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I was a cutter... im not anymore. I did it for about 2 months and finally my boyfriend got me to stop on my own. So, i made some pretty interesting designs when i cut myself... I cut in the middle of my forearm and i made shapes like hearts and stars and stuff and ive quit back in February. I wear a wristband now, but, my parents haven't found out that i used to cut myself. So, what my question is, is there a way i can get the scars to be not very visible for summer? Because i know that i will be swimming a lot and be real active... help is appreciated and im getting sick of wearing a wristband all the time... (link)
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I might sound like a comercial saying this but it works. If you put neosporin on the scars everyday it'll work. A better thing to do is to put Vitamin E on it and Aloe. It works really well and gets the scars gone fast. When i say fast i mean fast. Do this, it can't cost you more than about $10 from the drug store. They'll be gone by the time you want to start swimming if you doit now.
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Hi.. i've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 10 monthes and we really love eachother! Before we started going out, he kind of liked my best friend, but he asked me out instead. Turns out, she's liked him since before we were going out and they flirt soo much! I know flirting is just natural but my other friend told me that she wants us to break up and im really worried.. What should i do!? Thanks! (link)
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If you guys are going out and have been going out for almost a year i wouldn't worry about it. I mean he chose you over her and it's not like he wants to break up with you. Only she does so i wouldn't worry about it. I say that she wants you to break up because she is jealous. Don't worry about it. If he really loves you he wouldn't break up with you for another girl.
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ok so i was wondering how long will it take me to get a flat stomach..im not asking for abs that show just to lose about 35 pounds and get a flat stomach. this really means alot to me, cuz since im overweight no guy ever likes me even though they can tell im fat. we r going to corpus christi with my swim team this weekend and everyone i know is going to wear a 2 peice and be all pretty, will i'll be stuck in my one piece and all the guys will go to my one friend. so please help me. thnx in advance. i'll rate high to anyone who is nice to me. (link)
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Well, to lose weight fat then i would run a lot and do sit ups and stuff like that to lose inches fast. Take a 10-15 minute run everyday and start to eat better. Cut down on snacks and sugar. Sugar turns into carbs which turns into fat. So, just follow those things and you'll be set.
Hope i helped. If you have any more questions feel free to ask them.
~maddy~
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My name is stephanie, and I bhave beeen dating my boyfriend for a month now.But here's the twist! My BF(Chris)asked me to hsve sex with him after a band dance. I told him no, b/c I'm not ready to sexualy active just yet! Unexpectingly he said ok I'll respect that b/c I love. I figured that excuse would by me time, and it did! But now he wants more reasons as to why I can't have sex with him. But see what gets me is is that he's telling me he wants to have sex, but when I say no he's ok with what I decide, but he asks repeating , but never makes any kind of action leading to sex. I'm confused! WHY IS HE GIVING ME MIXED SIGNALS?
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The point is that he loves you enough to want to have that kinda relationship with you but can wait also because he loves you. He loves you and is waiting because he hasen't made a move yet. So i say everything is fine and that when you're ready he'll be waiting.
Hope i helped. Leave me a message if you have any other questions.
~maddy~
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my whole body isnt that fat except my stomach. i hate my stomach cause its fat.. what are some GREAT exercises i can do to make it flat ? (link)
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I have the same problem. Running and cruches make it go down. I've lost an inch and a half in a week and a half. It works, run everyday for like 10 minutes. You can do it to your favorite tune which makes it go by quicker. Then you should do 20-30 crunches in the morning afternoon and night. That's about 60-90 crunches a day and a 10-15 minute run, the inches will away quicker and you'll feel healthy. You should also drink 5-8 glasses of water each day and one salad so you keep your veggies up. It clears up your face and keeps you hidrated with all of this exersize. This rutine really works and is easy to follow if you do this for a few weeks you will be so happy with your body!
Hope i helped. Leave me a message if you have any other questions.
~maddy~
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Alright well here it is..
Im 14.. I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago.. He wasnt one of the boyfriends that I actualy could see being with for a long time so I guess I was just going out with him cause I liked him..
Now.. For some reason I just really want a boyfriend. How do I get a guy to like me? what can I do to get a boyfriend or a guy that might want to date me?
I know this probly sounds greaty or selfish or stupid.. But I really want a boyfriend. I like a guy that Im afraid will never like me back.. so im trying to find someone else.. can you help me..
please..
- maddie (link)
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OKay, i'm gonna help you because you have the same name as me :D just kidding but yeah...i doubt that you need a guy tha badly, don't be desperate for a guy or they won't come. Remember we all wants things we don't have. When you show people that you don't care they come to you. T
Trust me...i know this from experience, because you want a boyfriend you see them everywhere and seem to notice that almost everyone you know has one. But the thing is that you should realize that no one NEEDS a boyfriend they just think that they do...try to focus on other things like friends and school. It might sound corny but it gets your mind off of things. And don't change who you are to get a guy, they should like you for you and no reason otherwise.
