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Hey everyone (: Im Casey. Im in 9th Grade at jhs which I hate .. I started this advice column back in November and now im starting up again in my second year of January Even though im only in 9th Grade I have been through alot. Please rate too (: Thanks A Bunch
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I like this guy that I went to school with last year and went out with him last year and the beginning of this year. I'm 17 and he is 16. And I don't know if I should tell him that I still like him alot because I don't know how he feel anymore. We still talk and he gives me hugs when he sees me, and we're still cool and all. But I have no clue what to do anymore. I want to tell him but I'm scared to because I don't know how he will react. PLEASE HELP!!!!!! I'll rate really good!!!!! Thanks in advance!!!!! Blessed be!!
~Candy the Wiccan
Try flirting a lot with him. Spend some time with him and if he seems interested then defintley tell him. Try not to be too desperate though even though i know your not lol. Hope i helped!
Okay, Here is the deal. I'm usually good at givng myself advice, but I don't know what to do on this one. I like 2 boys. Corey and Charles.
I've known CHARLES for about 1 1/2. He's like a best friend to me and I told him before that I like him, but I guess he never really thought about giving me a chance. Charles is always making me laugh and I just love being around him ( I can be myself with him and he wont put me down). Corey, Well I like him too (ALOT).. although I've only known him since this year, But I've liked him since I first saw him. I always thought he hated me, and my friends would tell me that he thought I was ugly,( People say I'm not ugly though) and he hated me. That stuff was NEVER said. Him and I were in class one day and we were passing notes.. I asked him about the things people were saying that he said about me, he said they were never true, he also said that since he's gotten to know me that he thought I was cute and cool. So now, me and Corey are good friends ( I like him because I can be myself around him also, and not have to worry about being put down).. His EX girlfriend, Dylan, she hates the crap out of me, but I hate her with a passion too.. Corey said that when she moves he will think about giving me a chance. It's all really hard because I like both CHARLES and COREY. Not only because they're REALLY cute, but because of the way they are..the way they act. Anyway, I just needed help on what to do with this problem. I've always liked Charles, and now I'm starting to like Corey even more.. I know Corey likes me (cuz he told me on the phone, using the words, "I like you") but I don't know about Charles. I recently broke up with my boyfriend, Chris, so that I could have a relationship with Corey,( and cuz Chris cheated on me with my best friend) I would like to be with corey more than charles because I am comfortable being close friends with charles. It's all really confusing because I'm not sure if Corey still wants to be with me when Dylan moves. (like he said before)Corey told me he hated my best friend and I didn't like how she was treating me, so now I'm not friends with her.. and I wonder if it made Corey think twice about me.. I mean now I can finally be myself and not have to worry about people thinking I'm like my best friend, Vonna (everyone thought I was like Vonna because I always hung out with her)..So, What do you think I should do.. What do you think my problem is... should I try to talk to Corey and tell him that I really want to be with him. (I already told him tons of times that I like him no matter what anyone says, that I was always gonna like him, and I told him I couldn't wait to be with him).. I just dont know if he cares. I sent Charles an email telling him that I still like him.. and he hasnt responded yet.. so if Charles decides to be just friends,(thats fine, its better that way for me, friends with benifits) what do I do about Corey, cuz corey is the one I want to have to relationship with, cuz he's a good guy. Help me soon, please! Give me any INFO you can about my problem, anything that will help, I'm desperate to know. THANKS TONS
-CRYSTAL!- (15, Female)
I would want to stay friends with Charles. If you really like Corey then go for it. Tell him how much you like him and how much he means to you. Let him know that soon.. hope i helped
I have a friend,Megan which I have been practically sisters with my whole life. I've known her for 6 years and we basically grew up together. I also have this other friend,Kelsy, which I have known for about 4 or 5 years, and is also extremely close with me. Megan and Kelsy have also been close for years,too. Kelsy is starting not to like Megan anymore, due to a drunk night when Megan got with the guy that Kelsy liked. I know it was wrong, but I've known Megan for half my life and I can't just drop her like that. Kelsy might get mad if she knows that I still want to be friends with Megan, because everytime she says something about Megan, I always agree by saying I'm not talking to her anymore either. What are your opinions on this?
