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Does anyone kno a free program I can download that helps you load songs/ringtones on to a RAzor V3 phone? I have usb cord for it, but whenever i connect the phone nothing happens..
thanks!

http://www.opera.com/products/mobile/operamini/phones/?phone=motorola_razr_v3
try that site, it might work!
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How do you make a good natural conversation?

start a conversation about anything that you or someone else is interested in or just something silly as long as it keeps them intertained and not boring
hope i answered your question!
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what are some other great pop punk bands? i like the academy is, matchbook romance, cute is what we aim for, taking back sunday, something corporate, motion city soundtrack, hellogoodbye and all that stuff. if you give me at least 5 good bands then ill rate!

panic at the disco, all american rejects, AFI, click five, the fray, nickelback, the killers, The Scene Aesthetic, Taking Back Sunday, shiny toy guns, fall out boy, hawthorne heights, plain white tees, hellogoodbye

hope i helped!
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okay this may be kinda confusing, but bear with me, thanks! okay i was wondering when your tanning, is it the amount of sun that hits you that gets you darker or is it how strong the sun is? because yesterday when i was tanning, i thought that how strong the sun hits you would make you darker cause i could like feel like on me.. if you know what i mean? so anyone know? and thanks, ill rate 5's if you helped!

it depends on how much sun you get

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My hair is long, dry, brittle, dull and has split ends. I want it to be soft, smooth, shiny and healthy. How do I go about getting that? Any product recommendations? I'll rate 5's

get a haircut and if you go to the professional hair salons buy one of their hair products cuz its way better then the hair products peoples sell in stores

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Okay so im friends with these 3 gerls that are friends with this kid.and this kid "raped" my friend and i dont know if i really believe her only cause this kid is wicked nice and like i dont think that he can hurt anyone cuz he is soo sweet. I hung out with him last friday and i like him as a friend and i think he increadibly niice. and i dont knoe if i should keep hanging out with him or if i shouldnt.. i dont want to loose my friend cuz she will find out sooner or later that i hung out with him and then she'll be even more mad and i dont want to tell her that i hung out with him..What should i do..
Should i tell her or should i keep it a secret and should i be firends with him or not/?

you probably shouldnt hang out with him alone. if you do hang out with him have some other close friends come along with you too so that you'll be safe incase if he does start a move on you. and you should just tell ur friend the truth about you and him hanging out.

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My friend is going to kill herself next Friday.

She seems happy about it.

I've tried to change her mind, but that didn't work.

She doesn't eat, she's an insomniac, and she is very stressed.

She's been to shrinks but she says that they were a waste of her time.

She hates her parents because she can never talk to them, I guess.

I don't know what to do.

tell an adult, trust me it'll help. either her parents or a counslor. the best way to help her is to get a counslor to talk to her and maybe her counslor can talk to her parents then maybe her parents will understand how she feels.

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I've known my bestfriend since 7th grade (we're now both juniors) and we're the closest two friends can get and I love her to death.


Our freshman year, we'd always hear about this girl Meagan and how slutty and bitchy she is. Meagan is a grade ahead of us. Well, 2nd semester of freshman year my bestfriend had a class with her but only for about a week because she got switched out.


Last year, my sophomore year, I was in a class with her for the whole year and at fisrt I didn't like her because of the things I've heard but we started talking and she wasn't that bad. Yeah, some of the rumors were true but she was still a good, fun friend. Now we're really good friends. Not as good as my bestfriend and I, but nevertheless, friends.


So whenever I'm with my bestfriend, and I talk about Meagan, she gives me this disgusted look and talks smack about her. I tell her to shut up and not talk about people she doesn't know and then that's the end of it.


Meagan and I are going to a concert in July and I asked my bestfriend if she wanted to come with us because I know she likes that band. Well, she told me that if Meagan is going, she isn't.


How can I get her to stop being so judgmental and at least try to actually meet her?

well, maybe your bestfriend doesnt like meagan for a reason and she probably doesnt want you to know. but you should also respect ur friends desicion if she doesnt like meagan then theres nothing you can do to make her change her mind. but sometimes it'll help if you ask why she really doesnt like meagan and maybe if you can get them both to settle things then maybe your friend will change her mind and will probably like meagan better.

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I have these two friends and they both lie at times. To me at times...and well one day they were asking weight. And I said I'm 160 and she said 120. now she's pretty fat and she can't in no way be 120. I was really stunned at her effort to lie. I don't want to confront her but she makes me feel like i can't trust her again.

What do I do? help me please cause it relly hurts me she lied.

just talk to her about it, if you keep it bottled up inside and not tell her how you feel about her lying then she'll continue lying more to you. if you just talk to your friend about it then she'll understand and she'll start to be more truthful

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Well, I have this friend. He's not super close, but he is a good friend of mine. We have had a lot of talks about smoking pot when several of my friends started and I said "no one thinks it's a big deal anymore and I don't get it." He said "I still think it's a big deal and I think it's pointless and would never try because I would be too scared." Then, he showed up to my friend's party high and I don't get it. I thought he meant that and I haven't had the chance to talk to him yet. I'm really upset about it, and I don't know what to say to him. Does anyone have any idea how to deal with something like this? Like what to say to him?

[keep in mind we're only in 8th grade]
thanks soo much for any help I get !

i know this would be hard for you but the best way to help your friend is to get a counslor to talk to him. my friend used to have the same problem and i got a counslor to talk to her and it actually helped! its the best way to help your friend.
hope i helped.
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I have always had a problem with friends. I used to have some reallygood friends but we had a huge fight and we aren't friends anymore. Right now I have only like 7 friends but only two really close ones. My question is how can I make some more close friends? I am going to be in highschool there and people keep telling me well you can make more friends in highschool and stuff. There is one problem though...I live in a small town with only one junior high that goes into te highschool. I basically already know everyone.Where do you think I could meet friends outside of school?

