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hey my name's Sam~* i'm 14. i'm a brunette w/ brown eyes. i'm a cheerleader, & gymnast. i run track, and play volleyball. i have awesome *&* crazy friends that i love very much. i'm pretty outgoing once you get to know me. i like shopping, going to the movies, hanging out w/ friends, stuff like that. i'm great at giving advice, bc i've gone through a lot of stuff that you guys are going through. i'm a really sweet person, and a good listener! so don't be shy, ask me a question and i'll try my best to give you a good answer! and if you ever need more help, feel free to IM me on AIM anytime=)


Some More About Me



[a]ge: 14
[b]irthday: October 18th, 1990
[c]olors: pink, purple, blue
[d]ream boy: blonde hair, blue or green eyes, built, smells good, muscles..sweet, romantic..all that good stuff :-P
[e]yes: brown
[f]riends: they know who they are =)
[g]rade average: A's and B's
[h]air color: brunette
[i]ntersets: cheerleading & gymnastics
[j]obs: besides going to school, babysitting..
[k]razy: lol, sometimes..
[l]ocation: Pennsylvania
[m]aritral statis: single, for now
[n]ame: Samantha aka Sam
[o]bsession: the movie "The Notebook"
[p]izza: stuffed crust
[q]uote: have you ever wondered which hurts more? saying something and wishing you hadn't..or saying nothing, and wishing you had.
[r]ace: white
[s]ong: Candyshop -50 cent ft. Olivia
[t]ell something about you: easily hurt, and easily jealous.
[u]nbelievablly embarrising moment: the bottom of my pants ripped and i didn't notice, so i walked around school like that until one of my friends told me..and now i look back and laugh at it=)
[v]ery best thing about me: i'm a really good friend.
[w]orst thing about me: not always fully honest
[x]tremly darin stunts: well, i went down a big snowboarding run thing and i didnt know how to snowboard..ending=me on my ass
[y]ummy food: hmmm, prob. any junk food, lol
[z]odiac: Libra

**want to know anything else, just ask me!:-)




~*ratings *&* feedbacks are appreciated..xoxo

advice

ok my dad has a girlfriend... thats ok with me....but like everyone hates her me , my bro, everyone except my dad... i have told him about it so many times but he doesnt listen and he wont break up with her....am i supposed to hurt my dads feelings and lik not hang around her... the only problem is that my dad is lik never home, so i only get to c him wen i c her...i really dont think its fair....i need help this is ruining my life!

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i need serious help

you need to sit him down and talk to him about it. there must be sometime that he's around and she's not. no matter what he's still your dad, and if u tell him you really need to talk to him, he'll listen. tell him all your feelings and that you think that he's spending too much time w/ her and not you. if your dad is a great guy, trust me, he'll understand. now for the girlfriend. is there a reason why you and your brother hate his girlfriend? i mean if your dad likes her then she can't be all that bad. dont be so quick to judge her, give her a chance. she can't be all that bad, who knows? maybe you'd even end up become close w/ her. hope my advice helps~*

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Ok so me and my boyfriend broke up like over 5 months ago and after that things just went downhill with our friendship, i mean i tried staying friends with him n talking to him but he didnt seem to want to. So like over the past week everytime I see him, I always get a hug and he's always talking to me in the halls. Then I was at my friends house and he just randomly showed up. I thought I was over him, since he never talked to me but now that he's talking to me and being all nice, I can't stop thinking about our past. I dont know what to do.

seems to me like he still likes you. he probably didn't talk to you at first bc it was akward for him since you broke up. and it sounds like if your thinking about your past together, then maybe you still like him to. i'd keep talking to eachother, and hang out etc. and see if you start to have strong feelings for eachother again. this is one of those things where you just have to wait and see what happens.

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okay well i have this problem..there is this guy and i have been going out with him for about 2 months..and i went to a party with him last weekend..and for some really weird reason..it was really weird to be around him..like i didnt want to go out with him ne more..and hes really nice and all..but i keep comparin him to my ex bf..who is going out with my friend..and he was like my very first love..and i just cant get over him! and its irritating..well anyways back to the current boyfriend situation..he hasnt talked to me whatsoever this week..so im thinkin that i should breakup with him cuz i dont think he likes me ne more..and i dont think i like him ne more..

so here are my questions..should i break up with him? and if so how should i do it (like what should i say) and HOW CAN I GET OVER MY EX! lol cuz i really want to..but its just always coming back to haunt me

my personal opinion is that you should break up w/ him. you should never be going out w/ someone that is weird for you to be around. and if you have feelings for your ex still, then it's not fair for ur boyfriend that you have feelings for another guy. you should avoide breaking up with him in public, bc it could be embarrassing for him, so i'd do it somewhere alone-ish. just sit him down and explain to him how you feel so he understands why your dumping him. and tell him that you still wanna be friends and stuff, and if he's a nice guy, and u explain all ur reasons, he should understand. now as for your ex situation. if you can't get over him, maybe it's because your not supposed to. try talking to him as friends and see if anything ends up happening between you. if your comparing him to all your new boyfriend then you deff. still really like him. but you said he's going out w/ your friend..so like i said just talk to him as a friend and see what happens from there. just don't start to get all flirty flirty w/ him, you wouldnt want to hurt your friendship w/ the other girl. hope my advice helped!~*

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