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Hey girl! You seem really cool but anyways
ok i have a boyfriend im 14 and he recently
asked me to have sex with him. I REALLY want to (not to sound like a slut or anything) but i dont want him to go on and tell everybody and stuff i want to wait til summer though what
should i do, and since you are around my age (i think) i want to know what you would do in this situation
x0Lindsey
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thanx you so much! i added you as my favorite if ever check! i think i can really help on this topic it was never new for me so i have expirence ok...
lindsey, you have to first and foremost be able to hadle the emotions of having sex. because there are so many risks involved. i have had family and friends who went through this. tell your boyfriend seriously but not to scare him that you love and you trust your relasionship enough to have sex and that he needs to know that this is you and your boyfriends choice not his friends and no one else. but you have to realize that he might tell his friends which is normal trust me. you just have to trust him to tell people who wont tell others (if you break up most likely he will tell other people, and then chances are you will be called a slut but thats normal and most people our age are having sex protected and unprotected dont worry it will blow over.) so if i were you i would tell him what i told you about what to say and make sure he wont ditch you after you give him yourself.
BTW how long have you been going out with him? might make it easier to answer
TELL ME HOW IT WORKS OUT {you can email me i have AIM its all on my page (email adress and AIM!)
stay safe
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There is this kid whos 15 and I really like him..but he doesnt like me only because Im younger than him. He flirts w/ me and stuff when Im alone. Only when Im the only girl around. Then when hes around other girls, he totally acts like Im not there...what is up with this? I need help on this because I dont know whats up w/ him....(hes my cousins friend) (link)
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i had the same problem except his friends didnt like me so they convinced him that im ugly and prude (which im not hes just to dependent on his friends and do everything they say. he wont think for himself.) i dout you want that to happen so tell him that if your not worth it in private then your not worth it in public.
tell me how it works out ASAP!!! (im always on!)
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is it true that chocolate makes you break out??? tell me plz! i dont know if to give up chocolate to look better or not!! -i RaTe HiGh- (link)
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chocolate doesnt make you break out but having to much can give you a bad compleaction and make you have blemishes.
hope it helps{im always on}
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Okay, to put it plainly me and this guy have been really close for a long time and we ended up breaking up because of this really long story. But he was really close to me and all that jazz. We were friends before and he always knew I liked him but he was going out with his boyfriend at the time, and...yeah. Lets call his boyfriend Bob. Well Bob broke his heart a billion and one times and finally we started to date. I was the only one there for him he was the only one there for me. Well my ex begged for me back and I was stuck inbetween them, I had no clue what to do and I waited to long to decide on what I needed to do and by the time I did decide the guy dumped me. So we got in this huge fight, and didn't talk for a while and I was back with my ex. All this other stuff came out and blah blah blah about my ex and I started to try to talk to him(the guy who would not talk to me) But he wanted nothing at all to do with me. So I cried and all that shit over it but to make a long story short he was abused and shit, and he stayed in it to be here for me and now he can't get out because it is too late.
Well. Anyway...I moved on now and have a new boyfriend I care about a lot. It isn't love yet- I don't think my heart is actually ready to love another person at the moment. But the guy(lets just call him Ed) is really depressed and never talks to anyone and is always by himself and has gotten into bad stuff. I want to let go of Ed because I have someone new that is healing all of my scars. But I can't because...I made that promise to always be there for him because we were always there for each other.
So now I don't know what to do. I don't want to be with Ed again, I just want to help him and get him to talk to me but I seriously don't know how. I want to get over him completely and have no more feelings for him. But I don't know how. I'm sorry this is long and the question is not quite clear. But basicly. What do I do? All of this is my fault, and I can't let myself fully love my new boyfriend because he is always there, a little voice in the back of my head blaming me on what happened to him. (which it is my fault). I want to get over him. I want to get him out of my life because he knows how to get to me and everytime I help I always end up crying. Please.. Someone can you help me? I'm sorry this is really long. (link)
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i think you need to talk to ed about everything and how you feel and are starting to feel about this new guy. and how your ready to move on but tell him lightly so he wont try to commit sucide again and that your always there for him and stuff but you need to move on.
tell me how it works out. {im always on!}
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my boyfriend and i have been together for a very long time, we've talked about it, and we're ready to have sex. the thing is, we both think its disrespectful to do it at eachother's houses (especially because we always have people home) so where is a nice, romantic, PRIVATE, place to go... where we won't get caught? i honestly cant think of anything. be serious. and thanks. (link)
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maybe a hotel thats would be the best idea but if you dont want to spend money u would have to do it at one of your houses but you said you didnt want to do it at eachothers houses because you thought that is disreaspectful. so then you would have to do it at a friends which wouldnt be a good idea because then you would be seen as a slut or using your friend. remeber its a rollar coster of emotions and i hope your able to control them because it makes everything more of a risk.
stay safe ask again im always on
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Ive seen a lot of girls wear cute sweatpants that say PINK on the butt. What brand is it? Where can I get them and how much are they? Thanks for your help! (link)
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those are from victoria secrets and im pretty sure they are expesive.
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ok... well i have a boyfriend.. and well not alot of guys like me at my school (i mean like bc they are stupid im not like a nerd or anything!) and then like everyone was makin fun of us and stuff and when me and my friend went to his house he was all like flirting with her.. what should i do (I GOT PISSED!)
i rate 5's (link)
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you should tell him that this is upsetting you and you should never have to fight for your boyfriends attention. other wise hes not work it. trust me if he asked you out why do you have to fight for him. tell your friend also and how this is pissing you off.
tell me how it works out
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Ok, here goes. This might be a long one so please bear with me!
