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we split up
it all started when i was in town and one of my 'mates' was flirting with my boyfriend. ofcourse i got magerly pissed off. but im not the sort of person 2 start a fight so i left it. then i went 2 my boyfriends that night and all he could go on about was how his back felt really good after my 'mate' gave him a massage. the next day i went to town and my best mate came up to mwe and told me my boyfriend said he fancies this 'mate' of mine and that he was goin to finish me. i got all panicy and started shaking and got really upset. when me and my boyfriend had a chat he said he wanted a break till monday but he still loves me. i then when and got my bike from work then came back to town. i saw him again and he called me over. he said he doesnt want to be with me any more(this was still the same day) he said he does still love me but doesnt want to be with me any more. he gave me a hug and i started 2 cry on his shoulder (i never cry infront of any one) he was like nothing is gona change between us. i said it will cus we wont be 2gether and he will find some one new. he said so will i. but i told him i wont cus i dont want to risk getting hurt again. which made him feel bad.
about 10 -15 mins later he was goin out with this ' mate' of mine which he fancies.
this was 4 days ago and i still cry every night because i love him. i want him back so much but every one says for me not 2 go there if he does come back to me. i know they are right but he said last night he misses me and still loves me. i know he wont finish his new girl friend for me. but i really want him back.
can some one please help me get though this. my 1st ever love. and hes gone.
i love him so much. some one help me.
thanks
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ok ill tell you what this guys about. he wants to make sure his bases are covered so he has someone to fall back on. this will be hard but you need to let this guy go or you will forever be a safety net for him to bounce on and off of. its not fair to you if he loved you he wouldnt even think of leaveing you. i think his love is skin deep and underneath that skin is a big lie hes feeding you. break off contact it will seem hard for you. but really your just finding out now what youll know later
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i'm sorry about what happened.
if he still likes you and cares about you he should come back to you. but then again if he loves you he wouldn't have left you. i think he just wanted some time away from you and see the personality of the other girl. but in the mean time, don't really think about him. do something that will keep you occupied. he will come back eventually. you just have to be patient.
hope everything works out for you :)
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