Gender:
FemaleLocation:
NYAge:
18Member Since:
December 25, 2006Answers:
696Last Update:
January 9, 2011Visitors:
37640Favorite Columnists
Brandi_S
MikeCFT
Sabine
Main Categories:
Fashion and Styles
General Sex Questions
Random Weirdos
View All
about
I'm 18 and about to enter my sophomore year of college. Feel free to ask me questions about anything- I'll try to help in the best way possible! :)
advice
what are the bases? like sexual i dont know what they are. thanks haha i feel so stupid.
oh and i was watching a movie and the girl and a girl named vanessa talked:
girl: so who have you made out with?
Vanessa: some kid who was into indie rock.
girl: anddd... the dirty details?
vanessa: idnn
Girl: at least give me numbers
Vanessa: ok definitely 1 and 2 and a little bit of three.
what do those numbers mean?
it varies from person to person but this is how i see it:
1st base: kissing, making out
2nd base: hj, fingering
3rd base: oral
home: sex
inthe movie Disturbia.. (amazing movie!) does anyone know what the song was that was playing when he was alone because of house arrest? it was something about being lonely.. thanks!!
Lonely Day - System of a Down
I loved that movie and shia labeouf is delicious hahah
I had sex on the last day of my period (like i was still bleeding lightly but we both wanted to anyway), he came inside of me figuring i couldn't get pregnant since it was my last day. true?
You can still get pregnant when you're on your period.
Ok, here's the deal. You see like two weeks ago I was on my period, and now I'm on it agian. I'm a little scared because it's heavier than most of my other ones. I told my mom, and she said that she's going to call the docter. I'm only 13 and my mom told me that it is probally because of my horomones, but I need some more advice than that. Can anyone tell me wants going on?
PLEASE and thank you. ^_^
Since you're only 13, it's probably because your period isn't regular yet. Most girls don't get their periods once every month around the same time until a few years after they get their first period. I'm almost positive that you're perfectly fine and it's nothing to worry about.
13/F. This entire school year I have been wearing a 32AA bra. My friends have always made fun of me for my little boobs. Well my mother got me fitted this weekend and according to the people I should be wearing a 32B bra instead. Now they dont look right on me and when I told my friends they didn't believe at all that was my size and even asked me if I stuffed. Im too afraid to wear my new bra cause I think people will believe I stuff or will say mean things about me. I dont like wearing this size bra and im going to my best friends house tonight and she deffinately doesnt believe me. What should I do?
Don't worry about your friends. They shouldn't really care about what number is on the tag of your bra. Since you got professionally fitted, that's the size that you're really supposed to wear. It's just a number, so don't be afraid of it! I have like no boobs, but I wear a B too. Don't worry about what people think. They won't think that you stuff or whatnot -your boobs are the same size, your bra is just a different size. If you're really afraid of what your friends say, just say that a professional fit you. They shouldn't care so much. =)
(14/f)
When do you think is the right age to give head to a guy?
If you knew him for a long time?
My friend told me it would ruin my life if i do it
Suggestions PLEASE!
It's up to you, you should do it whenever you're comfortable and ready to do it. I don't know how it would ruin your life if you do it, unless your friend means getting and STD (which is possible). So you should do whatever you're ready to do whenever you know that you're ready.
does anyone know why on myspace
when i try to put a picture caption it appears
".."
i use tinypic and i use the last code out of the 3 codes like it says
>.< help please!
I know what you mean, it was doing that to me too. You can just use the first like, or you can try a different site like www.imageshack.us . You can use this code and paste the last link that Imageshack gives you, or you can just use the 3rd link (Hotlink for Websites).
ok well ive decided to go tanning for the very first time you see im not the type of girl that would normally do this but its something i want to do but the only problem is i have no idea how to like i know you have to wear something like a bathing suit but how do you adjust the temperature? and how do you know when its done? the lady told me there was two options but i forget the names of both how do i get a nice tan with out turning orange and without coming out the same i was before?? help!!!
When I go tanning (I'm not sure if this is how it works for where you're gonna go) I go up to the front counter and the lady asks me how long I want to tan for. I go in there and tan & whatnot, and the bed automatically turns off when your time is up. The temperature is already set. It's not like in movies how the girl always has to turn a knob, it's already set for you, so you really don't have to do anything at all. You don't have to wear a bathing suit, a lot of people go naked when they go tanning because of tanlines. If you want to though, that's fine. The two options that the lady probably gave you were bed or booth. A booth is where you stand up in, and personally I think that it works better. It's not as scary as it looks. I was freaked out when I first stepped into one, but it's not bad once you get the hang of it.
http://pics.hoobly.com/full/VD6Z18EHSKBOJ9RCMO.jpg
A bed is what you lay down in, and it's usually in a separate room.
http://www.mercantila.com/Images/800x600/ETS_Solaris_42_3F_Tanning_Bed.jpg
You won't turn orange from using a booth/bed, but you might turn orange if you get a spray on tan.
