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What are some good ideas to get your 15 almost 16 year old boyfriend for christmas && his birthday...?
he likes video games..
basketball
seahawks&browns
green
...thx.
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definetly video games. if the new ones are to expensive you can go to second hand
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what is the average size penis for a 13 yearold. i just kinda nervous my girl might think it's small so i was wonderin... yea, id apreciat some help (link)
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i speak the truth. this is advice. wheteher you want to here it you shouldnt even be worriing about this
you dont need to be showing anyone your penis at that age your better off going in a closet and looking at porn. you just hit puberty.geeze
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Hey i am going to be a freshman this year and i am starting in a week i know there are a bunch of other questions like this but... i am really scared, when we had orientation i made like only 1 friend not even really... i have no friends going to the school i am going to! i do not know how to open my locker! and i have no clue where or when my classes are.... junior high was SO much easier!!! I came from a catholic school before this so it is WAYYYY different from classes to no uniforms and more!!! i am soo afraid of getting on the bus and sitting with no one and also very very very afraid of going to lunch and sitting by myself eating!!! i am terrified and i know i will get trampled in the hall ways... are there that many people in the hall way? like seriously is it full?? Ahhhh i am sooooo nervous not to mention i had a bad memory wif the boy across tha street and we will be getiing on the same bus! and he will be seeing me for like the first time up close in like 3 years!!! PLZ HELP and plz tell it like it is don't lie to make it feel better i need the TRUTH!
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hey dont worry about it ive been in this position before as well but now i look back at highschool and not much of it matters i will tell you this i walked in with one friend and walked out with a lot more that i still talk to. the key word is to be your self no matter what anyone says dont change for anyone some people will like you some wont thats the way it goes as for being nervous about being alone or on the bus where head phones and listen to the radio or your favorite cd it wil take your mind off of being by yourself and relax you. dont worry about that boy hes just a person and nothing else so you shouldnt be intimidated. yes highschool is crowded but you just push your self through it . as for forgetting things write them down. and make a joke about it. i could rarely open my locker so alot of times i had to ask for help it turned into a joke the good kind. and i could laugh about it. if anyone trys to hassle you which some people might for no reason dont even listen to it because some people just like to start stuff. youll get use to it just go at your own pace. dont worry about what other people think.
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My boyfriend of one week and I went to the movies last night. I'm 13, (So is he) and that was my very first date. We even held hands, which was great cause all my old boyfriends never did anything.
But what do I expect for next time?
Should I hold his hand again, since we already did? I just want to make sure he knows that I want him to do stuff like that, thanks :) (link)
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he held your hand so hes obviously comfortable with it so yeah hold his hand. dont expect just see what happens
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ok im really self concious about the bags under my eyes. like i think they are the only thing people notice about me. and i am meeting this dude on monday. is there anyway i ca make them look like lighter???? i try cover up but that dosnt work that great.....help!!! (link)
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bags are little poofs under your eyes dark circles are dark circles
when you say cover them up iguess you mean concealer. ive heard that laying cucumber slices over your eyes for a long period of time not sure exacty how long no longer then 45 ,min if even that long really does take away bags under eyes. are they bags or just dark circles im assuming you where make up as well?
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hi, well im 14 and a guy. i have medium legnth hair, thats kind of thick and curly. i want the back of my hair to stand up, like be spikey and not fall but it just wont happen! i dont know if its the hair or the dozens of products ive tried it with. any advice? (link)
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have you tryed got to be hair glue. maybe you should straighten it before applying the product
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Okay... so let me give you the background info. I'm gay and my partner is bi but he "prefers guys over girls." It is both our first relationship in a male-male preference and the problem i'm having is that it seems as if we're not really that close... in the sense that we've been going out for over a month we've been on 6 dates 2 of which sucked because parental issues and we haven't seen each other for about a week and a half... We haven't done anything kissing, cuddling, any of the sort the only type of body contact we've had is just hugging before either one of us leaves to go home... we're both UBER shy but when we're talking online it's like a whole different world/conversation... in the sense of both of us being really "sexual." He's homeschooled and I go to school. I don't start school until the 29th and this week he doesn't have any work so we promised each other that we are going to see a lot of each other before I start school. The problem is that I don't know whether or not this relationship is really worth it because I really like him, I think he really likes me... I just don't know exactly where this is going and I asked him what he thinks and he gave me the generic answer of "wherever we want it to go." Pretty cheesy huh? I've been having some thoughts lately of either breaking up with him or asking if he would consider an open relationship... I just need some help.. Give me some advice! Oh yeah.. he lives 30 minutes away from me and I think that's more of a problem to him than it is for me... So yeah.. if you need anymore information on my situation feel free to message me. (link)
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what do you parental issues?
anyways, if you really like him then its worth it your both shy so it will probably take more then a month to break out of the dating shell. give it some more time. do you have trouble seeing eachother because the parental issues?
