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whats happening to me?
this year, i feel that i have started to change. I notice that my friends are best friends with other people and it's harder for me to understand them. We hardly talk like we used to and everyone seems to not find me as "interesting" as before. what's going on with me?
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hey. i can definetly relate to that. a lot of my past best friends whom i still talk to but we are not as close as we used to be. nothing is wrong with you and every girl around the age of 13/14 change. [emotionally and physically.] so don't blame it on yourself and im sure your friends are probably all going through the same changes you are and maybe in a year or so it'll start to get easier with the relationship with your friends. in the meantime, don't rush things and hopefully everything will fall in it's place. you could also maybe try to make some new friends and see if that helps. ;)
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nothing is going on with you, your friends are just descovering new friends as you should and will, it's nothing to fear, friends come in and out of your life like waiters in restaurants
hope this helps
xshandix
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nothings wrong with you. seriosly, friends grow apart all the time. they've prbably met new peoples and they've probably hung out with those peoples more so they just forgot about you. But if you want, you should try to talk to your friends and see whats happening.
hope that answers your question!
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Don't worry! It's really tough but there comes a point in time when you and your friends personalities, etc start changing. This happens to everyone, as you get older your interests, etc change. Every one goes through this, so don't blame yourself, there's absolutely nothing wrong with you! I suggest trying to meet new people, join clubs, athletic teams, or something and you'll start to meet new people that DO find you interesting and fun. So try and stay confident and outgoing and try to meet new people. ^_^
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Nothing is going on with you. This happens to everyone, seriously. Dont worry, you grow apart from alot of friends you thought youd be friends with forever. You should make new friends and have a good time. Dont think that its all you with this subject, its everyone. People change. Dont worry, soon youll make other friends that youre going to be close with and they will definatly find you "interesting". Good luck ;)
-beckss
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I don't think it's all you. Friendships have a way of changing. We have all moved apart from people who we thought at the time were our best friends. If you don't feel warm and fuzzy about these people, move on..and make new friends. Life is too short to get stuck in any relationship that doesn't build you up.
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You're growing up. As people grow, they change; it's not only you and it's perfectly normal. My best friends changed frequently all through high school and that just helped me get to know more people.
Talk to people you don't know and get to know them. You'll find a lot of people who'll find you just as interesting as you find them. :)
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