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Prude boyfriend
14/f
My boyfriend and I have been going out around 3 1/2 months. I really love him so much. I want to kiss but the only time we ever see each other is at school. The rare times when we are actually alone we don't take advantage of it. we can't seem to talk romantic or get in the mood. Sometimes I really want to kiss him but it would be so awkward since we weren't even being romantic. He wouldn't expect it so he'd probably pull away or sumthing. I'm too scared to talk to him about it. Please help me!
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Just kiss him. Trust me, he's probably scared. You two are both eachother's significant other, which means you both have the right to want to kiss eachother, and you both have the choice to take the initiative to talk to each other about it. You don't have to kiss publically or anything, but start by kissing him on the cheek, or playing with his hands. You can grab his hand in hold it when you're walking close to him or you can say you see something in his hair and reach up to touch it, and then look at his lips and move closer or something..and then go from there.
3 1/2 months is kind of a long time for a relationship without a kiss. I'm not syaing to jump him and make out with him, but I'm sure he'd love it if you made the first move and kissed him sweetly on the lips or something. =)
That way it would also open the doors and make him feel more comfortable with you.
Good luck..
just do it ;)
`jeSsie
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dont talk about it. Just go right up to him and kiss him. he wont pull away, if he really likes you then i doubt that hed pull away. and i bet hed really like it! guys like girls that make the first move :O)
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My boyfriend was JUST like that. One day, I got him to tell me that he was afraid of being rejected. So I made the mood, and everything is great again. Maybe you should try it.
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MaNdA
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Invite him over for dinner and watch a movie. Then, when your 'rents are not in the room, snuggle up to him. He'll under stand if you tilt your head up towards his face. the best movie to watch is a romantic one. Hope I helped!
TarA
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Why not after skool or at the weekend arrange to go out cinema or round eachothers house sumwhere private and just start cuddling look him in the eye to give a signal then move in slowly so u dnt take him by surprise
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make a special time to kiss the kid.
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aww. write him a little note or soemthing, if you dont wanna say it directly to his face, it might be akward but he may want to do the same thing as you do. communication is the key to a good relationship!
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Well it seems like you guys are ready to kiss but i think he is kind of to shy to also but since you dont spend alot of time try to spend more time and a good time to kiss him iz maybe in a movie that is kinda of romantic
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No wories~ My boyfriend was like that. Those boyfriends are the keepers because the respect you. They care more about you than what they can tell "the guys" about what they did with u last night. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 1/2 years and the relationship is great, only because we waited for the right time to start kissing and such. Don't worry as time progresses he will come around.
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I keep reading this shit about 13/14 year olds having sex.. now here is a 14 year old who is too stupid to know when to kiss her own bf...
tell ya what.. just kiss him.. straight away... no matter who is around.. just do it.. you wont regret it!
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no, hes a guy, of course hes not going to pull away. dont be nervous. just do it nd hell open up more to you.
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