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♥ My name is Kelly. I`m 17 years old. I live in a small town in Arizona. I`m a born and raised Christian. I love God, my family, and my friends. I have been through alot throughout my teenage years like from boyfriends, girl drama, loosing mediate family members, moving all the way across the country, starting new schools - making new friends! You can ask me ANYTHING and I will try my hardest to answer your questions. Please, don`t ask stupid questions because i will give you a stupid answer back. You can also email me at xstarbrightbabix@yahoo.com, IM me at xostarbrightbaby, Or my quote site. link is on the right module. =]

advice

i was wondering how come when i go onto the myspace homepage it doesnt connect sometimes? when i try to sign in itwill say something like the user has been locked for 15 mins or something. everytime i try to sign on it goes to the page cannot be displayed? how can i fix this?

Someone could be trying to hack your password and myspace is trying to block the hacker. Try asking Tom or whoever you can on myspace. If they can find out, it possibly being a hacker - either get a new myspace, change your password, or take the risk of getting hacked. I`m sure the problem will be fixed or the hacker will eventually give up. Good luck.♥

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Ok! So my friend liked this guy(let's call him Edward)first. She liked him first and EDWARD asked her out first, but she didn't say anything because she didn't like him. Now I like him because we spend a lot of time with eachother. Now she likes him again and I'm not sure if he still likes her. What should I do. Please answer soon!

Since you`re not sure who he really likes, ask him if he likes her. If he doesn`t then she can`t do anything about it and can`t make him to have feelings for her. You can try telling her you like him and just wanted to let her know so she doesn`t hurt anyone. You really have to see what happens from there and try to work things out. Eventually, you should tell Edward you like him. Hope this helps. ♥

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i was wondering. how many pictures can photobucket hold?

It really depends on the pictures because when I used my account I could only get 3 pages and wouldn`t allow me to upload anymore. I`m sure the site has changed allowing more. ♥

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its okay to cut the hair 'down there' right with just like a siccors once a month or so because i'm scared to shave "there"

Yeah, It`s okay to trim. Just be careful you don`t cut yourself. ♥

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I'm switching schools, how long does it take for them to transfer stuff like.. when we'll i start? if my mom calls tmrw. [wednesday] will it take a week? =/ or less... or more. ):


thanksss loves.

It depends on the school really. Your mom should call your new school and schedule an appointment with a counsler. During the appointment your mom can fill out paperwork and schedule which day you would like to start attending it. Once you either already have or are going to transfer out of the old school just call and let them know. You can transfer within two days, but when I did I had the choice to decide when I wanted to start school. Hope this helps. ♥

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hey!

okay so i'm on a diet.
and i want to loose 20-30 pounds by april or so.


but do you have any work out ideas that will work really good also?
and do you think i could loose about 11 pounds every 2 weeks if i eat well and work out?

thank you so much!!

and how do i rate?

I don`t think you could loose that much in 2 weeks but you never know. Start walking/job about a mile everyday more if you choose too. Even when you`re watching tv do crunches, leg stretches, ect. Substitute junk foods with veggies/fruits. A helpful hint when eating --- drink water in between bites and drink lots and lots of water through out the day. Green Tea can help boost your metabolism. I forgot how to rate when a question is asked in a personal site but it`s ok if you don`t rate me. :) Hope this helps. ♥

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okay... so im 13 and my boyfriend just turned 14 he want to do setain thing that im afraid if i do i will get pregnant but the thing is i havent started my period so do think i will get pregant if i havent started my period.

Yes you can get pregnant, because you can start your period soon. You are way to young to be having sex. Think of the consequences. ♥

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I'm doing a project in English & I need to have a book. I'm having a lot of trouble finding one so I was hoping someone could help me out.

I'm interested in books like "Go Ask Alice" & things about teenage things that I can relate to. It has to be around 300 pages. I don't want Gossip Girls or anything like that, so does anyone have any good suggestions?

Thank you so much. I'm going to the library tomorrow so help before then would be appriciated.

I recently just read Lovely Bones by: Alice Seabold, it`s more of a suspence and a murder book but it has such a good ending, it`s approx. 400 pages. Another great book is Twilight by: Stephenie Meyer. The book is unbelievably amazing. It`s one of those books you CAN`T put down, it`s either 400-500 pages. Hope this helps ♥

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Im 15. in 9th grade. like ALLL of my friends have had sex.. its so weird im like the only one who hasnt. Im perfectly fine with it, im waiting for a serious long relationship where im in love to do it.. but all my friends keep getting hurt, been very close to gettin pregnant. Guys around here treat girls like shit.. there's sooo lil guys that wont use a girl... but anyways, all my best friends who are jus tlike me like wanted to wait a long time to have sex, are having sex in like one month with there sweet talkin boyfriend, there boyfriends are just sayin thing sthey wanna hear to make them think they're in love. I know its not my business, but i loveee my friends to death, and i look out for them. cause im older than all of them.. what can i do, they're too young and ruining their morals over these fake playin guyss....

It`s good that your a good friend and there for them. Also that you know for sure you want to wait and not do it to "be in" with everyone else. The most you can do is try to talk to your friends, warn them, and be there for them. Sometimes people choose to not listen to other people and learn the hard way then after realizing you were right. But being there for them let`s them know you will always be there and your a great friend. :) ♥

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okay so

im 14/f
theres this guy at school that i really like. i flirt with him all the time, and it seems like he flirts back. i really like him but i know he doesnt like me. what should i do? i really want to go out with him and i really want him to like me. and dont say anything like "wear cooler clothes" or anything like that, becuase i dont want to be anything but me.

please help me!!