If you don't want to come out the same as you were before, you might want to ask the lady at the front desk what's the longest time that you should tan for your skin tone. You might have to go a few times before you see drastic results if you have really fair skin.
Hope I helped. =)
Hey. I'm 14/m, and I'm mildly worried that I'm becoming addicted to masturbation.
I got into it slowly, and soon found myself in a rhythm of masturbating once every other night. Is that too much?
Anyway, I masturbated last night and the night before, and now I'm feeling this incredible pull to do it again. I really don't want to get addicted. Might I be becoming addicted? Are there any negative health affects of masturbation?
Thanks. I rate.
you're fine, don't worry haha. there aren't any negative health affects of masturbation, it's actually healthy for you. =)
I need help. I am 13/f and I'm having trouble finding bathing suits. I'm small so when ever I look at bathing suits that fit, they are kiddish. I am a 10 in tops and bottoms. If you can help, please do so.
Thanks in advance.
You could try out Limited Too. They have 1 pieces and 2 pieces. It's a store for younger girls, but some of their bathing suits are cute! If you want a 2 piece, for the top and bottom it's around $40.
ok, so yesterday i went to my boyfriends house. we were messing around and he fingered me like really hard and when i got home, i noticed i was bleeding. did he pop my cherry? am i still considered a virgin? im so confused and worried b/c i didnt want to have sex or lose my virginity til im married
you MIGHT have popped your cherry, but you might have been bleeding because he was fingering you really roughly. he could have cut something and that might be why you were bleeding. you might have already popped your cherry and not even noticed it. you could have done it when you were running, riding a bike , or doing another simple activity. you're still a virgin, so don't worry. you lose your virginity when there's actual penetration from the penis into the vagina.
i know this sounds stupid but when people say "he fingered (sp?) me" wat does tht mean thanx :D
When a guy 'sticks' his fingers into a girls vagina giving her pleasure
does someone want to explain to me what is 4/20 all about? thanks
Basically just a day to smoke weed.
Hi all, this is yg. I consider this a question, I am also kind of looking for opinions. I am asking here instead of the mod forum because I'd like answers from those who are mods, and those who may not be yet. There is no right or wrong answer, so please, honest opinions only.
In the last month and a half this question, or a version of this question has come up and it bothers me. 'How can I hide that I have been on advicenators?' I assume it was meant from parents.
I would like to know if others have this problem.
Do you have to hide that you use the site?
If so why?
What do you think would make it acceptable to your parents?
Would you be embarrassed for your parents to see the site?
If so is it because of questions asked?
Questions you've asked? Or just the questions in general?
Answers given?
YOUR answers given, or just everyones answers?
Has anyone, besides myself, (who talked to both my kids about it), Talked to their parents about BECOMING an advicenator?
I think it is a great way to initiate conversation
about topics you may be embarrassed to discuss with a parent about yourself. I wonder if anyone has done that?
I think I have plagued you with enough questions for now. Thank you! :)yg
My parents have seen me on this site, and they really don't mind me being on it. I just say that it's an advice site and they're like "Oh cool, you're helping out some people, huh?" ..or something like that.
I would be kind of embarassed if my parents looked at my site and saw answers to the sex questions, because of course, that is a little embarassing.
I just keep my column to myself and not tell the whole world about my page because I don't really want people to read some of the answers I give. Some of them are personal, and come from things that have actually happened to me, and I don't really want a ton of people that I know to know some of the personal things in my life.
Overall, my parents don't care that I have this site, but I wouldn't really like if they read some of these answers I've given. Just a little embarassing. =)
How should I tell my mom about me having vaginal discharge. Im 13 and of course a female. I know she wont do nothing it's just I'm embarassed
You don't have to tell her if you don't want to. Discharge is completely normal and every girl gets it, so it's nothing to worry over. She doesn't really need to know, so you can go ahead and keep it to yourself. =)
Every day after school, I get on the computer. I talk to this guy that I like. (He can only stay on the computer until 5:30 PM.) Before I met him, I would work out every day at 4. Reccently, I've been starting working out later, like at 4:30. Whenever I tell him I have to go, he always says, "Don't leave me." or "I want you to stay!" I really want to stay and talk to him, but I know I'll be sorry if I don't work out. Do you think I'm right to sign off at 4:30? I like him, and I like to exercise, I really don't want to give up either. (Unfortunately, we do NOT live in the same state so "hanging out" is not an option. And the only time I can talk to him is between 3:30 and 4:30.) Am I just wasting my time?
