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boy problems.....


Question Posted Saturday January 20 2007, 8:13 pm

basically i like this guy who has a new girlfriend and he just found out i like him and he likes me too..but he has a girlfriend

i dont want to be the kind of girl who breaks people up but how do i make him see im the better choice? sorry if that sounded conceited.

if you watch the oc, im looking for something along the lines of seth declaring his love for summer on top of a coffee cart kind of thing. something brave.

i want to show him he means something to me.

ideas?


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xostarbrightbaby answered Sunday January 21 2007, 10:22 pm:
If you know for sure he likes you like that then talk to him. Try to hint to him that if he does like you then he should end things with the other girl by telling her "he doesnt like her that way". You don`t want to be the one getting in between or being the other "girl" and him cheating on his girlfriend with you. You might not have to go all out telling him you`re the better choice, just wait for awhile until he does the right decision. Hope this helps. ♥

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DefinedEyes answered Saturday January 20 2007, 10:17 pm:
You just said there yourself,
that you dont want to be the kind of girl who breaks people up. Dont take this in the wrong way, because I mean it in your best interest. Let their relationship work, let them be together, because if he is supposed to be with you, they will eventually break up, and you will have your chance. Let her (them) have their chance.

And as for the declaring how much he means to you, shows like "The OC" are super duper cute and all, but things dont usually work like that. And in your case, if you did that, feelings might get hurt, most likely yours.

But anyways good luck,
good things come to those who wait :)

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