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My boyfriend and I have been going out around 3 1/2 months. I really love him so much. I want to kiss but the only time we ever see each other is at school. The rare times when we are actually alone we don't take advantage of it. we can't seem to talk romantic or get in the mood. Sometimes I really want to kiss him but it would be so awkward since we weren't even being romantic. He wouldn't expect it so he'd probably pull away or sumthing. I'm too scared to talk to him about it. Please help me!
aww. write him a little note or soemthing, if you dont wanna say it directly to his face, it might be akward but he may want to do the same thing as you do. communication is the key to a good relationship!
Hello! My boyfriend is thinking about getting his penis pierced, and I was just wondering how long it will take until we will be able to have sex? Also, if anyone has had it done, how bad does it hurt? Thanks!!
itl take a while, and it might hurt you. also it might rip the condom or something, no w ait thats girls. good luck wit hteh whole penis peircing
what are some good yearbook signatures? its gettin to that time of year and i dont wanna just sign my name!
ooh put a star or a penis or some sort of little design.
i have three rabbits but one of them seems to of lost all his body fat this winter has anyone else experineced this????? he is eating fine he is his normal self
i think...try asking on google. i know their sposta lose fur or something, i dunno my rabbit hated me
Is it normal for a girl who doesn't have her period, but a stomach that hurts for almost no reason? I been doing sit-ups flat on my back and now whenever I stretch my stomach hurts. Its not like I'm hungry, its more like the skin that hurts. Is it normal?
its from the sit-ups silly!
i know its dumb, but i always get emotional on the last day of school. this year, im graduating 6th grade and im afraid ill cry and look dumb.
its okay, i cried too!!! its a very sad moment...blah blah. i think youl be fine, its good that youre showing emotion. um maybe you could carry tissue or something, or stay by people who are also crying. good luck!
ok here is the thing i met this guy from my BFF...i backed off bc i knew she liked him and i didnt want to let her know i liked him...yet he is 2 months older yet a grade younger so he isnt in the high school with me yet..
im tryin to think of a way to let them both know that i like him with out obvious signals
he seems to flirt or whatever with me...like he will sometimes hug me or hell run from me n make me catch him..idk
i will most likely see him 2morro @ the mall again but im not sure...any ideas on how i can pull this off?
hmm...thats hard to answer. how about...when your and your BFF r talking about him...try to make it seem like you like him just a tiny bit..mayb have a smile on your face, or a lil one, or be like OOH yeah hes so cute! i love it when he....*something*, or just giggle alot. now when youre with him maybe you could smile and laugh alot, and tell him that you wish there were more people in the world like him. just be like, 'youre a really nice and cool person, im so glad i met you' and and crap, and maybe if you want to you could tell him you think hes really cute, but im not sure about that but you can try. sorry im not much of a help! **Good luck!!!!!!
ok me and my freind haven't been talkin
4 like 4 weeks and i want to be freinds again
and i want to say sorry but the thing is i dont no wat i did...and we use to hang out with the "popular" peeps at school but now i dont hang wit them cuz she does even though i do still talk to them......should i say sorry
or how do i be her freind again....help me please
ohh im sorry about that..hm..maybe you could write her a long note if you dont feel like goin face to face with her, like all your questions and how you feel. 4 weeks is a long time you havent been talking for! you can apologize but i dont think you should apologize of you dont know what you did, because its not very sincere if you dont even know what youre apologizing for. you should find out first and then apologize if you want. or talk to her on AIM or send her email. you could also put a little poem or a little friends quote or something if you want to make it really nice. first you should open with like a hey/hi...we havent been talking and i was just wonderin if or why ur mad at me *blah blah* then i miss you *blah blah* and then end with something like please write back because i miss having you..by my side...you were so good to me *blah blah* then sign it!! just let her know how you feel, but make sure not to offend her or sound mad because that may make matters worse. or you can call her, but personally i dont like that because its too......i duno. good luck*!
