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my parents are REALLY overprotective
Agh my parents are REALLY overprotective! And it sucks cause I can hardly go anywhere with my friends. I mean I can go out to like the mall and shops but idk and another thing is like i have NO way to get me to places my mom doesnt drive my dad works frum 630 am - 530 pm..and i can never have friends over..it just sucks cause shes ruining my life..im only 14 but i hate always havin my parents around.And everytime I talk to her about it she laughs she doesnt take me seriously. what can i do? And also its summer time here ->* What are sum fun things to do in the summer time with friends?
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Talk to her and make sure she knows your serious say you'd like it if she took what you say more seriously & not so lightly also that since she doesn't drive the least she can do is allow you to
have some friends over i'm sure there's no harm in doing that seeing as it will benefit you if you can't get a ride somewhere then maybe one of
your friends parents will be nice enough & drive you
where you need to go tell your mother she should think about getting her license then she'll be able
to drive i'm sure she isn't ruining your life worst things can happen to a person some fun things are going to the beach or the mall the movie theater being in the pool eat icecream eat popsicles color in a coloring book there's some suggestions(:
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Try getting out of the house more if you can. Try walking to the library or other close by places.
You do need to talk to your parents about this. They're not taking you seriously, though, which is bad of them. You could try leaving them a note, dorky as it may seem, but if they didn't take you seriously the first time, they might not take you seriously in the note.
I think what you should do is get BOTH your parents together in the living room or wherever, and make it very clear that this IS a serious situation. Have them sit down and ask them to not interrupt you while you're talking. Then tell them what you just wrote here, and talk it over. Tell them that they are being overprotective and you feel like you can't hang out with friends with them always around.
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you should tell your parents too backk off just a little bit!! i mean they are your parents they're just showing you how muchh they love you!! but i know it gets in the way!! tell them you have a life and you need to live it up!! and they're stoping you from doin it!! you could always go to the movies!! partybuss!! some of my guy friends drive... just drivin around is fun!! walkin around!! spendin time in a house!! rentin movies sit around and talk!! its all fun youuuuu just gotta live up everything gurll!!!! get away from all your parents bullshit and go somewhere!!! be funnn!!! take chancess!!! good luckk babe :)
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It seem as if you are stuck this time. You may just be too young to be doing the things that you want. You'll have your license soon enough and you can go wherever you like. In the mean time after you dad gets home maybe you could go to movies or have a friend's parent come pick you up and stay over?! I don't know.
For fun, do anything. Go play sports, go walk to a friend's house that lives close by, tan, work around the house lol, get on the computer..
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i know how you feel. my mom didnt let me do anything til i got at least 15. she is being protective b/c your so young and things are happening to girls ya age, that a mom dont wanna face at this point. but just give it a year or so, and she will maybe let u do stuff,if not, then ur mom has serious problems.
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With your mom, gain her trust, tell her what you're doing and what time you'll be b ack, and then even while you're there call and check in just to let her know what you're doing. Now getting there is a little more difficult. Maybe find someone who can drive and set something up with them, like tell them if they can take you some places sometimes you'll pay her/him money to drive you places. Something like that, or have friends pick you up.
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I know how u feel!I think You should try talking to them again.Make them take u seriously.Maybe if you have an older sister or brother that can drive,u could ask them.Some fun things i like to do are go swimming,go to the movies,go to the mall,have partys,have sleepovers...etc.
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