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I am very scared about having sex and i feel very scared becasue my boyfriend always wants me to "give him head" all the time. and i always tell him i want to wait but all guys wanna have sex with me because i have HUGE tits.
Signed,
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i think you need to look for a guy who respects you more.you shouldnt have to have sex until your comfortable. its not your fault some horny guy wants to get it on. those kind of guys would probably do a hole in the ground. and if he keeps asking you then hes not interested in you. hes interesting in a hole and hiself. and will probably dump you afterwards. maybe your looking at the wrong type of guys. if its a good relation ship then you should have to watch your back or any other part of you 24/7 around then. i mean yeesh smack him on the nose with a rolled up newspaper or something
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Ok i have a size 38C breasts and i am in 8th grade i always wear a shirt over my bathing suits and i never wear 2 peices becasue my boobs hang out....i hate big breasts! so here are my questions:
1.) How do i make my boobs look smaller?
2.) if i do crunches will they shrink??
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new update
why i recommened dieting or running just being truthful. sometjhimng you just have to live with
i want to ask you something but i dont want to give you the wrong idea are big framed not necessarily fat just big framed like some girls are just built bigger without being considered chubby. that clould be a possible reason for the largeness if so dieting nothing extreme or excercising like a tread meal or sport might help just dont do alot of excercise that envolve your chest because it will build muscles on your chest and possibly make them grow but thats not always the case because there are small framed girls who have the same size as well. having large breasts which cs arent really that large i new a girl who had fs no lie but she was big framed not fat just sturdy built. you might look at it diffrently when you get older and you still havent fully matured thers no shame in it.
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i didnt get my period in july and i havent gotten it yet and it is really late. i havent had sex but i know my friend gave her bf a handjob in her pool while i was in it (and of course i didnt know till later that night) and she said that he cummed. is there any way that i could be pregnant from that? (link)
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i doubt it ive never heard of that but hey you never know that was alittle rude on your friends part and truly a disgusting thought of swiming around in someone elses swimmer. were your pants on. were you near by. just in case if it gets really late even though i dont think you are but just in case buy a home pregnancy test keep the receipt and go into the stores restroom or public restroom and take it. drink lots of water before hand because it will require peeing. once again i think it very unlikely but just incase if your period remains extremly late
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hi. I am a 13/f and i started my period about 6 months ago. I play soccer alot and do track in school. I have never used a tampon, only pads. My mom wont bring the subject up and i'm too nervous to ask her how to use it or if I can use them. PLEASE HELP!!!! my soccer tournament is in a few weeks and thats when my next period is supposed to come! any advice on how my mom can bring up the subject? or how i can get the nerve to talk to her about this?? should i just not tell her and just use one?? but i've never used one before and i'm nervous and dont know how to use one. PLEASE HELP!! thank you sooooo much (link)
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ok its just a tampon. so i dont see why your mom would care but i dont know your mom. so if theres something about your mom that your leaving out (is she strict real uptight upset easily)) that makes you extremely uncomfortable about bringing it up then just take it apon your self to get some tampax is a good brand and tampons come with instructions and if your mom finds out its not like you stole booze or started smoking there just tampons and im sure shell get over it and forgive you id hope so and if you have any more problems or questions just ask.
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Ok to start 14/f
Before I ask my question I'll give you a backround
Today i woke up and i was pissed because i got little sleep. My little brother was talking to my dad about how i dont go to sleep when im supposed to (12am) because I get on my computer and stay on there till about 2 or 3 am. My dad was pissed and said that when school starts for the first 3 months he will cut off the internet. Then since I was still pissed I was ranting on about how school sucks and that landed me a 15 min lecture about how if i didnt go to school I wouldnt be smart and get a good job. Later today my older brother started thinking that im turning anerexic because I had not (and still havent) eaten anything all day. I kinda blew that off and then my mom said that I dont like my family because eariler i said that its not really that cool to go to the bowling alley with my family and not my friends. Shes says that im lazy and just dont want to get any exercise (even thiugh you dont exercise at a bowling alley) so now im thinking that my family is out to get me into the loony bin
So now my question is
do i apologize for being a sort of smartmouth
or just leave it alone and let them apologize.
