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virginity
ok, so yesterday i went to my boyfriends house. we were messing around and he fingered me like really hard and when i got home, i noticed i was bleeding. did he pop my cherry? am i still considered a virgin? im so confused and worried b/c i didnt want to have sex or lose my virginity til im married
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yes he popped ya cherry baby and no you are not a virgin
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yes you are still a virgin, what he did was break your hymen, which is why they call it "popping my cherry", loosing virginity is different than fingering
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You are still a virgin and will remain so unless you have a penis fully inside of you. It is possible that he tore your hymen, but it's nothing to worry about. Most girls tear their hymen before having sex for the first time anyway.
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you MIGHT have popped your cherry, but you might have been bleeding because he was fingering you really roughly. he could have cut something and that might be why you were bleeding. you might have already popped your cherry and not even noticed it. you could have done it when you were running, riding a bike , or doing another simple activity. you're still a virgin, so don't worry. you lose your virginity when there's actual penetration from the penis into the vagina.
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Well calm down.maybe he went a litle bit far but i doubt a finger could be long enough to pop your cherry.and even if it did,yes you would still be a virgin.its ONLY when you have sex that your not a virgin.being fingered well means..being fingered and having sex(witch makes you no longer a virgin)is when the boy penetrates your vigina with his penis.Sorry to go that straight but gotta face it;)
hope I helped!
Larissa<3
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You are still a virgin. To lose your virginity you would have had to have intercourse. Odds are your boyfriend was far to rough last night and that led to the bleeding you experience.
Nothing really pops or breaks when it comes to the hymen. It stretches and that can happen either through sex, masturbation or tampon use these days. If you use tampons and or masturbate regularly it's undoubtly been stretched without you knowing and or thinking about it.
My only advice besides the above is to tell your boyfriend to be gentle and not maul your genitals like a bear here. Show him what feels good to you and what doesn't and communicate before and during this activity.
You have to remember he's a guy and at his age has no idea what he's doing down there. Guys are also rough with their own genitals so it's not helping any. You're still a virgin so no worries.
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Don't worry, you are still a virgin. He could have popped your cherry, that's most likely what happened.
If he was as rough as you said then maybe he could have tore the side of your vagina. But if there is no pain then yes, he probably popped your cherry.
Your only loosing your virginity if his penis goes in you.
Don't worry, you haven't ruined your plans or anything :D
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