I think you should talk to Megan about this whole thing. Talking it out will make your friendship stronger. Maybe even set aside some time like a movie night with your friends or a sleepover to work it all out. If they still wanna be friends try this. Hope i helped(:
well I met this guy and I really liked him, but he was here for a visit from Califorina, we dated while he was here, but now that he is back home what do I do ?????? Can we keep our realtionship over the internet and my mail, or what???? PLZ HELP ME IM CONFUSED
well if you really care enough and he really cares enough about you and your relationship then you guys will make it work. you can send letters to eachother .. on the internet and the phone. make sure you can trust him when he is in california .. hope i helped (:
Ok I met this girl online like 11 months ago and in April I asked her out. I have pics millions of letters and we talks hours everyday on the phone. I really love her. But her past relationship she was raped and had a baby so now her dad doesnt trust guys being with her and since she met me online that makes it even worse. I really wanna see her yesterday was 7 months. I need advice on getting her dad to trust me if anyone can help. And no im not leaving her shes perfect we never argue or fight. Please dont give me answers saying to dump her I understand long distance is hard but I know with her dads trust it will work. Thanks much guys and gals.
never hurt her or never ever make her cry. its hard for her father to accept that she has been raped and its going to be a long time until he trusts any boy again. maybe if u ever meet you should talk to him and spend time with her and the family so he knows where your coming from. hope i helped!
Our nice little group of friends is going through a bunch of crap. And, yes, I did in fact mean CRAP. The deal is simple. A lot of us have realized how extremely bad the school year has been going. We seem to be growing apart, and getting more and more agrivated with one another. The things is, we really really want to stay friends, but all of us want different things. Some of us wish that everything at school wasn't treated like one big joke, and need someone to talk to. Others wish things were like last year when we all were carefree and didn't have a worry in the world (meaning never did have serious conversations at school).
The biggest thing is that no one feels that they can talk to anyone. Everyone feels very alone this year. Especially because two of our friends moved away over the summer.
We want to have a good relationship with eachother, but are pretty much clueless on how to accomplish this goal. So, how can we bring our group back together?
Thanks
im going through the same thing .. one of my good friends is moving away and everyone esle is just falling apart .. i think you should set a side a sleep over or a movie night at someones house just to talk and get back together like you were it helps if you all talk it out and talk as constructive critisim to everyone if your having a problem with them .. tell them that your here for them and you can always talk to them .. hope i helped! please rate(:
i kno this grl who went out with this kid for like a day.. and he told her b4 that he didnt like her but her friend sed he did.. and he asked her out and he snuggled with her and w/e.. but then the next day he completely ignored her and his friend told her tht he wanted to break up with her and wen she asked him 2 his face he sed it wasnt true but online he sed where throught.. and he broke up with her.. but she still wants him bak.. shes like in love with him.. wat shood she do to get over him?
well i think i know who this is lol but anyways its hard .. i mean i like someone and they didnt even go out with me .. i mean i didnt like them i fell in love with them and i still am .. thats what really hurts. i know this probably wont help but this kid your talking is a scum bag. you should try giving him space then try talking to him as a friend .. its better then nothing at all .. if it hurts you to talk to him then dont talk to him at all .. you both need space. tell him how you feel that he hurt you so much. hope i helped a little .. please ask another question if you need to !
Hey,
theres this guy that always flirts with me, always talks not stop, and he even called me sweet. He taps my foot all the time and we end up getting into a flirty footwar, lol. I think hes gonna ask me out, but i really like him as a friend. What are some ways to turn a guy down nicely so that he doesnt hate u forever?
