Hey! Im Jessica! I am 17 years old, and i love helping people out, my friends say i am good at giving advice b/c i am a good listener.. If i can help anyone let me know. Just ask and i guarantee i will give u an honest answer, b/c that is what u r looking for:)
Gender: Female
Location: Tennessee
Age: 17
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My friend Marina cuts,smokes, and is threatning to kill herself. I've told her plaenty of times suicide is not the way, but she is not listening. Should I ignore her protests and contact someone? But who?
Please reply, thanks :) (link)
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get her help! usually if she is sticking around after saying all that, that usually means she wants help, and she trusts u to help her. tell her parents, ur parents, and then ya parents or her parents can get her the help she needs:)
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Agh my parents are REALLY overprotective! And it sucks cause I can hardly go anywhere with my friends. I mean I can go out to like the mall and shops but idk and another thing is like i have NO way to get me to places my mom doesnt drive my dad works frum 630 am - 530 pm..and i can never have friends over..it just sucks cause shes ruining my life..im only 14 but i hate always havin my parents around.And everytime I talk to her about it she laughs she doesnt take me seriously. what can i do? And also its summer time here ->* What are sum fun things to do in the summer time with friends? (link)
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i know how you feel. my mom didnt let me do anything til i got at least 15. she is being protective b/c your so young and things are happening to girls ya age, that a mom dont wanna face at this point. but just give it a year or so, and she will maybe let u do stuff,if not, then ur mom has serious problems.
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I have this fantasy.. It's a pretty slutty fantasy. I want a girl to pinch a big, stinky, piping hot loaf of dung onto my chest, and pee on me. Is this abnormal? Thanks for your time.
-A concerned man (link)
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umm.. are you serious.. thats fuckin sick..melon head:) hahah!! but i wanna fuck u tho:)
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okay i asked a question earlier bout my girl friend cheatin on me well i went over to her house to talk and she wasnt there i went u to her room to see if she and saw her fuc**** with the same guy she looked at me and was suprised i ran out the door upset as i could be then to make matters worse that guy came out and said "guess the better guy won" and that was fighting words so i went up to him and said ur right u can have her and tuned around to leave and the guy sucker punched me so i turned around and knocked the sh** out of him.
did i do the right thing?
P.S thanks 4 helping me with my problem u dont know how much it helped (link)
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in a way yea but in a way no.. the guy isnt at fault.. that bitch is. he prolly didnt know that she was with you, so it really isnt ur place to hit him.
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okay my girlfriend and i were very close she was beautiful and funny and just an all around good girrl i love her so much 2 monthes ago she was killed some 1 came to her house murdered her and robbed her i feel really bad because the night that happened we got into a huge fight i cant stop blaming myself for wat happened i keep beatin my self up physically and mentally about this wat do i do i cant move on and its screwin uo my life (link)
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all you have to do is think about the good times you and her had. and NO its not ya fault that happened. im really sorry that it did though. maybe you should talk to someone about it and maybe it wont b as much pressure once u get it off ya chest.
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My boyfriend ( well ex ) broke up with me and said it's because "we didnt see eachother much anymore" Which sucked but I saw it coming. That night my 'best friend' called and told me how sorry she felt for me and then told me she saw him with his new girl friend. I was really upset... then the next day i found out that his new 'girl friend' was her ( my best friend ). She doesnt know that i know. What should I do? (link)
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im going to be very honest on this. you should tell her, and then kick her ass. friends just dont do that to each other, thats just wrong. i think you should drop her, b/c she is a backstabbing two faced whore. sorry, but i am honest
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me and this gurl have been friends for years snd know shes hittin on me like askin me out on dates and even spending the night which all the fellas know i love and dont get me wrong its nice she is really hot and is the works
wat do i do by the way im 15
Sincerly:The pimp (link)
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well i think you should go for it. if she likes you and you like her then there shouldnt be anything stopping you
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jessica, alright the same girl that i am in love wit and "cheated on" kinda well were not exactly together ne more but shes still gonna flip out when i tell her bout that but ne way shes back with her ex but she still talks to me and seems like she wants to be with me and i dont know what to do o and when i get off probation im gonna beat her b/f ass but she doesnt want me too. and last but definitely not least when are you gonna come over her so we can fuck? (link)
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well, seems to me,that girl is just trying to make you jealous by going back out with her ex. and she shouldnt flip out over it if you not together no more. i think you should just forget about her, she isnt worth it. AND ILL COME OVER AND FUCK ANYTIME U NEED ME TOO:)
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hey i have been kind of seeing this girl for about 6 months now and it kinda is comin to an end but i really love this girl and i had sex with another girl the other day. i dont know what to do should i tell her and hope she forgives me or what? (link)
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well you cant base your relationship on lies. your supposed to be honest.. honesty is the answer. and if you tell her, tell her the truth, just tell her that u love her and that ur sorry and hope she forgives you:) i hope i helped
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if im 13, gunna be 14 in 4 months, and i still haven't gotten my period, is that abnormal or sumthin, all of my friends have already started, and sum people i kno who are younger then me have started, my mom started when she was 11, my sister started when she was going into 7th grade, and im entering 9th, and still haven't started,is there sumthin wrong wit me?? (link)
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well u start either anywhere between 9-16 so its not abnormal
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JESSICA.. u kno me..im 19, and not to be concieded or anything, but i look good. i know this b/c i get told all the time, and girls are nuts over me ya kno. well i been with alot of girls like sexually, maybe goin on 20. i know i dont have anything nasty b/c i get checked 2 times a month. but last night i did my brothers gf, Lexis. and i dont know how to tell him b/c he really likes her alot. what should i do
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just hope he dont find out b/c it could lead to alot. or if he already knows, just tell him the truth.
