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i've just made my bestfriend hella mad any general advice to make everything better? (link)
let her have some space for a little while and then try and confrton her and talk to her about it, wait til she is done telling her side of the story before u tell her urs cuz interupted her will make her more mad i think...hope everything is okay soon!


my best friend's boyfriend recently broke up with her and she still has feelings for him. but she also KIND OF likes this other guy, well she mostly only likes him as a friend. everyone wants them to make out tonight at the football game but she doesnt know if she wants to cause she doesnt really have strong feelings for him. but she already told everyone that she WILL make out with him tonight and now she doesnt know what to do. and she still likes her old boyfriend. and she likes other guys too. i keep telling her not to make out with this kid, but she doesnt know. any advice you could give her? since she told everyone that shes gonna make out with him, she doesnt know how to get out of it! so (im gonna read your answers to her on the phone because her computer is broken) thanks! (link)
hmm, if she still likes her old bf then thats okay even if she sorta likes this other kid. Since she told everyone she is gunna make out wit him, she cud if she wanted its more of a personal desicion for bc its based on her feelings for him and if she really wants to, she made decide that she wants to. If she decides at hte last minute she doesn't wana she can just say to this guy "im sorry i dont have feelings for u as u do for me rite now and im sorry, but ur great guy"..hope this helps


hey,
does any one know a place where i can get those livestong things? i know they come in purple, yellow and pink, do u know any others???? ( i rate high) (link)
as far as i knoiw online they are back-ordered like 3 or 4 weeks and they stopped selling them in stores. The livestrong only comes it yellow and the pink and purple ones are different breast cancer ones. i know that in target today (10/22/04) they are starting to sell them so u can check there but u gotta go quick cuz the are gunna sell quickly. Hope this helps, also u mit wanna try buying one from a friend if they buy a set


theres this guy named zack and hez 1 yr olda than me so my parents hav no probs wit him. Ne wayz, we went out once but we both agreed to break up because we had just met eachotha the day he asked me out. Well, now i like him A LOT again but he already has another gf. But i still realli like him and i think that if he knew he might tell me he likes me too, but im too afraid to tell him cuz he'z a jock and if he dont like me he'll tell everyone and ill feel stupid. What should i do?? ThnKs in return.. xo' Jess (link)
hmm i think that u shud maybe wait til things start to slow dopwn a little wit his gf and then maybe tell him cuz rite away it mite be little akward and mit confuse him n stuff. So bascailly wait a little bit and then tell him, or u can hint at the idea now and see if he is getting a good vibe from it then go for it and tell him, if not then try and focus on other guys at the moemnt but keep him in the back of ur mind as a [posb. option


Hey, I'm just wondering if you can give me some advice. I'm a guy and i'm 15. I don't really skate or anything but I kinda like the clothes that skaters wear like Volcom and Vans. Is it okay if I wear these clothes even if I don't skate? (link)
uhm i guess thats okay but i would think that ur sorta a poser lol, idk thats just a person thing of mine. Like, if ppl wear skate clothing and they dont skate it sorta bothers me, but if u wanna weat skate clothes n stuff thats fine. Hope this helped :) btw i like skaters haha


ok I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months and hes really sweet! and i like him alot but all we've done is makeout, he's tried to go down my pants but everytime he does he pulls his hand out and starts laughing so i dont know whats wrong. what should i do? (link)
maybe hes nervous. Next time that happens giggle and maybe then b like "whats wrong??" Or he might just b not sure what he's doing so he laughs and just doesn't know how elkse to react


is an MRI bad (link)
nope, it just takes a pic of (usually) your head, and its like an exray and you lay in a tube while it takes pictures of ur head. nothing bad :)


I have hair just below my shoulders and its pretty straight. I also have bangs....Does anyone know any cute styles? (link)
maybe layer ur hair and grow ur bangs out long so they're sorta long but not all the way grown out. Hope this helps


Ok, there is this boy at school that I think I love and I want him to be my boyfriend but he thinks he's to young to have a girlfriend, Well I kept on trying to tell him in secrets and notes that I love him and I want him to be my boyfriend, But he just wouldn't listen, so then I would start saying it out loud that I love him and stuff so everyone could here but now he is getting anoyed and now I dont know what to do and I realy need advice on what to say, and I dont want to ruin his and mine friendship! (link)
I think you should just back off a little bit and see how htings go i mean that in a nice way, lol that sounded pretty harsh but just kinda act normal just like friends and see how things go. It seems like he already gets the idea that u like him, so just see wat he does wit it. If he doesn't do n e thing about it just move on to another guy (even though it will b tough) and continue to act like friends


Hi. I have been having this problem with my blatter. I haven't been able to tell weather i have to pee or not. I have recently done some drugs that I beleive could mess up my kidney's but I have also had sex. I am wondering if sex can make you not know if you can pee, and also give you a felling of for example. A day when you havent pee'd for a while and you need to go really bad. That feeling...but when u sit down..nothing comes out. Could that be from sex? Or no. Plz do not delete this. After this question I'll never ask it again! Plz and thank you.
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It could be realted to either the drugs you took, or sex. It could ust be somethign completely on its own, like a urinery track infection or something. Go to the doc/gyno to ask about it and see if there is anything you can do about it, or if it was realted to the drugs or sex.