I rate depending on the quality of the answer.
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first of all think about it. are you truly sorry. if your sorry about only a little bit of what happened then apologize for that much and leave what ever your not sorry for left unspoken. if your refering to yourself as being smartmouthed then maybe you feel you took an attitude which might have triggered more anger from your family not saying that you did. but if that is the case then work on arguing with more logic and a calmer tone of talking with out appearing cocky (once again im not saying you are but im trying to look at all possibilities.) that will make you sound more mature and easier to listen to. people listen more to rational points then irrational points. but it sounds to me that your family says hurtful things to you as well. so maybe you can turn it around by keeping yourself cool and calm when situations similar to this arise.
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ok. so i have this friend who's a boy. we've been friends for about a year now, but if feels as if we've known each other forever. this afternoon, he IMed me and said that he's kind of having girl problems. i was kind of surprised because he's not really the girl-obsessed kind of type. he likes this girl that likes him back. but he can't go out with her because of his parents. i gave him some suggestions, but i don't know if he'll actually consider it. he seemed annoyed. even though i didn't hear his voice, i know him well enough to know when he doesn't feel normal. and i knew this situation is really bugging him. but throughout our conversation, i got really... umm... i don't really know how to explain it... jealous maybe? i guess i kind of was. i know that i don't like him as anything more than a friend. we're just really cool friends. nothing more. atleast for the moment. most of my friends say that me and him has that "chemistry" thing going on. and i guess i can say the same thing, we have a WHOLE LOT of things in common, but i've never thought of our friendship as anything more than that. i'm really happy that he likes a girl and that the girl likes him back and all, but i don't know, i feel something weird. i feel like i want him for myself. that maybe if he gets another girl in his life, me and him might grow apart, and have all his attention to the girl. even though i felt this way, i still told him to go for it - "ask her out if you really like her." i really want him to be happy even if it does give me pain. and as for me, i wanna focus on my own life and let him be. but knowing the person i am, that's not gonna happen. curiousity gets in the way all the time. and i don't want that. so what can i do? i would greatly appreciate any advice/comments.
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i think your right your probably deep down just worried that youll lose your friend but im sure there will be room for you. the majority of my friends are guys and i feel nothing romantic for them but for some reason whenever a girl and guy talk alot people always want to start saying somethings going on when it isnt .so dont let that sway you know who you like and who you dont. just accept that he likes someone and if you guys are as close as you say youll still remain good friends. the feeling will go away as you get use to him going oout with girls or being friends with other girl. its just a defense mechanism that kicks in over your territory not saying that your possesive but hey that your friend and you are right not to want to let that interfere with his happiness
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OK, i started school and i have all my classes with this guy. Let's call him Joe. well Joe looks at me some, but i dont know if it's enough that he really likes me. Sometimes i catch himn looking at me but not a LOT. I really like him but i'm scared to ask him out. Cuz if we break up hardly, then i have all my classes with this guy that i hate. Soooo...i dont know what to do!! I like him and i really dont want him to say no because that will be really really embarrasing. What do i do? (link)
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theres no harm in trying if it doesnt work out and you end up in that situation then youll be able to bare with it. you dont even know if youll break up hardly so dont assume
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My best friend and I are like sisters.We have known eachother for 3 years and been best friends for 3 years.I send her mail twice but she hasnt written me yet.What should I do?
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how long has it been maybe shes just preoccupied with other things. doesnt mean she doesnt care about you but if its only been a few days give her some more time if a month has passed confront her face to face politely maybe she doesnt realize how important it is to you. not that shes inconsiderate. people are diffrent and see things diffrently
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I have a friend that needs major help.
He has a girlfriend and they're always off and on.
Whenever she breaks up with him he breaks down and gets drunk or high.
Recently she broke up with him and he almost committed suicide and was put in an asylum for 3 days.
He's only 14 years old. He doesn't listen to anyone when he's with her. He doesn't realize that there's other people that care about him.
And no I don't like him, we used to really good friends. He was my best guy friend, and I barely talk to him anymore. I miss the old him.
