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Friends
Our nice little group of friends is going through a bunch of crap. And, yes, I did in fact mean CRAP. The deal is simple. A lot of us have realized how extremely bad the school year has been going. We seem to be growing apart, and getting more and more agrivated with one another. The things is, we really really want to stay friends, but all of us want different things. Some of us wish that everything at school wasn't treated like one big joke, and need someone to talk to. Others wish things were like last year when we all were carefree and didn't have a worry in the world (meaning never did have serious conversations at school).
The biggest thing is that no one feels that they can talk to anyone. Everyone feels very alone this year. Especially because two of our friends moved away over the summer.
We want to have a good relationship with eachother, but are pretty much clueless on how to accomplish this goal. So, how can we bring our group back together?
Thanks
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well I know what you're talking about. We all want different things, and for that reason, It's going to make it extremely hard to fix things. If we really want to we will find a way... there's no magic solution or thing to do to make it better... My opinion is to let time tell.
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hey. me and my friends are having the same problem. maybe you should go to the guidance counselor. we never worried about anything last year either. if someone needs someone to talk to, i trust my guidance counselor the most. or you could have a giant shopping trip and then everybody sleepover at the same place. that always worked for me and my friends. but i suggest that there's an even number of people just so no feels left out or else it's probably going to be a disaster. but a shopping trip might be nice for you guys.
hope i helped!xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LyNN*
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Well this has happened to my friends we like never got to gether enough all i have to say is break the silence talk more go shopping idk what girls do for fun but just get to gether more often dont feel seprerated just all of you go do something fun. tell jokes laugh a little more then after awhile you should feel more like bffs not just friends.
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Ok, well you see I am basically in the same sitch my friends are splitting because we all have different friends we hang out with now, but the thing is we get aggrivated with eachother a lot more than we used to but what i do is try to keep in touch with my friends on the phone at least once a week call them. Us four it was 3 guys and a girl and she split from the group and then we all fell apart. We still see eachother we hate school cuz we are fishy now and we liked it a lot more back in middle school. Me and my old friend have started to hate eachother with a STRONG passion.he was in the group.well see i still see him everyday we talk but we dont talk if we dont have to. We are going to go ice skating this saturday and i am hoping they all will come and maybe we can connect on something we all like to do. I hope i helped i know how it feels for a friend to move away because my friend moved over the summer. well good luck just try to find common ground and connect on that level ok i hope it is good advice. ask me anytime.
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it's a fact of life, people change and grow apart, and usually there's not a whole lot you can do about it. but if you all agree that you still want to be friends with each other, maybe try planning an outing, or a get together, where you guys can bond, and chances are the fact that you guys are drifting will come up (and if it doesn't, bring it up!) that way you guys can all share your feelings as to why you feel like you're drifting from each other, and maybe there's something going on in some of their lives that no one knows about which is making it awkward for everyone. if you guys are really good friends, just sitting down with everyone and talking about it should help get feelings and emotions out into the air. hopefully no one has a specific issue with anyone, because then that could get bad. but otherwise that should help, and you guys should be able to figure things out then and there, and then things should be better! good luck, and i hope this helps!
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im going through the same thing .. one of my good friends is moving away and everyone esle is just falling apart .. i think you should set a side a sleep over or a movie night at someones house just to talk and get back together like you were it helps if you all talk it out and talk as constructive critisim to everyone if your having a problem with them .. tell them that your here for them and you can always talk to them .. hope i helped! please rate(:
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