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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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heyy well im going to buy these pants..http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10101_10851_298218_-1_12168 from abercrombie in either brown or cream color, the thing is i never wear pants like these.. i usually wear jeans so i have no clue what color shirt would go with the brown and the cream. its sounds stupid but i seriously have no clue lol what color do you think would go good with them? thanksss

First of all, those jeans are really cute. If you were to get your jeans in brown, the following colors would look cute: Pink, blue, a lighter brown or darker brown than your jeans, white, black, ect. Any color really. Anything goes with brown. Brown is pretty much just like black, anything matches. As for the cream color, brown, pink, white, black, blue and green, would be great colors.

why do you never update or answer questions as often anymore??

I've been busy with spending time with my boyfriend, so I don't have much time to update this site daily. I'm still checking it as often as I can, though. I might not answer as many questions anymore, but I will ALWAYS answer my inbox questions.

is it normal when you shave your pubic hair for it to itch alot after ?.. thanks in advanced

Yes, it's completely normal. Once you're done shaving I suggest putting some lotion/hand cream on. It'll help with the inchyness and any redness you may have.

Okay, for my boyfriend's 16th birthday which was on the 18th of October; i bought this thing to make. It's kind of like a scrap book, but it's called aflip book. It's these clear things, and you have to decorate these pages and put it in them. There's also these words to put in them. What my question is is, is that like a gay thing for him ? and what kind of things should i put in the things ? ..we dont relaly have that many pictures of us together.

ps - we've been going out for 11 months; the best of my life. please help, thanks.

I think that is a REALLY cute idea, actually. And I don't think it's a gay thing for you to give him. You guys have been together for 11 months, so something like this will show him just how much you really do love him and care about him. If you have some pictures of you and him together, but them in the flip book. Also, cute little love quotes would be adoreble to put in, since you're able to put words in it. You could also write out funny moments you guys shared together, inside jokes you might have with eachother or fun times you had with one another.

Another great idea would be listing 50 reasons (or how many reasons you want) on how much of an amazing boyfriend he is/why you love him so much/what's so cute about him. Just list reasons and spice up your page, by adding cute pictures, quotes and such.

When you use a vibrator..do you usually put a condom on it?

If you're the only one using it, than no, you don't need to put a condom on it. However, if you and your partner (or someone else) are both using it, I suggest using a condom.

Is it weird that i am 13 and i still never had my first kiss or boyfriend ever in my life? i think i'm like the only person in my SCHOOL that never had a boyfriend. i always like all these guys but i never tell them because i am scared and i don't want to get hurt. but i don't want to be like most of my friends that go out with a different guy every week. i've had some many guys ask me out before but i always so no, i don't know why. i even said no to this guy i liked for a very long time. i' just don't want to get hurt. i always wanted my first boyfriend, kiss, date or whatever to be with someone that i will always remember. my best friend doesn't even remmeber her first kiss, and i don't want that to happen to me. i need advice to make me feel better about this.

There's nothing wrong with YOU. A lot of people think when they don't have a boyfriend, or haven't had their first kiss yet that there is something wrong with them. And sweetie, that is not the case at all. I'm sure you're a wonderful and beautiful girl, inside and out. Sometimes it just takes longer for some people to get their first boyfriend/first kiss. It has nothing to do with you. It's just how everything is planned out.

Lots of people your age haven't had their first boyfriend/first kiss yet, either. Don't think you're the only one, because you aren't. Everyone takes time for something like this to happen. Some get their first boyfriend when they're 12; others when they're 13 and some even only have their first boyfriend when they're 18-30. It just depends on the person and if they're ready or not. It doesn't really matter if you didn't have your first boyfriend, yet. You're only 16, hun. You have tons of time for boyfriends, believe me. But, I promise you in time, you'll find that special guy. You just have to give it some time. For now, enjoy being a teenage girl and having fun with your friends; you only live once.

Are the lyrics in Christina Aguilera's song "Hurt" about her father? Did he die or something?

I'm pretty sure her father didn't die. However, the song is about him. He used to beat on her mother and abuse her.

who has the key?

Me! :]

No, I am not asking how to become a moderator.
I was wondering how do you become a level 2/3 moderator?
Who changes your mod level? DangerNerd?

The following site will give you all the information needed to become a level 2 or 3 Moderator, http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=69 And yes, DangerNerd is usually the one that changes the Moderators' level.