Thanks in advance

well, if you wanna make more friend all ya have to do is find some peoples you think you could get well along with. if you wanna meet more peoples outside of school, usually its easier making/finding friends online such as Myspace.com and if you find peoples you know on that site you can start conversations with them and once you get to know someone well you can become great friends with them. it worked for me so it'll probably work for you too.
hope i helped!
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Does anyone have any sugggestions
*on how to show my boyfriend I really do care
*ways to make him happy when he's sad
*and ways for me to be more affectionate when I'm with him (expecially at school)

I know these may sound stupid, but I really need some help. So any help would be appriated. Thanks

just make sure you make him feel comfortable around you. myabe plan sumthing for the both of you over weekends and the more you two are together you'll get to understand more about each and he'll be more comfortable with you even if he's with his friends or whoever.
hope that answers ur question!
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does anyone know any good websites other then myspace, livejournal, xanga, advicenators ect. that are fun??

5s for anythingg

i know one thats way popular then myspace now, its mycrib.net. its new and you can upload up to 250 images and u get friends very quick and easy!
have fun!
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ok so ...

theres this goth/skater/punk/whatever the freak he is. well for the past few months he has been seriously flirting with me. problem: he and i both know that i already am seeing someone. a while ago we went to this play out in the city. of course i had to sit next to him because we sat near each other on the bus. on the bus he kept looking back and staring into my eyes and stuff like that. then when we got to the play and everyone was settled in their seats, the lights went down. i was watching the play and then i felt him touching me kind of uncomfortably like all over my legs and arms. after a while it was bothering me so i would slap his hand because he was annoying. but then every five minutes or so he would start stroking me. after the thing was over i was like whatever and we left.

now in school he comes to my locker every morning and afternoon even if my bf is standing there (my boyfriend gets pissed off too). also, the guy always wants a hug in the halls and sometimes makes sexual comments online. in 4th period (language arts), he always tries to catch my eye and when he does, he makes very ... innapropriate body language. if you know what i mean =/

he's in my social studies class. i think it's normal for him to act like that to girls because theres another girl he tanterizes in my ss class and even a group of his friends he has who like his behavior at lunch. he likes touching our hair and hes always finding a way to touch someone -- and one time he even licked my hand. but you have to see that most of the times he jokes and plays around. but im not sure. gosh does that even make sense?

he's nice and makes me laugh sometimes but what kind of friendship is this?

what can i say when i just want him to quit it?

ok first off, thats sexual harassment and its totally illegal and if he does that again you should punch him in the face and kick him in the nuts really hard! he's a sick freak and if he doesnt stop you should report him to the school.
hope i helped!

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There is this girl i like at school and im not sure if she lkes me back i've asked her out twice and on the second time i asked her she said "...errr well not right now sorry" what is that supposed to mean plz help i rate 5s. btw this question would be better off answered by a girl

im sorry to say this but she doesnt like you. it'll probably be better if you try to be friends with her for awhile and if you guys become better friends then she'll know what you're like and she'll probably start to like you better!
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what do you talk about with your friends or your crush? Im at a loss b/c im not that interesting but im not mean or anything either. what can i do to change this?

you can talk about anything at all. talk about anything that interests them or you. you can talk about your teachers, and classes or whatever. just don't go on with the same discussion too long cuz then it'l get boring.
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Lately I've realized that I haven't been eating as much. I'll be hungry but I just won't eat, maily because I don't want to eat. I am a very self-conscious person and I will willingly admit it. I know being anorexic is bad but sometimes I just can't help not eating. Sometimes after I eat, it doesn't matter how much it was, I fell really bad about it and regret eating. So do you think that I'm anorexic?

if you want to know if you're anorexic, everytime after you eat you'll throw up.sorry, thats all i know but if you want to make sure if you're anorexic or not you might want to go to the doctor.

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this year, i feel that i have started to change. I notice that my friends are best friends with other people and it's harder for me to understand them. We hardly talk like we used to and everyone seems to not find me as "interesting" as before. what's going on with me?

nothings wrong with you. seriosly, friends grow apart all the time. they've prbably met new peoples and they've probably hung out with those peoples more so they just forgot about you. But if you want, you should try to talk to your friends and see whats happening.
hope that answers your question!

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ok my name is sarah I am 13 and I have a huge question, ok now listen I have had a crush on this guy for about 2 months tops and I have been friends with this grl named carisis for only like 2 years because we have never been friends before but now we are, anyway she knew I liked this guy and then she went behind my back at the park and MADE OUT WITH HIM and so yeah of course i got all mad at her and yeah I didnt talk to him but i did forgive her and we have still been friends but now i have a new boyfriend and she juked on him all the way down at a school dance and told my other friend not to tell ME! SO I am like who the hell can i trust anymore, is she really a friend cause i know that my friends who tell me everything and I can trust and have known for 8 years are my best friends but yeah oh and I did a really slutty thing too because of "her" and I feel really guilty cuz none of this wouldnt have happened if she told me that the "guy" was using me so she is basically acting like a self centered brat saying that i am screwed and everything ugh there is another big story behindall of this but yeah so please tell me if i should stay with my boyfriend and trust my friend anymore please!!!

if she did all of those things to you then you shouldnt be her friend! And if your boyfriend did anything with her liking making out or w/e then you shouldnt go out with him anymore.

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My best friend's birthday is this Thursday. I want to get/make her something really creative. She loves rent, wicked, dancing, and singing. What should I do?

it sounds like she loves music so i guess you should get her a CD that she really wants but doesnt have yet

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