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I'm lost
Hi, well.... me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months. it's been great. except he had sex with another girl, and that bugs me. Then, we were talking last night... and i was joking and asking aboug if he fingured or gave oral to her.. and he said yes to both i couldn't believe it! What if that girl had a STD or something? I mean.. I was really upset.. so then I asked would you of told me if I hadn't asked you about having sex with the other girl.. and he said I don't know... because he didn't tell me about oral or fingering.... which i would obviously tell someone because the person you're going out with has a right to know... why can't I get over everything and put it in his past and leave it there? Why does it bug me so much? What do I do? My age is 15 and gender is female it said you have t o say that
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It happend in the past and if he doesn`t talk to her anymore then you shouldn`t feel jealous. Just because he did those things to her doesn`t mean she has an STD or something. If he had sex while you two were together and cheated on you.. then you need to get rid of him. It`s good to know who his partners are/were. But if you feel like you want to be safe, have him tested if you are currently sexually active. When he`s done with test you will probally feel ALOT better. Hope this helps. ♥
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