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teacher helppp
ok so i sound like an idiot but i really look up to my science teacher not in some perverted way but shes always there for anyone and shes a great teacher. ok so ive been having a lot of problems with some of my ex best friends and their friends with threats and stuff... ive also been getting blocked calls and texts threating to spread rumors and that stuff do you think its a good idea to ask her advice on this? my friends think its a really good idea and theyre worried about it, they said that if i dont do it then they will because its really scary. but i dont want to sound like a loser and i dont know how to ask. please help!
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Hi. Well what you are going through is pretty scary. ...How to ask for help? Well one thing you could do is ask her what she would do if she were in that situation. Though it is very likely she may suggest getting your parents or principal involved or talking to the kids therself or getting your parents and their parents to talk. I'm not telling you to discourage you from telling her. I am sure she will give you good advice and undersatnds you perfer to handle the situation yourself. However, whatever she suggests, it seems you can rely on her judgement since as a teacher and having been a student herself, she will know what shoukd be done, and what is and is not necessary. Maybe she'll just suggest you to talk to your friends. Whatever she suggests you know she only wants what is best for you and besides, a suggestion can't hurt. It's good that you talk to someone that you can trust and understands you and will understand the situation. Oh, and you won't look like a loser. You will look like a real person that asks for help because in the real world people sometimes have problems and if they are mature enough they ask for help.
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I think it's really good that you have an adult that you trust besides parents, so I would definitely talk to her. Doing so will really help and make you feel better. It's also important for teachers to know if you're having problems in school.
And by the way, you don't sound like an idiot AT ALL . :)
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You do not sound like an idiot, or a loser.
I happen to know that a lot of teachers, really care about their students, and in a way expect students to come to them with problems.
I have gone to teachers before and asked advice, and they were really willing to talk to me about it.
So, I think it is a good idea to tell her, you will probably get some good advice, and she will tell you what you can do.
Well Good Luck.
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You should tell someone, and if you don't feel like you can go to your parents or a school counselor then she's probably the next best person to talk to. However, I always think it's better to keep personal problems out of the classroom if at all possible.
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You won't be considered a loser by anyone who matters.
If you can't talk to your parents, and you really should tell them too, It is a good idea to talk to any adult you feel comfortable talking to. If your teacher is that person for you...talk to her. :)
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