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what do you talk about with your friends or your crush? Im at a loss b/c im not that interesting but im not mean or anything either. what can i do to change this?
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you can talk about anything at all. talk about anything that interests them or you. you can talk about your teachers, and classes or whatever. just don't go on with the same discussion too long cuz then it'l get boring.
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I have the same problem with my friends too sometimes.
My advice is to talk about things that interest them. Sometimes if you don't think you're that interesting it's better to just let them talk. That way you can hear about what interests them and learn more about that so maybe you can BOTH talk about that. Also, do activities or watch movies or something with them. That will give you something to talk about for the day, and you might be able to bring it up later. And if you have any classes witht hem that's even better. It opens up a whole new range of topics. You can talk about your teachers, an assignment, the class in general, or school in general.
As for talking to your crush. Try talking about something that isn't as friviolous as make-up (if you're a girl) or football (if you're a guy), but not too deep either. Show them that you're intellignet but you're still fun to be around. Talk about some of the things you notice they're interested in to start a conversation. If you notice they're interested in basketba;; for example, you can either learn something about basketball, or ask them a question to start a conversation. Also, if they are in your classes you can talk to them about teachers, assignments etc.
Hope it helps!
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Talk about anything... controversial topics are always good. It gives you a chance to share your opinions and makes you look like the interesting person you are! Also, it will show your crush how smart and engaging you are :)
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Talk about what's around you! Compliment something he/she is wearing, or ask them about how their week has been.
If you have classes together, bring up an assignment, or talk about some new artist.
Compliments and a smile are your number one tools, though.
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think about what he likes to do or what subject you are taking together anything that both fo you have in common, even a stupid question on h/w or something you already know can tkae you somehwhere else in a conversation. Ask questions! You don't have to do much of the tlaking and yet he is still intrseted, also people love to talk about themselves so ask what are they up to this weekend? or how was spring break? or how is spring break going? Make comments! Say what's on your mind. Be honest, be open, be confident about yourself and BE YOURSELF.
It also helps to think that this guy is the luckiest guy in the world to be talking to me, this helps you have that good state of mind and be really confident of yourself. Imagine yourself lauighing and having a good time and just be loose and trust whatyour tlaking about, don't let him put you down.
Then with your friends, just be tottaly honest and be yourself because people who mind dont matter and those who matter don't mind.
Don't let anyone change you, IF they won't like you for that they are not worth it and then you will find someone who will respect you and treat you like a queen or king.
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