with your best guy friend? Cause he is like a borther to me! And he says i am his best girl friend! like a sister to him! how do i know if he likes me or something and we have talks about how good of friends we are. we also like share the same drinks and stuff like that! And we also skateboard together. And everyone thinks we are going out but we aren't! we are just friends! please help me! i rate high!
i flirt with my guy friends all the time...i'm just a big flirt i guess. but yea it's ok until it gets to the point that he likes you but you dont feel the same way and you're kinda stuck..ya know?? like you find out he likes you but you dont and you dont wanna hurt he is feelings. so be careful for that. i've been in that position before and it's horrible!
Love Always,
Maria
Here it goes>> My bestfriend Alex (girl)and I have gotten really close over the time we have know each other. Well something happened and know she wont talk to me and acts as if she hates me. We have gone to each other for everything. What could i do or say or to her without losing her. She means the world to me
Just let her know that you're there for her no matter what and that no matter what happens, you're always going to be good friends!
Love Always,
Maria
im an 8th grade guy and i wanted to know if there is a good way to get 8th grade girls to like me
Just be yourself and make the girl comfortable. Say something really nice to her that would make her feel good about herself. Just be nice to her and treat her with respect! But make sure your not a manwhore! Then you really won't have a relationship that will last a while.
Love Always,
Maria.
i broke up with my bf like 1 year ago and now he goes to my skool and I like him so what should I do ????
Become friends with him first and just start talking and tell him how you feel. Just be open and honest with him about how you feel! Hopefully you'll get the same thing from him.
Love Always,
Maria
i just got over this huge break up and i've finally moved on and the guy i moved onto always makes me laugh and we always flirt and i realized i have feelings for him. I want to tell him that i like him, and well i did..but he said he kinda liked me and he didn't want a girlfriend and wanted to stay friends..its so weird cuz i think about him day and night and i just want to be with him...can i say something to him to make him give me a chance? please help!
I dont think there's really anything you can say to him to make him change his mind. I guess the only thing you can do is let him know you're there for him and that you care about him and he'll realize that you two could be a really good couple. good luck!
Love Always,
Maria.
i saw a girl post how she has hair on her upper lip and she dosent know what to do and so someone said shave it off... i was just wondering... my grandma told me that if you do that it will leave hair like when guys shave not hair but like little bits.. ok that doesnt make sense but if anyone knows what i am talking about-is it ok to shave ur upper lip (im a girl) thanx
i wouldnt if i were you. you know how you your hair on your armpits and legs look, well that's the way it'll look on your lip. it's going to grow back thicker and faster! so dont shave it. get it waxed. or if you have enough time, pluck it out with eyebrow tweasers. but whatever you do, dont shave it!
Love Always,
Maria.
what happened with heikos bike?
everyone was pissed off at him cuz he called kurtis white trash and he was telling everyone that i liked him so we all just blew up and i deflated his tires on his bike and kurtis and him were gonna get into a fight until some parent got outta his car and told everyone to leave him alone. it's all over now. i dont think anything like this will happen again until he opens up his mouth.
Maria
i'm telling you..dr likes you!!!
he's a cool kid. he finished his day 10 in tech ed today and i'm only on day 6. i hate my partner!!! argggghhhh!
Love Always,
Maria
Next year, when I'm in 9th grade, I want to join color guard. The thing is I have no experience at all.I have a good figure, but at times I'm kinda clumsy and I'm afraid I will drop the riffel or something. Also, it takes me a little bit longer to learn a routine than most people because I have never done dance or anything of the sort.
Does anyone have any suggestions that will help me be more cordinatted? (sp)Thanks!!
Over the summer, do dance or ballet or something physical! I'm going through the EXACT same thing! Even gymnastics could help you with that! Just do anything phsical cuz doing any type pf physican thing will increase your stamina and coordination!
Love Always,
Maria
hey, me and my boyfriend, were both 18, want to get married, and his mom has absolutely no problem with it, because she already considers me her daughter, but my dad is totally against it. what should i do
Maybe try to change your dad's mind by showing him that you are ready. Make a financial plan and make sure you have job opportunities and try to go to college if you want. Your dad may think you're too young, but maybe if you prove him wrong by being more responsible and more ready for life, he'll look at you as the adult you already are!
Love Always,
Maria