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ok so there is this guy..he is my guyfriend and i like him alot, but my other friend likes him too, and i already told her it was cool and that im happy for her because he supposedly likes her back. but really i feel empty and broken and i was wondering if this is normal and what should i do to get over this feeling, its making me feel awful, i just want to be normal again!thnx in advance. i'll rate you high if you are nice.
sincerely,
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You know what, i have had the exact same thing happen to me! I know how your feeling and it is perfectly normal to feel this way. What happened to me was i was like best friends with this guy and then all of the sudden i started smiling at him more and trying to find was to be around him. But he liked my best friend and she liked him back, what made it worse was that he asked me to hook them up. Now i know what your going through so, lemme give you some tips...for one any guy that doesn't like you for you isn't worth it. if you dwell on your feelings for this guy and he doesn't show them back then your just hurting yourself more. I know it is hard to move on and it might not happen right away but all effort helps. You just need to believe in yourself and even though it hurts that he doesn't like you, it means that he isn't the one for you, most likely because of the way the universe works when you show him that your not interested anymore then he will come to you and you will probably have a guy that totally loves you for you buy then.
Hope i helped. Send me a message if you have any other questions.
~maddy~
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ok so there is this guy who is kinda friends w/ me and he has a nick name for me, and is always talking to me, and at school dances he always talks to me and then i ask him to dance he says yes and when we are slow dancing he grabs my ass, and he always brings up times when we had fun together.
i dont know if likes me or not and if he does what should i do should i ask him out or some thing?
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I think that all of this is flirting, i think that he enjoys spending time with you from what i hear. If you flirt a lot, he talks about you a lot, and you think he likes you and you like him then i say go for it. I mean the worst he could say is no, but from what i hear is i think you got yourself a crush. :D if you need more advice come back to me. i'm on here all the time
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i broke up with my bf of 2 months today b/c of lack of communication. he wasnt crushed at all..i dont think we meant anything to him but anyway, its the second last day of school before summer. how long should i wait before i go with his friend? we both really like each other and he actually cares about me. hes my friend's ex and im his friends ex..any opinions? tell me what u honestly think...i wont take away from the rating. thanks! (link)
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It depends on how long it has been. If it has been more than 3-5 days since you broke up with yout boyfriend and him and your friend have been spli then i say go for it and see what happens because otherwise you might not see this guy as much and not be able to ask him. So,i would say if it has been loner than 3-5 days than go for it. If your boyfriend doesn't seem like he cares then you shouldn't either.
There is only the other friend to think about now. If you think that she won't mind then ask the other guy out, if you don't feel comfortable doing this then i say talk to her about it. If she is really your friend then she'll understand. Especially if she broke up with the guy that you wanna go out with. Just make sure that she won't be mad at you if you do ask this other guys out. Consider her feelings yours and the guy you wanna ask you. The guy you dump doesn't need to be a part of this situation anymore. :) Hope i helped. If you want more advice leave a message in my inbox.
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Ok, so I have this friend and I didnt know she had myspace until the other night. Well, I found her myspace and in her blogs, she had an entry about "How To Get Rid Of Old Friends?". Well, in the entry she was talking bad about two of my good friends and how she dont want to be their friend anymore. I sent her a message and told her what I say and that I think I should tell my friends about it. Should I? How can I handle this in the right manner? I want to do the right thing. Also, should I even be her friend anymore if she is going to act like this? Help! (link)
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Okay, i think that you should tell your friends to look at her myspace thing, like when your on IM then be like oh have you seen (lets call her maggie) Maggie's myspace profile? and then send them the link tell but a when you send them the link send them the link of her blogs. I know it's sneeky and it's not the best way to go about it. I wouldn't have the guts to do it myself though, it's kind mean to 'Maggie'. Another way to go about it is to talk to the friends or 'maggie' in a calm manner. if you don't like these ideas come back to me.
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ok so i like this guy. he just moved in before christmas. i have liked im since then. well he knows i like him. but he talks to me when we're at home. but when we get to skool he doesnt and i dont know why. can you help me? bc idk why he doesnt talk to me at skool? and i want him to like me.so yeah im confused.
confused girl, age 15.
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Well, confused...the only thing that i can think of is that you aren't the kind of person that he wants to show off to his friends. One of my friends had the same issue. He was my neighbor me her and him hung out all the time and they both liked each other and would flirt a lot out of school but whenever she tried to talk to him in school he would have short quick answers and then walk away. The best thing i can tell you to do is to talk to him about it out of school. Ask him why he never talks to you in school. Say it jokingly then get into a concerned voice. Talk about it with him tell him that it hurts your feelings when he ignored you (i'm guessing it does) or talk to him on AIM which i'm sure he has. If you think it won't work tell me and i'll comeup with something new.
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Ok so i've been eating really good i eat salad alot.I don't drink soda ..only water and gatreoade how ever u spell it. And i also walk in the morning i've been doing this for about couple weeks now.but i havn't lost weight my face is really clear now.But that the onlt thing i've noticed . What i'm i doing wrong..should i do more exerciseing ? (link)
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running or walking doesn't lose the weight, if it's only around your belly then i would do 40 crunches when you wake up get home and right before bed, it loses inches quickly and gets you into shape!! I toke this advice form my friend and lost 10 lbs in two weeks. this is a really esy diet and helps you get healthy and in shape
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what shows on broadway in new york city do you recommend besides the lion king? (already saw it) (link)
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Beauty and the Beast, awsome musical!!