Wow this is a hard one. I am stuck between two different guys. The one I have been with before and have feelings for. But I met this one and I think about him all the time and he just makes me feel all happy inside. But he is older 4 years. I know that doesn't matter but i'm stuck between two different guys. What should I do?
be friends with the guy who makes you feel happy and stick wit hthe guy you have feelings for, unless you dont feel comfortable with that. 4 years isnt that bad, but i would stick with being friends cuz something could happen like u two goin uot then breakin up nd it would just ruin everything, but im not sure! good luck though!
okay this might sound a little stupid...but i ahve a best friend and i love her with allll my heart but lately she;s been getting like tons of BF's and crap and this might sound a little stupid buutt i was feeling kind of jelous because she kind of "stole" the guy taht i REALLY like... and she knows i like him but she flirts with him ne ways... i've tried speaking to her about it but she just got into a fight about it (and i HATE fighting over boys!)the one thing that REALLY bothers me is taht she goes through guys like they dont even matter to her, and i know this might sound stupid but i think she;s trying to get with the guy i liek to amke me jelous....what should i do?!?! i;ve already tried talking to her but no matter what she doesnt give a damn!!..lol please help =(
thnx . xoxo Ariella*
hmmmm, thats really mean, tell her that!!!! try telling her "how you feel", what kind of things oes she say? maybe you should say "i dont like it when you flirt with the people i like because...." and i dont know what else, sorry :( why do you call her your "friend" if she does that to you? a good friend wouldnt do that!! orr you can try giving her a taste of her own medicine, by flirting with the guys she likes, or if you're not the kind of person then you shouldnt, it would probably make the situation worse :(, or tell other friends about that maybe theyl turn out to be better friends than hr, or just talk crap about her!!!! nothats bad, sorry about that. im not that bright, so..good luck!*-Me
I have a list of names that I like a lot. For my kids. *(I've always loved names, and making them up, and stuff)* Im Almost 15, and wont be having kids for atleast 7 more years, but i would still like to know some of the names for boys and/or girls that you all like! and you can add middle names too, if you so desire. Also, I use a lot of the names that I like when I play the Sims and the Sims 2. So If you could please tell me the names that you all like for boys and/or girls, that would be great, thanks! I'll rate a 4 or a 5 if you leave a *real* name! thanks!!
--KeLs--
oh ooh ooh! ive eben dreaming about having names for my kids for years, because i hate my full name! argh argh. okay they might be pretty gay but ehres what i want. if i have boys i want: damien, or nathan/nate and if i have a girls i want it to be something relaly pretty and or short. like::uhhmm..rose, i think thats pretty. but not something too popular like amanda, God..all these amanda's! or...like a name that could have other names like anna could be anna or ann, and elizabeth could be eliza, liz, beth, lizzy, elly (i dont know about that one). what i will NEVER ever do it name my kids something long or gay that other kids will make fun of them for like..hmm, for a girl: zorida,roberta or for a guy: clyde..etc. okay and i would alter the name so y's would be i's or make it 2 i's..like tiffani or..emiily..well no not that one. sorry to make this long and stupid but i hope i help in some odd way or another! good luck with the kids!
There's this girl named Maria. She's a good friend of mine, and today she got in deep trouble with our Health teacher because she gave answers to someone else, and hes failing her for the marking period with a 50. She said she's tried to commit suicide before, and she's going to do it again. Should I tell somebody? Thanks. =]
i think you should, youl possible be saving a life and whatnot. if you dont want her knowing youre telling someoen, dont let them know who you are. i think you should talk to her or her parents, your parents, or a school counsiler. a recomendation from me is just being there for her i guess.
*good luck!
Most of my friends are gettin pregnat and getting herpes it is scaring me ... All my friends I thought were so much smarter than me are stupid and having sex already . I know you want to but you need to hold back .... I am scared that in a way I am gonna be forced into it .... Can you help ?
oh man i know, everyone i know is all into it now. but trust me, either they regret it now or theyre going to. losing your virginity is a big thing, you can never go back and change it. you wanna make the first time with someone you love and yu want to make it memorable dont you? the only way you can be forced into it is by someone elses power, but if you have sex and you dont want to, i consider that rape. for example, a guy says hes going to hurt you if you dont do it, i think thats rape..and you really have to avoid that. plus, condoms are about 99% effecient against pregnancy but not against std's. some std's result in permamnt infertility, so when you get married and wanna have sex with the person you love, you cant make a baby with him, the reason sex is supposed to be for, anyways. im trying to remain abstinenet so when i get older i can have the things ive never had, a family, and a good happy one too. im not saying having sex now is going to ruin everything when yu get older, but it sure can have a pretty powerful effect and change alot of things.
*Good luck in your decisions!
we are doing a brosure for class on a planet and my planet is mercury and i put "Come and swim the nice beaches of Mercury. It gets very hot so
come and get a nice tan and make sure to bring sunblock too! Make sure to pack for very hot weather. You can go scuba diving, swimming,
surfing, build sand castles, meet a bunch of new people, or just play a simple and fun game of volleyball and hang out with your friends. At
night you can have a fire and roastmarshmellows and relax the night away! This will be a trip you will be sure to never forget! Garenteed.You
can stay at The Beach Front Hotel or The Merc Motel. .. how does that sound to you? I have to have 4 more sentences could you help me?
im not that smart lol ,but how could you go scuba diving?? theres no water right? lol merc motel i like that..but i can try to help you!! if ure on aim you can im me if you want!