How am I supposed keep him fromhurting himself or potentially killing him self if sh breaks up with him. (link)
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this is dangerous im sure your friends a nice person just into deep and tooken advantage of. he needs to realize that hes only 14 and theres will be plenty of girls out there maybe you could help him meet other people. or cultivate a hobby with him that you both enjoy. although he may be hurting be realistic no ones twisting his arm to get drunk,high,or comit suicide. i dont know the full situation or how this girl is and i doubt shes innocent but no matter how awful she is ,she cant be blamed for his decisions. not saying you are. maybe you and your friends should make more effort in showing how much you care. im not say you guys dont but he seems like a dramatic person who make big impressions and need others to do the same for him in a positive way. especially when hes down. hes just confused because hes young and just figuring out things
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I am finnaly getting a cell phone!! but.. it is my Mom's old one :( but y'know it is something. I am going into High School and they say like 100 minutes is enough, but i am afraid that when i get new friends i will be talking to them alot, and i cannot convince my parents that i NEED more minutes... what should i do??? (link)
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100 minutes is less then 2 hours do you not have a land phone that you can use to if soo use that for conversations and the cell for quickies if your parents gripe about the land phone usage then explain that 100 minutes is just not enough for a primary phone. if that fails youll just have to see your friends face to face more or e-mail
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it all started when i was in town and one of my 'mates' was flirting with my boyfriend. ofcourse i got magerly pissed off. but im not the sort of person 2 start a fight so i left it. then i went 2 my boyfriends that night and all he could go on about was how his back felt really good after my 'mate' gave him a massage. the next day i went to town and my best mate came up to mwe and told me my boyfriend said he fancies this 'mate' of mine and that he was goin to finish me. i got all panicy and started shaking and got really upset. when me and my boyfriend had a chat he said he wanted a break till monday but he still loves me. i then when and got my bike from work then came back to town. i saw him again and he called me over. he said he doesnt want to be with me any more(this was still the same day) he said he does still love me but doesnt want to be with me any more. he gave me a hug and i started 2 cry on his shoulder (i never cry infront of any one) he was like nothing is gona change between us. i said it will cus we wont be 2gether and he will find some one new. he said so will i. but i told him i wont cus i dont want to risk getting hurt again. which made him feel bad.
about 10 -15 mins later he was goin out with this ' mate' of mine which he fancies.
this was 4 days ago and i still cry every night because i love him. i want him back so much but every one says for me not 2 go there if he does come back to me. i know they are right but he said last night he misses me and still loves me. i know he wont finish his new girl friend for me. but i really want him back.
can some one please help me get though this. my 1st ever love. and hes gone.
i love him so much. some one help me.
thanks
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ok ill tell you what this guys about. he wants to make sure his bases are covered so he has someone to fall back on. this will be hard but you need to let this guy go or you will forever be a safety net for him to bounce on and off of. its not fair to you if he loved you he wouldnt even think of leaveing you. i think his love is skin deep and underneath that skin is a big lie hes feeding you. break off contact it will seem hard for you. but really your just finding out now what youll know later
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This might be kinda long and in depth i apreaciate it if you read all of it.
First of all im 19/f and my boyfriend is also 19. We'll call him J. Ok, so J and I have been together for 3 years, four next july. He treats me better than I could ever ask, and does things for me. We planned on getting married and probably having children together. The thing is over the past 2 years I've gotten really sick. I spend alot of time at hospitals and in doctors offices. Ever since six months ago, I've been on treatment for cervical cancer. It's working but the side affects are making me sicker than ever. Some days it's even hard for me to get out of bed. So what I'm getting at.. I always feel so guilty and upset about hurting him because of my sicknesses. I don't feel like a good girlfriend because I can't do some of the things he does for me. He tells me not to worry about it and it'll be worth the wait, but it isn't that simple for me. I feel like he deserves better, someone that can do things for him and make him happy. I know he isn't. I know how bad he wants kids, and now I might not be able to give him that. We don't get to do alot together and we LIVE together. It sucks so bad I don't even know what to do anymore. Any advice would mean alot to me.
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ok the sickness though im not sure what itt is is more then likely not your fault and your boyfriend knows that. it probably makes him unhappy to see you in painand to think that your feeling this way. just stick it out with him.hell stick it out with you.
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ive liked this boy for a while and when he liked me i didnt know it and then i started liking him and he likes another gurl and ive been crying for like 20 minutes and im sure i will be all tonight and tommorow i dont know what to do i know im not gonna get over him anytime soon. what should i do? (link)
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if you he liked you you better make a move fast towards him before this other girl jumps on him hes probably just thought you didnt like gim.so quickly correct him
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