I feel bad about leaving him at 4:30, because I really do want to stay. But I like it because it leaves him in suspense and makes him want to talk to me more. Any opinions?
It is a waste of time, I'd honestly like to work out instead of talking to somebody I know that I'm most likely not going to meet. If you've never even met this guy, he could be a creep, and sure there are some really good computer whizzes out there and they can make it seem like they're real. You can talk to him a bit, but don't fall for him.
Edit:
It's okay, I don't go around answering people's questions saying that they're slutty 12 year olds, and I didn't call you that either. You just asked if it was a waste of time, and I said it was. Idk where you got that I called you a slutty myspace whore, but I didn't and I don't think that. =)
my mom says i dnt love her but i show it in my own way wat do i do??
Do something that she'll really appreciate. Try to write her a letter or make her something by yourself that she'll know came from your heart. Honestly, if I wrote my mom a letter and spilled my feelings out to her I know that she'd appreciate it so much. If you do that, just let her know that you do love her. You appreciate all the things that she does for you, even if you don't show it sometimes. Tell her that you're lucky to have a mom as good as her, and you truely mean it. At random occasions, give your mom a hug. She'll really love that. It's the simple things that'll show your mom how much you love her. =)
Hi, I'm a 20 year old lesbian and I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for over 3 years. She's the first long term relationship I've ever had. I've been living with her for about a year and a half. She pays for everything for me, and the house is hers.
I'm the kind of girl who gets big crushes that last for months. But I never really got a crush on my girlfriend, I just started dating her because she seemed like she would make a nice girlfriend. So ever since we've been together I've still been getting crushes on other women. I haven't been with anyone else, but I don't know if I should just keep staying in this relationship just because we make a good couple. If I left then I'd have to move back in with my mom who is an even less tolerable choice. Besides, my girlfriend has been with me so long that she's gotten into the same habits and so if she left she might change, I might find that she was the best person out there after all, but then it would be too late.
Most of the time I don't even want to hug her and I don't know why. I really like her and enjoy being around her. Should I just stay in the relationship until I find someone that I do have passion for?
It seems like you're staying in the relationship for all the wrong reasons. Hypothetically, if you really don't want to be with her, but you don't want to end the relationship because you have to move in with your mom, that's really not fair to her or yourself. You're staying with her for the wrong reasons, and she's getting mislead, thinking that you're 100% happy. Since you're not sure if you absolutely want to stay in this relationship, but you're afraid that if you leave and you might realize that she was THE ONE for you, maybe that's a good thing. Maybe if a take a little bit of time away from eachother, you'll be able to realize how much you truely care about her, or maybe you realize that she isn't that one for you. and I'm sure that you'll feel a lot better knowing that you're not second guessing anymore. A break isn't always a bad thing, some time away from eachother can really clear out your mind and re-evaluate your feelings for eachother! Hope this helped, and good luck. =)
Ok. You know how there are like these questionnaire stuff that you fill in about your name, age, fave singer, lalala, etc.? The ones that people usually put on myspace and stuff?
Some of the qu. were like:
Vanilla or chocolate?
Pepsi or coke?
That kinda stuff. Is there a website where there's different types of those profile things?
I hope this wasn't too confusing...
Thanks!
If you're talking about the ones that you fill out on a website and when you're done they give you a long code to paste onto your site, try:
www.bzoink.com
www.pimpsurveys.com
http://www.quizcat.com/surveys.html
http://www.wishafriend.com/survey/
Or if you're talking about the surveys that people post as bulletins, try this:
- go to www.xanga.com
- click on blogrings at the top
- type in surveys
- click on a group that looks good
- click on a any site until you find a good one
They have a tonnn on there.
what are excercises to tone your thighs,legs,and stomache? i really need help,and how long will it take till i see results?
If you want to lose some fat from those areas and tone a bit, you should do some cardio- running, riding a bike, swimming. I have a weight room at my school, but I'm not sure if you do, and we have specific machines to help tone those areas. If you can get to a gym that'd be even better because they have a variety of machines. You also have to have a good diet and drink a lot of water. Just warning you, you aren't going to see results in a week. Don't give up though, because that's why a lot of people give up on exercising, because they don't see instant results. Give it a few weeks and you should start seeing some improvement. Good luck!