Signed,
girl under an attack of unwanted predator
just tell him that you like him as only a friend and you dont want to ruin your friendship. its easier if you tell him sooner then later so he wont get hurt ! hope i helped!
my friend (kelley) has been cutting herself lately and doing some pretty dangerous stuff. i told her to stop and she said she has but i dont know if i should believe her. what should i do? *signed clueless as what to do*
i have a friend who has cut herself and i think she still does. tell her that you care about her and that you dont want to see her in pain because it causes you pain! its not a good thing to do and in the end its really not worth it. tell her instead of cutting herself to talk to you bcuz you will always be there for her whenever she needs you. hope i helped (: please rate!
does anyone know a website that can help me with translating french to english?!...or if there is anyone on this website that can help me!!
umm if you have aim you can IM smarterchild and then ask him .. its easy .. or go to www.google.com and type in french to english translations .. hope i helped! please rate
Ok I know that this is really long, and I'm sorry, but if you can please answer that would be soo cool. Ok so I have liked this guy who is kind of a dork for about a year and a half. I haven't told any1 except 1 friend because its really embarrassing. This guy's name is Jamie. Jamie thinks he's really popular but he's really not popular at all and most people think that he's really annoying. He used to like me last year for a while and a lot of people still think that he does but he tells everybody that he likes this girl named Jillian who is PeRfEcT and I mean it she is pretty, nice, funny, athletic and most guys do like her. The problem is he is leaving to go to Hong Kong to stay! I'm not sure if I should tell him that I like him or not because he is the type that would go around telling everybody. I was thinking that I could tell him at the end of his last day but then if he likes me it would suck....If u guys can help me that would be so cool! i rate really well!
Try to talk and flirt with him to see if he does like you. If you sense he does then just tell him! things could work out for the best .. if he doesnt like you i would tell him on his last day of school .. then you wont have to go through it. hope i helped (:
i am having a big b'day party this year. this one gurl on my bus, i invited her. i just told her about it b/c the other gurls were talking bout it. and my mom hates her. i dont know how to tell her she can't come? can yall help me?
i will rate you.
woww .. idk how to say that and try not to be mean .. say to her oh the birthday party has been canceled and tell your friends to keep quiet about it. hope i helped (:
(13 year old girl) ok well i like this guy a lot .. my two best friends both went out with him like 6 months to a year ago (but he was more serious with one of my friendsz than the other) anywaysz i want to tell him i like him but i cant ... cuz he's kind of ugly and lacksz common sense lol and well i dont think he likes me .. well mayb only as a friend but thats all .. so how do you think i can find out if he likes me ?
p.s - no one knowsz i like him .. not even my friendsz ..
thankszz! =]
try talking to him in your classes and flirting. Ask him to go out sometime and try to get to know him before you wanna start anything. Here to help! If you need anymore advice write back! please rate(:
I really really like this guy at my school and well all my friends know n i think he does too but I'm not sure. He knows cuz my friends asked him if he would ever consider going out with me and he said no. And i told tht to my friend whoz a guy n he said hez not gonna say yes 2 ur friends even if he did like u...but i have this guys phone number n s/n(he hasn't been on since last year). but i am really really scared to call n plus i would feel strange...but what can i do to try to get him to like me atleast as a friend?
Talk to him in school. Maybe even use that line to call him like oh whats the homework for tonight i forgot it. lol anything to try to talk to him and flirt alot .. if you sense bad vibes back off a little bit .. whats meant to be will happen! Here to help! Please rate(:
there is this guy at my school who is the same age as me. sadly he is in a diffrent homeroom. he first found out that i liked him when my young yet stupid teacher went and told him that i thought he was hot. my teacher found out that i thought this guy was hot when we were talking about how he is such a good basketrball player, anywho...... out of nowhere i was like yeah that kid is hot and my teacher old him and he said that bret said he was flattered. now i do;nt know if he likes me or what. at gym when ever my volleyball misteriously rolls over to him he just lets it roll right on by. today (11/17) he picked it up and he gave it to me. other days if he knows it is mine he will kick it or pick it up and drop it. i dont know if he is shy or what. this other girl likes him to but i dont think he knows. i know that i am in jr high and things arent the same as 4th or 5th grade like when you tell a boy that u like them and they start to like you but maybe it still is. i really think he is cute but i dont know much about him but i just want to get to know him without comeing off as one of those creepy stalker types. i dont know how to get his attention because i am very shy around cute guys and in his case is is dead sexi! how do i get to know him or atleaset make a conversation even how to make him say hi! just for info.... i am not going to go all girly and try to impress him with my clothes that is so 6th grade and it doesnt work i want him to like me for something more than my looks but i still want him to like me for my looks! love always,
Boy trouble
I know how that is lol. Well if you want to become closer to him try starting out as friends. If hes in any of your classes talk to him and flirt with him. If hes interested you`ll know. Hope I helped! Please rate (:
How would be the best way to get trust as a Guy? Girls think all we want is ya know!!!! 17 male
Be nice to the girl .. try to be sensitive and not to talk about you know what. Its great if you become friends with her and spend time with her. You'll shurely gain her trust. Take it from a girl (: Hope i helped!