I have really dark hair & brown eyes & somewhat tan what shades of eye shadow would I use?

Usually I go for browns, silvers, golds, purples, greens and pinks. Thoses shades look really cute with brown eyes. Also, if you want your eyes to pop, line them with black eye-liner or blue eye-liner. That is also very cute for people with dark eyes and hair.

So I'm gay not like flaming gay, but gay none the less... Last night was our homecoming dance and I brought a date which was a guy... I slow danced with him and everything and apparently everyone was looking at us because my friends warned me that I might get some shit on monday about it... what should I do?

If people give you shit because you're gay, they have problems, seriously. They shouldn't be hating on you just because you like guys. That is YOUR business, not theirs. People shouldn't be in other peoples' business anyways. I suggest ignoring them. They don't have any reason for saying shit to you. Did you have fun at the dance with your date? It sounds like it. So, who cares? You had fun and you enjoyed your time with your date, there is NOTHING wrong with that. So people, who have a problem with that, have problems of their own. Just ignore them and do your thing. You shouldn't care about what others may think about you, as long as you're happy with yourself that is all that matters.

im am 13 and have a 9 inch penis. i some times take erections in class and its really embarassing. there is also this really hot girl that seems to notice me more since she seen me taking an erection a saw the size of it. i dont know if i should go ask her out because i really like her but dont know if she is interested in me as a person or not.

Maybe you should try asking her to hangout with you or go to a movie one night. Get to know her and just be friends with her for awhile. Once you guys have been hanging out for awhile, you'll know if she likes you for you, or just wants you for your size. So, just hangout with her, have fun with her, than see where it goes from there.

hey! so me and my friend are dressing up for twin week as a part of Homecoming week. I was wondering if you knew any cute sayings we could put on the shirts we are making. We thought of "two of a kind" and "double your fun." Do you have any other good ideas? thanks!

That sounds really cute. My idea's might not be the best, but at least I tried. However, here are some ideas:

-- Two's more fun.
-- Double the crazyness.
-- Two is better than one.
-- Double the excitement, double the fun.

Is there any food from the McDonalds menu that is SLIGHTLY HEALTHY: such as a salad, that comes with the monopoly stickers?

I know that mcDonalds is just very unhealthy overall, but what are the healthiest things on the menu (that come with the stickers?

Actually, NOTHING at McDonalds is healthy for you, even the salads and such. If you don't get a salad with the dressing on it, then that is healthy. But everything else has the same calories as a Big Mac. Crazy, isn't it? I learnt that when I watched Super Size Me. As for the stickers, I do believe they only come with a large drink, medium fries or a Big Mac.

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how long should you be in a relationship before you kiss your girlfriend?

There's no amount of time that you and your girlfriend have to be together for before you kiss her. Usually you kiss someone when you feel you're comfortable around him or her and you WANT to kiss them. You can kiss her whenever you want, as long as you both are comfortable with one another and want to kiss eachother. Just kiss her when the time is right. And when that time comes, you'll know.

is it ok to masterbate while your on your period? is there anyways besideds sticking your finger up you pussy to have an orgasim?

It's okay to masterbate while on your period, mind you it might get a bit messy, though. If you're okay with the blood and mess, then go for it. However, be sure to put a towel down. If not, just masterbate while you're not on your period.

For more ways to masterbate, you might want to search up on http://www.google.com

Here's a site that might be useful:

-- http://www.teenhelp.org/groups/archive/index.php/t-3817.html

What happens if u shave your vigina?..or wen u get razor bumps down there?

What do you mean, what happens if you shave your vagina? Nothing happens if you shave it. People choose if they want to shave it or not. It's not a big deal if you do or don't. If you get razor bumps/burn just put on some lotion after you're done shaving; it'll help with the bumps and redness.

i cannot find a good site to get myspace layouts from. anyone have any good ones? please and thanks!

The following websites have really cute MySpace layouts.

-- http://www.myspace.com/xohromancex
-- http://www.myspace.com/hopelessxxdreamer

what are some good sites for AIM profile quotes.

like the cute onesssss or some from like the hills or laguna beach like

"love's not a maybe thing, you know when you love someone"- the hills

stuff like that..

thanks in advance.

http://www.holliesquotes.com has a lot of cute quotes.

Do you have to be a stoner in order to wear hemp?

No, you can wear it if you want to. It doesn't matter if you're a stoner or not. If you like hemp, wear it.

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