Since you didn`t give an age for him, I`m guessing he`s older than you. First, try to talk to him (not really flirting). Get to know him as a friend. If he doesn`t seem interested in you then maybe he`s wanting more. Give it awhile and see how things go. Hope this helps. ♥

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basically i like this guy who has a new girlfriend and he just found out i like him and he likes me too..but he has a girlfriend

i dont want to be the kind of girl who breaks people up but how do i make him see im the better choice? sorry if that sounded conceited.

if you watch the oc, im looking for something along the lines of seth declaring his love for summer on top of a coffee cart kind of thing. something brave.

i want to show him he means something to me.

ideas?

If you know for sure he likes you like that then talk to him. Try to hint to him that if he does like you then he should end things with the other girl by telling her "he doesnt like her that way". You don`t want to be the one getting in between or being the other "girl" and him cheating on his girlfriend with you. You might not have to go all out telling him you`re the better choice, just wait for awhile until he does the right decision. Hope this helps. ♥

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everytime Im w/ her with no one around she is always throwing sexual geustures, ie hand near my dick, un buttoning my shirt, her shirt and showing me her thong, yeah i get hard around her but I dont want to have sex with her becuase of my religon. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!

Tell her to stop and you don`t feel comfortable with her doing that. If she doesn`t stop, then stop hanging out with her alone. Good luck. ♥

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can you get an STD from giving a bj if the person youre giving it to is not sexually active?!?
thankss

No, because he`s never been sexually active. But to be on a safe side, have him wear a condom. Hope this helps. ♥

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hey.


so theres this boy..
and i like him a lot and i have liked him for a really long time..and this summer we hung out a lot and had a boyfriend and girlfriend type of relationship..but we weren't going out.

then he completley stopped talking to me and is kind of mean to me and now he really likes this other girl..

and i was just wondering if you can give me any advice on how to get over him because i really, really want to..because i'm just so emotionally hurt..

thank you so, so much! ♥

First, you need to tell yourself you deserve so much better and he`s a jerk for doing that to you. Try to go out & meet other guys and do things you enjoy doing - keeping yourself distracted & happy. Don`t go back to him because he might hurt you again. Even if you can`t find a new guy, wait for the right one to come. :) ♥

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last year i hung out with the wrong crowd. they were all sluts and they were really mean to me sometimes. im not friends with them anymore, but one of the other girls i was friends with then was left by them. shes changed now and shes trying to become my friend again. she was so mean to me and she hated me just because they told her to. [i know this because she told me.] we used to be really close..like best friends...until she took their side. shes really being nice now, and she said sorry and shes just trying to gain my trust again. and its not like its only been one fight we've had...its been a lot. but now that she was left by them shes changed. should i be friends with her again...even though all my new [and way amazing-er] friends tell me that i really shouldnt trust her...or should i listen to what they say and stay away?

You could try to give her a second chance. But just be careful because if her friends told her to leave the "crowd" then maybe she's looking for new friends and will try to use you. If you truely don`t want to be firends then don`t be. Your now friends are better friends to you & she doesn`t deserve to be your friend. Hope this helps. ♥

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Hi, well.... me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months. it's been great. except he had sex with another girl, and that bugs me. Then, we were talking last night... and i was joking and asking aboug if he fingured or gave oral to her.. and he said yes to both i couldn't believe it! What if that girl had a STD or something? I mean.. I was really upset.. so then I asked would you of told me if I hadn't asked you about having sex with the other girl.. and he said I don't know... because he didn't tell me about oral or fingering.... which i would obviously tell someone because the person you're going out with has a right to know... why can't I get over everything and put it in his past and leave it there? Why does it bug me so much? What do I do? My age is 15 and gender is female it said you have t o say that

It happend in the past and if he doesn`t talk to her anymore then you shouldn`t feel jealous. Just because he did those things to her doesn`t mean she has an STD or something. If he had sex while you two were together and cheated on you.. then you need to get rid of him. It`s good to know who his partners are/were. But if you feel like you want to be safe, have him tested if you are currently sexually active. When he`s done with test you will probally feel ALOT better. Hope this helps. ♥

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i'm a female and i am 16 and the guy is in a grade above me. ok so this guy and i met through my ex boyfriend and hung out a lot and then we were in the same drivers ed class and kinda spent a lot of time together. Then i started liking him. i was close friends with my ex and all his other friends so we kept hangin out and stuff and i guess you can say we had a thing for awhile, but then on halloween he went to a party and started liking this other girl and for awhile he thought he could do both but then gave up on what we had. the girl doesnt like him but they spend a lot of time together and they are going to prom, even though she wanted to go with someone else. We barley talk now and when we do we can barley have a conversation. i try but he puts not effort with those pathetic one word answers. Should i still be mad or should i try to give him another chance, even though it doesnt seem like thats what he wants people say it is?.

If he`s barely talking to you, then he doesn`t deserve a second chance. If he started to like another girl then maybe he`s just a player. Give it time, try to talk to him again and see if things can change between you two again like before. But if he`s not making an effort, move on & get over it him cause you deserve better. ♥

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ok so me and boyfriend have been going out for a while now and we both want to have sex but im scared that i will get pregnant i cant let this happen and hes really cool about not doing anything but i want to im jst kinda scared.

You`re not ready yet. It`s good that your thinking of the consequences first & he`s waiting & laid back about the situation. Just wait till your ready. :) ♥

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which tooth paste makes your teeth white and make your gums really healthy

Colgate luminus works really good. I`ve tried it before and saw a big difference. :) ♥

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If you shave your vagina
is it better to use cold or hot or warm water?
thank s

Warm water. It opens the hair pores more, making the hair softer. Using cold water will give you goosebumps and may cause razor burn from the razor cutting too close to the goosebumps. Hope this helps. ♥

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