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Hey girl! You seem really cool but anyways
ok i have a boyfriend im 14 and he recently
asked me to have sex with him. I REALLY want to (not to sound like a slut or anything) but i dont want him to go on and tell everybody and stuff i want to wait til summer though what
should i do, and since you are around my age (i think) i want to know what you would do in this situation
x0Lindsey
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thanx you so much! i added you as my favorite if ever check! i think i can really help on this topic it was never new for me so i have expirence ok...
lindsey, you have to first and foremost be able to hadle the emotions of having sex. because there are so many risks involved. i have had family and friends who went through this. tell your boyfriend seriously but not to scare him that you love and you trust your relasionship enough to have sex and that he needs to know that this is you and your boyfriends choice not his friends and no one else. but you have to realize that he might tell his friends which is normal trust me. you just have to trust him to tell people who wont tell others (if you break up most likely he will tell other people, and then chances are you will be called a slut but thats normal and most people our age are having sex protected and unprotected dont worry it will blow over.) so if i were you i would tell him what i told you about what to say and make sure he wont ditch you after you give him yourself.
BTW how long have you been going out with him? might make it easier to answer
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stay safe <3 britt
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