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i went to DEB today and i found a pair of sandals that i really like. i couldnt buy them at the time, so today i went to the depshops.com website to look for them. there was no section for shoes. does anyone know anywhere online to view DEB's shoes? thanks (link)
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um...stores don't always list all of their products on their websites. find out what kinda shoeit is and then look it up on froggle or ebay. better luck there. hop i helped.
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hello everyone does anyone know a website called mystic dreams cause i need to go on there cause i lost the website ill give 5`s if you give me the direct website (link)
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Well, i found a couple of things...
1. http://www.mysticdreams.com/
2. www.mysticdreamsshoppe.com
3. www.thepixiepit.co.uk/mysticdreams.htm
4. http://www.joescafe.com/cds/rush-mystic_dreams.html
Those are the best things that i could come up with...what does the website include?
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Okay so theres this guy i met on the inernet he goes to my school i see him at school and talk to him a lot. The problem is he has a gf. He always is like go to the mall with me and would u go out with me if i didnt have a gf and how far i would go. is he just trying to get some or what but i think i mite like him now. (link)
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Well, all i wanna know is why does he wanna know how far you would go with him? I mean if he really liked you then he would wait until you were ready. I would tell him that if he is gonna try stuff with you then he can forget the relationship that he is gonna have with you. Unless you want him to try stuff with you i mean...but yeah, i would talk to him about things first. Or do whatever you think feels right.
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Alright this may seem pathetic.. but I just realized I don't like my boyfriend that much anymore... I just can't dump him because I.. don't know I juust can't do it! So I was going to try to get him to dump me.. the only thing is I don't know how!! The one thing I don't wanna do is cheat on him! So does anyone have any ideas on how I should go about doing this!? (link)
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Okay, if you're having this much trouble dumping him is it because you don't wanna hurt him or you still have feelings for him? One thing that i have to mention here is that i really don't like it when people dump their boyfriends/girlfriends because of one problem they are having in their relationship. I would have some thinking time, if you really wanna dump him tell him that you need your space and need some time to think. During that time think about how it would be with out him and what you really would like to do. I hope i helped. If you would like more advice then please leave a message in my inbox and i would be happy to help :D.
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I'm having my Sweet Sixteen party this month and I was wondering if you had any ideas for ways to keep my guests entertained during the 4-5 hour period. I'm holding it at my house, I have a buffet, a tiki bar, a seating area, music, and giant torches. The only activities I have planned are a candle lighting ceremony, and cutting the cake and opening presents (those will help waste time), then I decided to have a bellydancing contest (just for laughs), and then a hula-hooping contest. My theme is Hawaiian/Luau. Please help me find more ways to get the time to fly by! (link)
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Okay, i lived in Hawaii for most of my life so i might be of some help. Find some good hawaiian music like Brother Isreal. Maybe some Keali'i Reichel. Those are some good down to soul Hawaiian artisits. This kinda music is fun stuff to dance to. Have a hula contest. Tell everyone to come in a 'hawaiian' constume so they can have a contest on most hawaiian related contume? Like...a tourist maybe a hula dancer or 'beach babe' tha could take up time. My cuz have her sweet sixteen as the same theme and they did all this stuff and hers what a sleep over so just do this kinda stuff and you'll be set, oh maybe you can get some pineapple cups with the umbrella's and some leis for the guests to wear.
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I found a pipe and a lighter in my brother's draw. I was furious because I'm am strongly against smoking. He's in college...I understand he's old enough to make his own descisions, but he has a lot going for him and I don't want him to screw up his future....What are the possibilities of what he was smoking? Like weed..tobacco?And, is there a site that has the bad effects of it, or if you guys can list some that will convince him to stop, I would appreciate it! (link)
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I wouldn't jump to conclusions so quickly. For all you know this pipe and lighter could belong to one of your brother's friends and they might have left it behind with-out your brother ever knowing. But most likely he could be smoking. I would let the cards sit on the table for a while. Watch him, see how he acts if he is acting differently and you think it might be because he is high i would start to look things up on the web. They have the best kind of ways to deal with this kind of stuff. If you ca't find anything that might apeal to your brother than the best thing to do would find him in his room at a calm time and talk to him, tell him that you've found the pipe in him room and would like to know what is going on. That might be steph 2 or three. Maybe you want to drop hints and make him come out and say it first, when that doesn't work then maybe you want to talk to him about smoking, say that your worried about one of your friends then result to the point were you talk to him about finding a pipe in his room. If none of these work come back to me. I'll be thinking about more ways to help.
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how do i get a girl to like me? (link)
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Be yourself. Don't change who you are to make her like you. If she doesn't like who you are then she doesn't deserve you. Most likely if your playing the 'desperate' game then your less appealing to her. I know this from experiance. When you show them that your interested but not sure if you wanna go through with it them come to you, so just be yourself and have her get to know you more. When other people aren't around.
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