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okay my girlfriend and i were very close she was beautiful and funny and just an all around good girrl i love her so much 2 monthes ago she was killed some 1 came to her house murdered her and robbed her i feel really bad because the night that happened we got into a huge fight i cant stop blaming myself for wat happened i keep beatin my self up physically and mentally about this wat do i do i cant move on and its screwin uo my life
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Geez im really sorry.First of all you shouldnt blaim yourself.You couldnt help anything that happend.You should try to go out with your friends and take your mind off the subject.If you dont think about it so much you will move on eventually.
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its not your fault. people dont rob and kill people because they got into fights.. its clearly destiny. shes in a better place now and even tho yall got into a fight doesnt mean she stopped loving you.. dont forget that. just no she'll always be watching you and she wants you to be happy now. good luck <33 alex!
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Wow. *Hug*
I'm so sorry...You must feel so awful. You can't blame yourself for what happened to her. Some jerk killed her, and you had nothing to do with it. Even if you hadn't fought that day, she probably still would've been killed. I hate to sound like a pessimist because I'm not, but there's really nothing you could've done. You need to accept the fact that she's gone and move on with your life. She wouldn't have wanted you to screw up your life because you miss her, would she? I doubt she was that selfish.
Think of what she would want. She'd want you to be happy. She wouldn't want you to blame yourself, and make yourself sick over it, which is essentially what you're doing.
I hate to sound insensitive, but you've gotta snap out of it, honey. You've gotta keep going. Mourn for awhile, then let it go.
If you need someone to talk to, feel free to IM (SirenCytherea) or e-mail me. (DemonIre1024@hotmail.com)
My condolences.
-Siren =)
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all you have to do is think about the good times you and her had. and NO its not ya fault that happened. im really sorry that it did though. maybe you should talk to someone about it and maybe it wont b as much pressure once u get it off ya chest.
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Okay, this is going to sound like bad advice but it really helps. Go to a psychiatrist, a good one. They will listen to you and help you and by law they can't tell anyone what you say. Also you can talk to your parents about it. But try going to a psychiatrist it will help. Also nothjing you could have would have prevented it, it was predesinted so even though it happened know that it wasn't your fault and you couldn't have stopped it.
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don't beat yourself up about it, and keep telling yourself it's not your fault!! life is unfair sometimes like this time and im sure your girlfriend if she was sucha a good girlfriend would want you to know that she still liked you very much even if you got into a fight and that you should quit blaming yourself cuz thats not going to bring her back.. you just have to move on and think to yourself at least i had as many good memories as i did with her!!!!
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