My friend Mike and I were at this school event called History Day (Science Fair except for history). I was bored, so I was hanging out with him and his friends. Then, his friend asked em if I like him and I said I don't know...and shrugged my shoulders. As I walked away, I looked back, and he was smiling at me. It's really obvious (though I haven't said it directly) that I really like him, but out fear of rejection, I semi-denied it. Do you think that I sent I like you vibes or I hate you vibes...and guys, what would you think of me now? Also, we flirt a LOT every day!! Thank you so much! (link)
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i sense i like you vibes because your leading him on so he wonders. especially if he flirts with you your just making him wonder what it would be like to date you and more.
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ok well im a 13 yr old female and i had my FIRST period on the 7th and now i am having it again on the 28 and i dont no if this is normal please help me and i am a virgin so i no im not pregnat
thx 4 ur help i ll hate 5's to EVERY1! (link)
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o thats soooo normal at the begining i got it one week and i didnt have it for another week but it came back the secound week after so dont worry about it
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Hello,
I'm that type of girl who never wears make-up at all. Some girls that I know look, well, scary without make-up, but I don't really look that bad, and I'm pretty critical of my looks. I was wondering, is there any make-up tips that you can give, such as how to apply eyeliner, what shades look good on my skin type. I'm pretty tan so my skin is fair. Is there anything I can apply so I don't look like a make-up junkie, but people notice I started to put on make-up? I don't want to put on too much make-up, I'm only 14. (link)
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i would wear a tan eyeshadow thats shimmery so that it makes your tan stick out I am the same way sumtimes and it looks alot better and you dont look fake and slutty.
hope it helps
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Hi, I like the group ICP and my girlfriend doesn't, she doesn't like it because it has killing in it, she hates it. Should I stop liking it or just keep listening to it, I just wanna make her happy, what should I do?? (link)
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you have to have your diffrence but just explore other thing just dont give yourself up for some1 else compleatly.
tell me how it works out
luv britt
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My question is, why does it seem like an overwhelming amount of the advisors on this web site are teenage girls? I'm serious about this. Is it because they have more time on their hands, have a stronger feeling of needing to give advice, need more advice.etc.etc? What do you think the reason is? (link)
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girls tend to go through alot at a younger age and mature alot faster becaus ei know i had to grow up at a young age because of things that i would talk to my older cousins alot. so i think they feel that they dont want to have other people go through what they have alreay
hope it helps
luv britt
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sorry if this is long, but there is this guy that i like and we used to go out. he now has a girlfriend but i dont care, i still like him. This one girl likes him, so someone asked if he would ever go out with her and he said no. but then this girl asked if he would ever go back out with me and he smiled nad said "umm .. i gotta get to class" so the next day the girl asked again and so he was like "umm .. i gotta girlfriend" so he didnt say yes or no. Do you htink i still have a chance? (link)
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watch out for what you do you dont want to ruin sumthing for him if your not the one
tell me what you decide
luv britt
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i want to have sex for the first time. what are some procosions to take. and does it hurt? i also heard that you bleed your first time is this true? thank you i rate well. (link)
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make sure you are ready emotionally, because sex is a rolar coaster of emotions. so make sure you feel safe and that you trust this person with your life because they could be risking your future. and it does bleed for girls and it most likely will hurt. so just think to yourself if you r ready at this point in your life to become mature and have sex.
tell me how it works out
luv britt
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Is it possible to be suicidal, but to not have attempted suicide...? (link)
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yes because it means that you thinking of attempting suicide. which means you r distressed or haveing a really hard time. friends r the best to talk to about it first so go to them. they r always there for you.
tell me how it works out
luv britt
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ok so i have liked this guy since aboit november...i see him at school, we talk online and have hung out a few times..when i first started to like him he liked sumone else so i didnt get in the middle of it but he knew i liked him..they broke up after a while..and i still liked him loli bring it up to him sumtimes and he told me that he used to like me a little bit but now he likes me just as a friend...i cant help it but it seems like alot of times he doesnt wanna talk about it or i feel like im annoyin him..this is so confusing...wut should i do (link)
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you just have to be there for him because you cant scare him away you have to comfort him and he will realize that hes lucky to have you and he will start to think of how he missed so much not going out with you.
tell me how it ends out
luv britt
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ok, my bf gets boners when im with him, i know this because hes told me ,i was just wondering if there is anything i could do? (link)
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it just means that you found a guy who really loves you or it means thats hes really perverted so if i were you i would just wait and see tell me if it gets out of hand and if you need my sn just ask for more help.
luv britt
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hey girl i really want to talk, do you have an aim sn? (link)
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yea its bellabebe206 ask me for advice if you need it
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hey it's me again britt, i was just wondering if you knew any cute ways i could play with him, w/o takin clothes or anything cuz im saving sex for marraige and stuff, but if you know any plz tell, i rate high, thanks (link)
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just prolong your makeout sessions and kiss but dont maeout and then go into a full makeout sessions thats what i would do if i was you. you can play with his hair and sit on his lap and stuff like that. just do sumthing new.
tell me how it works out {im always on!}
luv britt
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Me and my girlfriend just broke up and i was kinda glad that we broke up at first but noe i miss her really bad and i am not sure if she likes me so what should i do? (link)
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talk to her because chances are that she kinda lost part of your trust when you broke up so just talk about it. because talking is key in relasionships.
tell me how it works out {im always on!}
luv britt
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