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All of my friends are really worried about me because I cut myself. My parents don't know I still cut, but they know that I used to. I'm addicted to hurting myself and I don't want to stop. Everyone wants to change me but I refuse to. How do I get everyone to stop trying to get me to change? (link)
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look, your friends, just want what is best for you. and you need to get help.look, i used to know someone who cut their self, and no one got them the help they needed, and they eventually killed theirself, b/c she felt no one cared. so seriously, get into some help, because no one wants anything bad to happen to you.
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My husband is a sweet guy but sometimes I think he has his priorities mixed up. He was going to bring his friend flowers for her B-day, which I was fine with, but he found out she is having a few stressful problems and now wants to give her a spa package, which is like $60-$80. We are not poor, but money is a little tight, we already went to an expensive dinner with her, isn't that enough?
I would never spend that much even on my family. What makes me mad is that he is so determined to do something nice for her, but he wouldn't go out and get his mother a card for Mothers Day. Or for Valentines Day I got flowers a week before just because, but on the actual day, I was home sick with the flu and I got nothing, and we never did anything later. I know his heart is in the right place, but I wish he would put the people that really love him up higher on his priority list. Am I being selfish, or jealous, or am I right to be upset? (link)
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seems like your husband is more than friends with this women. and that the dinner was enough. and there isnt going to be anymore and if he dont like he needs to choose you or her. so put your foot down. and let him know about it.
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Okay..me and my two friends crack and smack have a band crack played the drums but then he decided he wanted to play the guitar so he got into it. so we found a new guy, sven, that was into the drums so we got him..he didnt even know how to play..he bought a really expensive drumset and that was a while ago and he's still not good. Well anyways we just originally wanted the band to be me, crack and smack. so crack went back to drums..we've had band practice with just us three and sven just doesnt ever bother getting better with the drums. so we hadnt heard from him in forever so we pretty much figured he was out of the band...but just recently he keeps calling up and telling us his thoughts on how OUR band should be doing..and he think hes still in it..what should we tell him????we dont want him in the band!!! (link)
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just tell him that hes not in the band anymore, that u found someone to replace him, and if you need him back you will let him know! just let him down gently, but try not to hurt his feelings
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does it hurt when u have sex? like a lot...or is it just emotional stuff that hurts? someone please tell me!!! ...lost...
p.s. im 14 year old female (link)
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umm yea, it hurts for a minute but after that its ok
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My and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 15 months and we have come close to have sex sooo many times... the only thing stopping us is that he doesnt have condoms. We both know that if he did, that we would probably end up doing something if we had the chance, but we are also both worried about pregnancy! Thats why we are hesitant about buying condoms.
I am 16 and he is 17.
What should i do? (link)
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lol, i have had that problem b4.. but maybe it wasnt meant for you to have sex. and if you want to have sex, then buy condoms, and be careful, make sure u take care of them and keep them at the temp they supposed to do. or you can always go to the clinic and get on birth control, and u can do this without a parent. hope that helped.:)
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mi best friend is rly sweet and nice but she acts all stuck up and recently these 2 boyz have liked her and wen we would be talking on the fone about shopping she would brng up the boy that liked her out of no where and i said that i think you like him 2 (but she says she dosent)and she got mad at me and not to brag or nething but i am much prettier than her.... y dont ne boyz like me? (link)
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well maybe they dont like you b/c ur shy or u just dont talk to them. i dont know you should talk to some of them.
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ive been really tired lately and the only reason i can come up w/ is because i dont go to sleep until about 3 or 4 every night. but the thing is i dont go to sleep until then because im never the least bit tired until then. and then i'll wake up at like noon and be exhausted until about 6 that evening and ill start waking up and then i cant go to sleep until like 4 and the whole cycle starts over. but i really need to be able to fall asleep earlier and wake up earlier. does anyone kno how i can do this? (link)
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just try going to bed around maybe 10 or 11.. at night..and if it dont work, then talk to a doctor, b/c there could b something wrong. so i hope i helped
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Ok, I personally think this is total bull shit but, there's this girl I went out with for 6 months and shit and shes a twin. She broke up with me a little bit ago, maybe about 4 weeks. Anyway, we broke up and shit, and then I had feelings for her sister. I mean like deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep serious feelings. I don't know if I should tell her or not say anything so their relationship won't be worried. What the hell should I do? (link)
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damn, that was alot of deeps... but maybe you should tell her but ask her not to tell her.. who cares what her sister says. just tell her u dont want it to ruin her and her sisters relationshi
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Hey! iight, i had this friend who was a girl who i used to like, and see, i didnt know she liked me, until i got a gf and she just came out and told me that she liked me, i still want to be her friend, but everytime i talk to her it seems awkward.what should i do? oh, and, all my friends and family met my gf, who i like alot, and they dont like her b/c they say she is a bitch. my cuzzin dont like her at all.. what should i do about that? (link)
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if you have ya gf that u like.. then whats the problem, and if she is a bitch to you then drop her, and talk to the girl who isnt a bitch.
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