I don't get it. My best friend we'll call her Jane, is insane nowadays. She used to be like this dork that went to church every Sunday and was so nice and sweet to everyone. Now shes off giving head to every guy she sees and flipping out in class when she doesnt understand what the teacher is saying! She doesn't make sense. I've tried to talk to her about it but she just won't listen. She's crazy now and not too fun to be around. I hate the person she's become. Now she drinks, smokes, and does pot. I HATE IT. I mean i don't like any of that but i don't dislike people because they do but Jane....she pisses me off. Every time I talk to her it seems like she's either flipping out about something or crying about how "terrible" her life is. I just want to like leave her and not be friends with her but i know that this is the time where she probably needs a friend the most. I've been beside her through everything and she thanks me all the time but then turns around and flips out on me. I can't stand her anymore and I don't know what to do. Right now im Just lokking forward to graduation to get away from her. I know it sounds mean but im really not mean, just wicked desperate. Please help me figure out what to do.
-Melanie
Hey Melaine .. wow im really sorry to hear about that. People change and it really sucks. Your right this is the time where "Jane" needs you the most. You should have a girls night and just talk with her about it and tell her that you still want to be friends with her but you dont know what to do! If it doesnt change she should talk to someone like a counselor or someone else if its enough. Its hard but in the end she will appreciate you for helping her. If you need anymore advice on this just IM me on xsunkiszed3x or post on my advice column. Hope I helped and hope this leaves one in the inbox!
Ok guys I am getting a bit nervous. I have been on my pill for a few months now. I take it the same time everyday, I dont forget to take them. I have 3 days left till I start a new pack and I havent gotten my period yet. When your on the pill should your period start before you start your new pack. If I dont get it by mid week next week I will take a test. But i am wondering if its normal to have not gotten my period yet. The last few months I had it already. Thanks for all your help guys.
Your period can fluctuate and be a little unsteady when your on the pill. Give it time and if soon you dont get it take the test. Everything will be fine! Hope I helped! Dont stress (: hope this leaves one in the inbox!
what are the chances of a condom having a hole in it?? i had sex with my boyfriend and i know it didnt break cuz i know what that feels like....and nothing has ever happened before.....but like im worried for some reason.....
its a slim chance that it would happen .. if you period is late and you dont get it then take the test .. but dont stress! everything will be fine (: hope i helped
ps. remember the next time to use a condom and even maybe take the pill just for extra protection!
I am Vietnamese to and I'm scared to ask my parents bout this cuz it could mean something bad...I know I should know my language pretty well but I don't I do wanna learn...I am full-american born and raise...I know how to say some words in vietnamese...but this is giving me the weirds...It's from a guy I like but he won't tell me what it means...I know this is long and I may sound stupid for not knowing my language but I do this is just giving me mixed feelings...What dies this mean
anh chi muon em toi em von cong yeu anh khong?
I know anh means...boy also your older brother
and chi means...big sis...
Em...also means...little...girl or boy
muon is want...
toi...is to
yeu...means like
khong means...would or could
I sound dumb don't I...but I'm just asking
if you have AIM and if you IM smarterchild they may have a trasnlation if you ask him. Also go on google yahoo or ask jeeves and ask them for translation sites .. hope i helped! please rate(: hope this leaves one in the inbox!