OK so i'm at a new school and like i made this one fried ... lets call her susan. So susan invited me over to her house for halloween with some of her friends too. I don't know for sure but i've heard her friends talking about doing drugs and all (not planning it for halloween but talking about it in like the past sence) I'm pretty sure Susan doesn't do drugs or anything but i do think that she drinks. I don't do any of that stuff, nor do I want to. Do you think I should go to her house and take the chance? PLEASE help me... i'll rate EVERYONE! (link)
well, go and if they start doing those things then just say you don't feel well and go home. In the future maybe you shouldn't have out wit them as much though because it's not good to get invovled with ppl who get drunk a lot and do drugs. I hope this helps :)


Ok so I had a big argument with one of my best friends and I cried a lot. Now my eyes are really sore, are there any ways to soothe them apart from cucumbers? (link)
im sorry u had a figth wit one of ur best friends but..one way is to splash cold water on them. Feel better :)


Hi,
I've liked this guy((steven)) for around a month now...and my fried Kaitltyn likes him too. Last sunday there was a school dance..i told steven to ask her to dance n he did...but he dont like kaitlyn...he even said that to her face..kaitlyn noes i like him n she was doing everything she could 4 him to dance with me but he said that he didnt wunna look like a pimp..n being a complete jerk...Should i still like him? or should i just give up (link)
if he was being a jerk about everyting and thinkin of dumb reason of why he didn't wanna dance with 2 girls then i must admit thats a little odd. But if u think that he's still a good guy and he has a good personality then stick wit it for a while and see if n e thing happens or if u think that he's not giving u good vibes and it doesn't seem like he likes u then give up and move on to another better guy :)


what shud i do if i sound like a bird when i talk and then i cut class and feed her bird food? also...mrs sharma took my stool today...how cud i get it bak?

pleaz help me woman (link)
welll this is very diffuclt cuz it is a complex question. I find it quiete ironic that the precise second u send ur question i come to asnwer it, without knowing that u just sent it SECONDS AGO..lol okay. As for your advice i think that you should find someone and say "i surf u surf we surf?...I DON'T SURF!!" and then run away tweeting. If u cut class and she accuses u and everoyne stares blankley as she builds a nest in the corner..then you should throw bird food at her to get her to go away..and ms.s..gotta watch out for her she mite take ur stool and come shuffling over huffle over saying NO NO NO NO..sp basically..ur screwed


Ok i have a sister who is a 13 months apart and she drives me crazy...i am so nice to her i let her wear my clothes and i do favors for her but she is just a brat to me any ideas on how to like make her not be such a brat? i dont know she like finds out things about me from my EX and she knows everything and like she wants to tell the world and its quiet annoying....uhhh yeah so any ideas...?
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eh that sux, sibling fight and there isn't much you can do about it i guesss don't be as nice to her unless she agrees not to find stuff out about ur ex and tell everyone about it. Then she'll be nice to you and you can be nice to her back. Hope this helped


Ok I am a 13 year old girl and I like this boy at school, and he likes me to but only as a friend. He thinks he's to young to be my boyfriend but I realy realy like him and I want him to be my boyfriend, what should I do?? (link)
Hmm, keep talking to himm do a little flirting and see what happens. If he still doesn't want a gf and thnks hes too young then move on cuz its his loss :) hope this helped


i just got braces, soo how do u make out with my bf who also has braces? (link)
It's not any different, it mite feel a little differnt to you but i don't think it should b a problem


well i have this prob with the boy im goin oout with ...we've beem goin out for about 5 days now..or more...but the thing is that he never calls me and ..he always has me callin him...im not afard to ask him why its just i dont know how .....so plz help me (link)
Nex time he brings up that he wants to you to call him tell him that you are busy and you'll probably get distracted with what your doing, and that he should call you when he gets a chance. Or another approach is that next time he tells you to call him jokingly make a comment about it but have some seriousness to it, so he gets the idea but its not too harsh. i hope this helped :)


I'm a really good student, and I'm proud of my intelligence. I always get good grades and am often at the top of my class, but when I talk to people, friends or anyone at school I often feel like i sound like a know it all. I don't try to be, I'm just trying to have intelligent coversations. Another problem is that the guy i like is in my math class and i got really excited when he started asking me questions in class. But i started to think that that was the only thing he wanted to talk to me about, and its not like he asked a ton of questions either. What do you think? (link)
Hmm, about your intelligence conversation problem..it's not really a problem. I think it's great that u wanna have inteligent conversations with ppl, its just that the ppl who u wanna have intelligent conversations with prolly don't think that way, and wouldl rather talk about other things. when you wanna talk about things intelligently like u sed, go to ppl who you know will appreciate it and you can express your opinions adn knowledge. As for the guy you like in your class, that is great that he wnats to talk to u. It means he thinks that you are smart, and that he can go to you for help, it's okay that he doesnt' have many questions, he mite just be nervous. Try initiationg converstions with him outsitde of class or school too so he knows that u wanna try and talk to him too :) hope i helped on both of ur questions


what is the difference between seeing some one and being boyfriend girlfriend with them? (link)
its the same thing as far as i know




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