My aunt and uncle are going to my grandma's house from like 4-1 am (certain reason) my bf can come over we've been going out for 5 months and havent made out.. how can i lead him into that
well first you must make sure its okay will him, but if you really dont want to talk you can just..say watch a movie, and then cuddle, and then happen to get a little closer. you could try like whispering to him, or looking into his eyes..try to look cute!! like a lil smile....lol im not very good at this stuff. just like.hug him and cuddle. thats fun, but make sure nobody comes home and catches you guys makin out!! good luck! OW OW
hi im 12 years old 5'4 or 5'3 one of them and i weigh 125 i went on am i fat.com and it said im perfect score but i dont think so im not supper skinny and im not FAT im kinda in between but latly i've been throwing up after i eat well this is only my second day......is that anorexic??? i want to lose weight and fast i know u prolly got this question alot but please i need HELP...............
no no its okay..are you making yourself throw up? if you are you're developing bulimia! you know, where you stick your finger down your throat and .. well yeah puke. but anorexia is when you dont like..eat anything at all, or eat very very little. ive youre doing this on purpose you have GOT TO STOP!! it even said perfect score, but theres other alternatives to losing weight, which i dont think you need to do! but if you absiolutely insist on losing a couple pounds, turning bulimic is only going to make things worse. first it burns up your esophagus, which is your throat-ish, and then you get really bad throat problems. then after puking a couple times you dont need to stick your finger down your throat anymore, it just comes naturally. after this happens its very hard to get the process to stop, and then if youre unlucky, this will be happening for a very very long time. youl be puking for years, and then youl become really skinny and weak. in some cases even die! but youre not there year, dear. i had a close friend who thought she was fat, and it was crazy because she was fine, just like you! she got bulimic and now she has to go to therapy sessions every day, and shes even lieing to her therapist about it, i dont know why. So..leave another in my invox to tell me if ur making urself throw up or its just happening for no reason...or if u want to im me on aim go ahead, but im on at differnt times alot. write back!
*hope i help..
My friend that i have known for a long time has just revealed to me that he is gay. I love him to death. What should i do ??
as long as he doesnt have a crush on you, just act normal, like it was before you realized that. its not that big of a deal, i know tons of people that are bi or gay and it doesnt bother me, its just how they are, like someone being smart or ugly, or athletic..etc. theyre still thesame person! good luck dear!
i was wondering if y'all could suggest what you find to be the best face cleaner to get rid of zits. i use oxy but it doesn't work as well as i want it to. thanks so much!!
i put alcohol on my face and it dries the pimples and makes them go away, except the scars..does anyone know anything for real bad/deep acne scars??!! hehe, good luck! ~C*
Hi,
My baby rabbit just died from a heart problem :'( We knew she was gonna die because she was very ill, but we got her anyway because we wanted to give her the best life we could because we knew it would be short!! So, we got another rabbit with her. Now our baby rabbit has died, the other is soo lonley!! My mum wants another rabbit to keep her company but I'm not sure, I don't think I'm ready to have another one in her place just like that. Am I being selfish by not wanting another rabbit even though the other one is lonley? What should I do?
aww im sorry, that was such a nice thing for you to do!! i love rabbits!! umm, what i would suggest is to play and pet the other bunny (sorry i like the term bunny beter than rabbit) alot and just play with him and be there for him like you would a friend!! except you probably dont pet your friends...but just like, give it as much attention as you can. losing someone (or something) you love is very sad and crucial, and rushing a new bunny in there right after something like this wouildnt be the right thing to do. first let the bunny adjust to how things are before you intruduce it to a new life form right away, at least a couple months. just love it alot and stuff..so, good luck!
No matter how late I go to bed, it always takes me at least an hour to get to sleep and I always wake up early. If I go to bed early in order to get more sleep, I don't drop off until around one and I usually wake up at half seven to eight am. My friends and family all seem to be able to get to sleep easily and usually don't wake up until around eleven on non school days, how do I get more sleep? I always keep the same routine at night and I have tried everything, it doesn't matter how tired I am I just can't sleep. What should I do?
talk to a parent about this maybe they wil give you some sleep medication, yay. try drinking warm milk or reading, or doing something lke excersizing a lot earlier that day to get you really tired and pooped out. good luck!